need a hug

[PandoraHealer]

greif.- I'm so tired of trying to help people. a friend of mine has baby bearded dragons for sale- he was willing to give me a lower price as well as any of my friends. I asked around b/c i knew a few people- and i'm supposed to go pick up 3 of them today.
I owe the guy over 100$- I was also going to get a rabbit for one of his snakes and take the price of the rabbit off the bill.

I have picked out the 3 babies already- about 2 weeks ago- and they've been set in a seperate cage just for me.

I get a phone call 10 min. ago from one of the girls saying she can't get a beardie b/c she doesn't have the $ this week. This girl is the same one that knows the "rabbit guy"- soooo-
Now i'm stuck buying the beardie for her AND trying to find a rabbit last minute. woo- hoo- I was supposed to get 3 rabbits from the "rabbit guy" today to feed our snakes.

I'm so tired of getting screwed but I'm so desperate for friends that I won't tell her how it is. Her husband just got fired last week for poor attendance (probably another reason they don't have money)- before that they were bringing in 600-900 $ a WEEK!!! and have a fraction of the bills we have.
We get 350 a week and SSI of 623 a month- we have a car payment- 320/mo- they dont
we have car insurance for 2 cars- 120$/mo- they rarely keep thiers paid
we have a mortgage of 713- their rent is 380
we have a car and a truck to put gas in- they have 1 truck... .we spend around 200 in gas per week- they spend 40 (or so i'm told)
we also have 30 animals- they have 3....
we have 2 kids.... they have none....
our house is twice the size and so are our bills....

i'm just so annoyed with her... any myself-

I get run over and plowed through and treated like $hit b/c i'm waaay too nice to people-
I'm so desperate for friends and someone to talk to around here- that are my age... it just sucks-
(this is the same girl that left my dogs trapped in my house for 13 days after my daughter was born and shipped 3 hours away- she said she'd take care of my dogs... wanna guess what i came home to? and we aren't talking chiuauas= i have german shepherds and a wolf- big dog- big poo....) but again- i have no friends around here...... it sucks

i dont really feel better...... just wanted to request a hug.
thank you!
BB-PH

[Eternal Night]

_pounce_ _pounce__pounce_ _pounce__pounce_ _pounce_
_pounce_ _pounce__pounce_ _pounce__pounce_ _pounce_

Aww hun that whomps..........wish there was something better i could say....

[October]

:hugz: I'm sorry for your troubles.

[Lylian]

:hugz: People can be so inconsiderate .

[Annorah]

Sending calming and comforting energies your way.

:hugz:

[PandoraHealer]

thank you- it was settled a bit ago- my friend that owns the beardies- gave me a deal- He's going to keep the snake I took to him a few days ago that needed some 'work' done- in trade for one of the beardies- he also charged me less for the other 2.

I also took it upon myself to just stop by the 'rabbit guys' house- He gave me his number and said it would be easier that way- lol- so I got the rabbits I needed, took one to my bearded dragon guy to feed the snake i took him a few days ago- and he gave me 2 rats that I needed for some burmese pythons i have- so it worked out great

I really didn't feel better until i checked this though- Eternal Nite- those hugs are hysterical.
Thank you everyone- I appriciate it. I just get so worked up so easily sometimes- especially when its with this girl.... its just so annoying.... and i really want to vent on and on about her but i will refrain, nobody else should have to listen to it - it would take all day before I was done.

I really do appriciate the hugs- makes me feel good and loved. Thanks guys!
BB-PH

[Philosophia]

:hugz::hugz::hugz::hugz::hugz:

[Willow Rosette]

Honey you know where I am and Im always here for you. :hugz:

[October]

Oh good, I'm glad everything got sorted out.

[Lauren Michele]

:hugz:

[~Audra~]

:hugz:

hope things get better

[Shaw]

:hugz: :hugz: I'm here if you need someone to talk to PH. About anything. I know what a strain money can be. You can send me a PM anytime.