Weekly Divination - What you can say

[Hope]

I think we did this one once before, BUT I thought ya all may wanna offer up ideas again.


Sometimes you want to say something and you need to find the nice way to say it; the pc way to say it. Generally what comes to mind are things like you are a moron, who dresses you, etc. People often have an easier time thinking of what to say BUT a harder time with how to say it nicely.

So give us some examples of what you say and how.

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[LisaT4P]

I think this is where you have to gauge your audience. LOL

If you know the person you're reading for can take the harsher truth, I think you should go with it. If you're not sure, then trying to find a PC way to say it might feel like it is a better way to go.

Although, I've had some clients who were just dense and didn't GET the pc answer, so I had to turn to the harsher one.

Nice ways to say:

Devil card - you're a ho-bag - "have you been going out alot lately?"

King of Cups - you're a drunk - "I see that there may be some addiction issues here"

Page of Swords reversed - you're stupid! - "I'm sensing some confusion and maybe misinformation... is there something you've been struggling with?"

LOL Very fun.

[Windsmith]

Wow, Lisa. Excellent tact!

This is where it helps that the only people I read for are myself, my mother, and my wife - 3 strong women who don't need any pussy-footing around!

[TheWomanMonster]

Usually I don't beat around the bush when it comes to an answer.
If I think they REALLY need to hear it, I'll say it.

Sometimes though, people don't need to hear "you're acting like a f'in idiot, pull your head out of your arse and grow up"... they need to hear, "there are somethings in your life that aren't positive, you need to adjust, reassess and make the needed changes."

I love Lisa's though. :lol:

I get the devil a lot, am I a ho-bag or just a carnal Capricorn? ;)

[Hope]

LOL Lisa you are awesome :)

I tend to be honest, and say it with a question like

hmm do you find people say you are bull headed?? do not listen well??

harder though when you want to ask

do a lot of people point and laugh at you??

I do however tend to ask questions, letting them say it and then start to own it

also I figure OFTEN the person is clueless, and really can not see the reason or big picture, so I try to draw it out

allowing them to see a bigger circle of influence

and when I am flushing their energy from my space, I say the words and shake my head --- sometime I even stomp my feet laughs

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[TheWomanMonster]

harder though when you want to ask

do a lot of people point and laugh at you??


Maybe they need an example? *points and laughs*
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[LisaT4P]

I get the devil a lot, am I a ho-bag or just a carnal Capricorn? ;)I love ho-bags! LOL I ARE one!