Iris
September 13th, 2007, 06:31 PM
At the moment I'm sorta torn between two guys. I live with my boyfreind, with whom I think I have a good stable relationshp. However, there's always been something sorta 'missing' between us. I wanted to be with someone who understands me - the way I think, and the things I care about. It's hard to have a serious conversation with my boyfriend - he will often just make flippant remarks about issues that I think are important, and this annoys me - we've never really had anything I would describe as a heart-to-heart. And he's not physically my type at all, which sometimes I feel ok about, and sometimes it really bothers me...
The new guy is someone who used to shop where I work, and has now started working alongside me. He's basically my physical ideal - I always used to flirt with him when he shopped in the store, and now that I see him all the time I'm finding it increasingly hard to control my feelings. What I'm not sure about is whether this is just plain lust, or something more, and whether or not he feels anything at all for me...
Can someone please help? This is getting really difficult, and I don't know where else to turn for guidance.
Thanks in advance.
The new guy is someone who used to shop where I work, and has now started working alongside me. He's basically my physical ideal - I always used to flirt with him when he shopped in the store, and now that I see him all the time I'm finding it increasingly hard to control my feelings. What I'm not sure about is whether this is just plain lust, or something more, and whether or not he feels anything at all for me...
Can someone please help? This is getting really difficult, and I don't know where else to turn for guidance.
Thanks in advance.