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[Myst]

Well it is to me at least :)

I apologize in advance if I don't 'want to talk about it' on the chat or elsewhere, but I spent the morning Thursday in the ER. I'm having a miscarriage. The baby has been dead for a month and I'm in the middle of feeling like my insides are being ripped out.

I'm sorry I have no delicate way to say it but I have to say it and I wanted to say it here so everyone would see.

My heart is broken. :(

Gods bless.

[Flaire-FireStar]

Oh gosh, Myst....I really don't know what to say...




((((((((Myst))))))))))

[Dellit Tandannon]

i'm so sorry to hear about this myst. i am always here if you need me. always.

[WtchyChick13]

Oh Myst. My heart is with you. I had one a few years back so I can understand a bit of what you are going through. :(

May the Goddess be with you during this time and may you be filled with healing light.

((((((((((MYST))))))))))

[Flar's Freyja]

Myst, I'm so sorry to hear that. I've never had that experience so I won't say that I know how you feel, but I have children and know that I would have been devastated.

May the Mother wrap you in her arms and heal you.

[materra]

Oh Myst, I am so sorry for you, your family and the wee one you have lost. While there is nothing I can say to help at a time like this I will pray for you and yours.

[Mythrel]

I'm so sorry Myst...my heart goes out to you...

[SimplyStrange]

From lack of anything to say, and lack of being able to say I understand because I don't, and I know that I couldn't understand:

{{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}

I will always be here, Myst. We will always be here for you. Just remember that. I can only offer that, and my condolences, and plenty of virtual

{{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}

[seawitch]

my heart is broken for you too myst. there is nothing i can say that will make you feel better.
i love you, and my thoughts are with you.

[cherrywind]

God, my heart just dropped when I read that :(.
A dear friend of mine had a miscarriage once and she was just devestated. I know there's nothing I can say, but I hope you stay strong and know that everybody's thoughts are with you.

[flar7]

There are no words to ease your pain.
I give you Love and Hope.....:(

[Mithrea]

((((((((Myst))))))))

All I can do is send you energy and light a candle for you. My thoughts are with you.


You know where to look for me if you need anything.

Blessings to you, love.

Holly

[*~*Chary*~*]

OMg ... hun i am sooo sorry .. i dont know what you are feeling but i guess it must be terrible ... again as everyone has said i am always here for you if you need to tok and i will always listen ... my heart goes out to you and you are in my thoughts

(((((((((((((MYST)))))))))))))))

i will light a candle for you and send you lots of energy

((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))

Chary xxxxxx

[shnen]

Myst, I am so sorry... my heart aches for you. :(

My thoughts are with you hun.

[Faery-Wings]

Same here, myst. Never had one myself, but just helped one of my best friends through it two months ago. If there is anything I can do, you need a shoulder, a hug or an ear to b**** to, let me know.

I am so sorry for your loss. I will say a prayer that your soul can heal as quickly as the body does. And a prayer for your baby too. May you find peace and comfort, when you are ready to and may each day bring you closer to that peace. I am just so sorry. :(

(((HUGS)))

[callalily]

Myst, I am so sorry for you. Sending healing love and prayers for peace.

[Old Witch]

Myst, I lost my first child to a miscarriage also.........My heart aches for you.............Love and what comfort I can offer...............

[Nissala]

Myst, I am so sorry to hear this... my heart and prayers are with you...Sending love, light and healing energies to you...:(


((((((((Myst)))))))))

[Kaylara]

I'm so sorry hon... Big time hugs...

Kaylara

[MammaStar]

I offer you an ear and lots of (((HUGS))) to you.

I wish I could say something to ease the pain and sadness.

((((((((((MYST)))))))))) :heartthro :heartthro

[Ganga]

Myst, I'm so sorry. Such a short, little life.
My thoughts are with you.
May Goddess hold you and the baby's dad on Her lap.

[Melysande]

(((((Myst)))))

You have my deepest sympathy.

[Jeleia]

I'm so sorry Myst :( I know It must be so hard for you, keep strong hun.

[mol]

:(

[Danustouch]

Myst...i'm so sorry for your loss. If you want to talk about it, please let me know...((((((((((((((YOU))))))))))))))))))))))). I feel so terrible. May the Goddess comfort and bless you during this difficult time.

[Radocs]

Very sorry to hear that, Myst. My thoughts are with you... :(

[Twilight Garden]

:ack: I actually teared up when I read your post. I'm so sorry for the pain you must be feeling right now. May Hekate hold you tight in her embrace.

[Medusa @ Dawn]

My thoughts are with you!

[Arduinna]

Myst, I am so sorry! If you ever need someone to talk to feel free to pm me. ((HUGS))

[Emaleth]

I'm very sorry Myst! I know that it is not much, but my heart and thoughts are with you. May the Goddess comfort you and you family in your loss.

Blessed Be

[CoolJ]

omg... i'm sorry myst, that's awful..... (((((((((MYST))))))

:( i really don't know what to say..... :wah:

[Ravens_Tears]

Sweetheart, you don't ever have to be sorry about being honest about how you are feeling, especially when it comes to something like this. And it is important. I have been there. I know there's not really anything I can say or do that can make it better. But, when you are ready to talk, please do. It will help. For now all I can do is (((((((huggs))))))), I wish there was more. And even though you feel really alone right now, you are not. There are alot of people that care about you.

[Armitage]

*hugs*

[SwissCelt]

(((((Myst)))))

[MistOfTheSea86]

*hugs you tightly* Be strong, my thoughts are with you *healing energies coming your way*

[Rubi Waters]

Myst, theres nothing I can say to make you feel any better...so I just offer you ((((hugs)))) and healing energy sent to you and your fiance.

[Myst]

Thanks everyone for the kind words, healing blessings, and thoughts. I thank Goddess for all my friends here at MW.

[Azure]

*much sympathy*

[Laiste]

{{{{{{Myst}}}}}}} I am so sorry to hear of your loss!:( I can certainly relate and understand what you are going through. I have lighted a candle and have sent healing energies your way. If you need to talk you know where to find me!

[Fire_Crotch132074]

omg... I read that and my whole body went numb... I'm so sorry Myst. You will be in my prayers tonight. I don't know what else to say... I'm sorry and everyone is here for you.:( Your in everyones prayers.

[Sequoia]

ohh myst. . . . I"m so sorry!!! *BIG HUGS* myst. . . if there's anything I can do, just let me know. . . you're in my thoughts and prayers *HUGS* I hope you're feeling better soon :(

[Annika]

(((Myst)))

I'm so sorry. You are in my thoughts. May the Goddess wrap comforting arms around you.

Annika

[Psyche Ague]

{{{Myst}}}

Goddess Bless You, Sweetness.

[Grey]

You seem to have enough hearts to spill on but if you need me...
Just remember miscarried babes often do so to become gaurdians for there families so the baby will always be with you on your knee or over your shoulder forever.

[Eeluna]

I know the pain must be horrible. My deepest sympathies. I am sending healing energy your way. Blessed Be.

[Angelwulfe]

so sad. i'm not sure what to say. my heart goes out to you and your fiancee. sending energy your way. hugs.

[PeleRising]

I am so very sorry! I will light a candle for you both and your wee little one. My heart aches for you all!!!:(

[WandererInGray]

There's never an easy way to say things like that.

*hugs, energy, prayers and love for Myst and her fiancée*

May the goddess ease the pain, and bless you soon with healing joy.

[Phoenix Blue]

Myst, I'm sorry. **Offers a hug** I went through a couple miscarriages with my now-ex when I was still married. . . **shakes head**

Best wishes to you, and your husband. I'll keep you both in my thoughts.

[Desert_Shadow]

Myst, I am so very sorry. I pray the Goddess wrap you in love and kindness. May she bring you and your family through this trying time as gently as possible.

[Cinnamon Girl]

Oh, Myst - may you and your husband find comfort and strength in each other during this heartbreaking time.

(((Myst)))

[Wyrdsister]

You will always have the support of us here, Myst. My heart breaks for you and my eyes spill over with tears for you. If there is anything you want - a phone call, a prayer, a healing rit, a pack of smokes (??), a back rub - anything, even wierd, you name it and I'll do my best to help you. Just pm me or email me whenever you want.

You, your baby and your hubby will be in my thoughts and prayers. Goddess Bless you all.

Wyrdsister

[CatDancing]

Myst, I just read your post and my heart sank. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of grief. May the Goddess cradle all of you in Her loving enbrace.
CatDancing

[Witchy Cowgirl]

Myst, as I wipe away the tears that fall for you and yours, I lift all you up for blessings. My heart to yours.

[Myst]

Thanks everyone for your kind words and support. I thank Goddess for my friends here. It's been just over a week since we found out and I feel I'm starting to come to terms with it. My babies are with me in spirit, and someday will be in my arms, just not 'till we're ready!

I just found a lovely page where a woman shares her story of losing her baby and it hit so close to home, especially the last two paragraphs. If you are interested, you can find it here (http://www.motherspirit.net/articles/pregnancy/amber.htm)

[Nissala]

reading the page will touch more than your heart, it will touch your soul, as it touched mine...

Thank you Myst for sharing that lovely page.

[Haedis]

Yes, thank you for sharing that article Myst. It was really helpful for me.

[Sequoia]

thank you, myst. . . that was indeed a special writing. . .

[Danustouch]

Myst..that article was very touching. Thanks for sharing it. And I hope that you will continue to be comforted during this time of great sadness for you, and that the Goddess will continue to hold you in her arms.

[Dagda Moon~Lily]

{{{Myst}}} Sending healing energy your way hon. :heartthro

[Semele]

Wow, that was a wonderful page. It says things that I have thought for such a long time. I have known women who have thmeselves talked about their own experiences in ways that broke my heart. I always just assumed that they were guarding and didn't want to hold onto the pain. I am glad to hear it is ok to tell you how very much we are still thinking of you and your baby. It is in my thoughts every time I think of you. I know it still hurts Myst, and I know it will continue to do so. I still feel the pain from losing Trey's twin brother that we didn't even know about. I love you friend!

[Myst]

I got some gemstones to represent each of the babies; I think of them as girls and am thinking of naming them and I carry the stones with me to symbolize how they are always with me. Rick made a great bindrune to go along with this; tho I won't explain the totality of what I'm doing because it's personal.

I'm still heartbroken and there is nothing else in this world that seems to matter as much as my girls but I guess life goes on even if try not to let it. So thanks again to everyone who has offered support and everyone who reads this thread because they are concerned about how things are going and care. Gods bless you.

Some people expect women to stop mourning their 'pregnancy' a few days after. If a relative died no one would expect you to stop talking about it within a few days or a week, and yet people expect you to drop it because it was a 'pregnancy' (not directed at anyone here, just general comment). The lady who wrote the article is right, it was a baby, and to the woman who lost it a person and a life. It's unfortunate that people have that mentality that oh well you'll have another one, or oh well it wasn't meant to be, like that makes it ok; or they just ignore that the baby ever existed and never mention it. To me, I'm just starting to be able to think about anything other then that for moments at a time.

[WtchyChick13]

To me, I'm just starting to be able to think about anything other then that for moments at a time.

...and may each moment be more healing than the last.


((((Hugs Sweetie))))