How to date a Libra

[Rina]

:spinnysmi Ok, another silly one from me.

How does a scorpio girl like me go about getting and keeping the interest of a Libra chappie.

Two issues here: For the first time ever he's almost the same age as me (I normally go for older guys)
Secondly, he's French. His english is great, thankfully.

Don't really know how to deal with air signs, other than Geminis...
Help!
(Jokes and any silly suggestions welcome)

[Thunder]

I could never understand why the sign for Libra is the scales... unless they were ment to be in constant motion from one extreme to the other. Every Libra I have ever known has been out of balance...

My advice................ RUN! :yikess: :alol:

[RedRose]

Hi Rina,

I am almost incapable of doing Sun Sign astrology, especially in regards to romance. Were you to tell me what Mars and Venus are up to in both your scopes, I'd have more to go on.

Hmmm. Libra Suns appreciate beauty and light. They notice the difference it makes when you move that flower arrangement three inches to the left, and a shade forward. You can often catch them making these little adjustment for you, discreetly. They are happy for you to take the credit.

A Libra male is a great audience for your wardrobe. They give good advice, and do it kindly. Do not fear that you don't come up to his standard in this regard. If he didn't like how you look, he wouldn't be interested.

If he isn't interested, don't bother to try to make him interested either. Libra men let you know that they admire you. Unlike many other males, they have no trouble telling you and showing you important things like that. They are uncanny, in truth. They often know just what to say and how you feel, and why. Libra males are just right romantic - not goopy, not disinterested either.

Hope that helps.

RedRose

[risen75]

Well.. seeing as how I am a libra... I'll tell you the only thing we really want is to have someone who is truthfull and not scared of their feelings.

Thunder.. as for us being unbalanced... well.. the reason our sign is the scales is not because we're balanced, but that we 90% of the time bring balance to everything else (or at least try to, sorry it's our nature) and the balancer is never balanced :)

but like it was already said.. if he doesn't show an interest in you.. good luck... if you're already dating (aka already started the relationship) then just be honest with him and NEVER try to hide your emotions from him.. why? because he'll know what you're feeling and he'll know when you're full of S*** about them, and that'll kill a relationship with a libra faster than the electric chair.

[Thunder]

Well.. seeing as how I am a libra... I'll tell you the only thing we really want is to have someone who is truthfull and not scared of their feelings.

Thunder.. as for us being unbalanced... well.. the reason our sign is the scales is not because we're balanced, but that we 90% of the time bring balance to everything else (or at least try to, sorry it's our nature) and the balancer is never balanced :)

but like it was already said.. if he doesn't show an interest in you.. good luck... if you're already dating (aka already started the relationship) then just be honest with him and NEVER try to hide your emotions from him.. why? because he'll know what you're feeling and he'll know when you're full of S*** about them, and that'll kill a relationship with a libra faster than the electric chair.

In all honesty, my experience with Libras is strictly with the female version... I don't know if that matters, .... but they were as mad as hatters :rotfl:.

My Ex (go ahead... say it) lives in a world of extremes. Everything is either: The Greatest, Best, biggest, most beautiful, etc. etc. etc. OR... a peice of shit. Oddly, her world is utterly bereft of middle-ground. Her moods follows her tastes. All the way up/All the way down. The only time she ever spent in the middle was for the brief instant that she waved to me as she plumeted bast the window of Normal World on her way to depression land. She also raised hubris to an art form and was consumed like no one I have ever met with "being important".

I had a female friend who could have been her emotional twin (only brunette). She eventually dropped off the face of the earth. Was my close friend for 15 years then literally disappeared... haven't seen her for nearly as long even though I have reached out to her through her family. Just to head off the obvious next question... she walked out of the lives of everyone we mutually knew. No one has heard from her........... Libra.

My sons ex and my ex's mom are all also Libras and they fit the previous description like a glove.

Sorry, I know it is a small sample from which to judge but it is, frankly every Libra woman I know and as a team they are batting 1000 (or zero, depending on your perspective).8O

[banondraig]

In all honesty, my experience with Libras is strictly with the female version... I don't know if that matters, .... but they were as mad as hatters :rotfl:.

My Ex (go ahead... say it) lives in a world of extremes. Everything is either: The Greatest, Best, biggest, most beautiful, etc. etc. etc. OR... a peice of shit. Oddly, her world is utterly bereft of middle-ground. Her moods follows her tastes. All the way up/All the way down. The only time she ever spent in the middle was for the brief instant that she waved to me as she plumeted bast the window of Normal World on her way to depression land. She also raised hubris to an art form and was consumed like no one I have ever met with "being important".

I had a female friend who could have been her emotional twin (only brunette). She eventually dropped off the face of the earth. Was my close friend for 15 years then literally disappeared... haven't seen her for nearly as long even though I have reached out to her through her family. Just to head off the obvious next question... she walked out of the lives of everyone we mutually knew. No one has heard from her........... Libra.

My sons ex and my ex's mom are all also Libras and they fit the previous description like a glove.

Sorry, I know it is a small sample from which to judge but it is, frankly every Libra woman I know and as a team they are batting 1000 (or zero, depending on your perspective).8O

I'm a Libra and I'm not a bit lke that.

*****

As a Libra, though not a man, I can advise Rina to make sure she puts a little extra effort into grooming for a date. I hate it when men don't bother to dress nicely or at least shave before going out, although I don't typically say anything to them about it. Most Libra men I have known notice things like that in a similar fashion.

[Thunder]

I'm a Libra and I'm not a bit lke that.

On behalf of everyone in your life... I thank the Gods.

I said it was a small sample size..... and I don't mean to impune all Libras.... Just my experience... my friend.

[LibraMoon]

Im a libran woman and my hubby is scorpion.. (I know thats the other way around, but its worked well for us for the last 15 years)

I like fairness.. and I like balance.. I enjoy extremes, but in a balanced and fair way lol.

[RedRose]

Check out our "Lovely Libras" thread:

http://mysticwicks.com/showthread.php?t=37169&highlight=Lovely+Libra