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bluecat
April 30th, 2001, 04:26 PM
Here is something to share ... got it in my email today. :cool:


I don't know who wrote this, but it was sent to me by a friend and is worth thinking about....

Too many people put off something that brings them joy just because they haven't thought about it, don't have it on their schedules, didn't know it was coming, or were too rigid to depart from their routines.

I got to thinking one day about all those women on the Titanic who passed up dessert at dinner that fateful night in an effort to cut back. Ever since, I've tried to be a little more flexible.

How many women out there will eat at home because their husbands didn't suggest going out to dinner until after something was thawed? Does the word "refrigeration" mean anything to you?

How often have your kids dropped in to talk and sat in silence while you watched "Jeopardy" on television?

I cannot count the times I called my sister and said, "How about going to lunch in half an hour?" She would gasp and stammer, "I can't." Check one: "I have clothes in the dryer." "My hair is a mess." "I wish I had known yesterday." "I had a late breakfast." "It looks like rain." And my personal favorite: "It's Monday." My sister died a few years ago. We never did have lunch together.

Because we Americans cram so much into our lives, we tend to schedule our headaches. We live on a sparse diet of promises we make to ourselves when all the conditions are perfect.

We'll go back and visit the grandparents when we get Stevie toilet trained.

We'll entertain when we replace the living room carpet. We'll go on a second honeymoon when we get two more kids out of college.

Life has a way of accelerating as we get older. The days get shorter, and the list of promises to ourselves gets longer. One morning we awaken, and all we have to show for our lives is a litany
of "I'm going to," "I plan on," and "Some day when things settle down a bit."

When anyone calls my 'seize-the-moment friend', she is open to adventure and available for trips. She keeps an open mind on new ideas. Her enthusiasm for life is contagious. You talk with her for five minutes and you're ready to trade your bad feet for a pair of roller blades and skip the elevator for a bungee cord.

My lips have not touched ice cream in 10 years. I love ice cream. It's just that I might as well apply it directly to my hips with a spatula and eliminate the digestive process. The other day, I
stopped the car and bought a triple-decker. If my car had hit an iceberg on the way home, I would have died happy.



Blue :cool:

Earth Walker
April 30th, 2001, 04:46 PM
Four Thumbs Up! :cool: :D


Violence is the last refuge of the incompetent.:crazy:
---Isaac Asimov - Foundation

ruthie
April 30th, 2001, 04:51 PM
It is something that we should all take to heart. Live for the moment as tomorrow all things could be much different. However, we also need to temper this with the need for time to ourselves, immediate family, and relaxation. Otherwise we will all be suffering burn out!!:D

Lisa McKay
April 30th, 2001, 05:22 PM
Thanks for sharing Blue! I definitely need to learn to live in the now instead of the perpetual "what if?" mental tirade. ;)

sherry
May 1st, 2001, 12:29 AM
I agree totally with this !!
AND Why do they offer a huge desert after you eat when you feel stuffed where were they when you waited 20 minutes for supper!! That is when you wanted something, would have been the perfect time for it then!!:D

Lavender
May 1st, 2001, 12:36 AM
When I die, I want my gravestone to say "no regrets". I always eat desert. In fact, I ALWAYS ask to see the desert menu BEFORE I order. :bigredgri

*ULA*
May 1st, 2001, 07:13 PM
I think I needed to read that today.

Your timing is impeccable. :)

Lady Tana
May 2nd, 2001, 09:10 AM
My mother taught me the art of eating desert first..

you never know whats gonna happen before you get to it :)


living in/for the day/moment is something that I am finally learning to do... (and my job hates me for it haha)

Dria El
May 3rd, 2001, 12:52 PM
Sadly enough, I learned this lesson last year when my grandmother died. I had always promised I'd come out and have lunch with her. I never found the time or couldn't afford it or whatever. Now she's gone and I really miss her. Please take this lesson to heart. Sometimes regret REALLY hurts.

Regretfully,
Dria El

idusty88
May 4th, 2001, 03:01 PM
Well put.

Xois
May 4th, 2001, 03:18 PM
i'll make sure to enter "have time for joy" in to my PalmPolit! :)

hehehe

thanks for sharing!