TuathaSidhe
May 5th, 2008, 04:14 PM
OK, well, before my long long extended leave of absence from the board, I had written about my ex husband, who had fallen into some trouble with the federal gov. and treating his kids no so good, ect ect ect.
I'll sum it up....
Well, his orginally charge from the feds was 4 count felony gun pos. He took a guilty plea and they gave him 1 count felony gun pos. (why I will never know).
He started his sentence the beginning of this month and is now doing a 33 month stretch.
The last time he saw his kids were last Oct. of 07. At which time, he told my daughter that she wasnt allowed to come back, because his wife did not like her attitude.....shes only 10 years old!!!
Well, they also told my mother in law this who was being the go between for us (there was an order of protection in place and he wasnt allowed to come near me).
Well, of course they didnt give details to MIL but according to my daughter, he told her that until she got better (shes not sick!) that she wasnt allowed to come back to his house and lost her privalige (this guy is reall self centered).
On top of that, I had to take her to the dr. because well, she could hardly walk. His "wife" (more like boss as she has told the kids time and time again that its her rules and not daddies rules...in front of him no less) had made her do thos leg squats for so long she couldnt move her legs. And also proceeded to tell her that she was lucky she even had a small place to sit at her kitchen table.
SO, ya..lots of other stuff but i'll not get into it.
Neeless to say, im heavily debating on trying to take his rights as parent away, as one of the requirements is being in prison.
Out of all the requirements to do so, he meets 3 of them 100% and at least 2 more, as I see some of the things he did and let his "wife" do as abuse.
Well, I havent told them about their father yet and have been sorta reluctant to. I know it needs to be done and there are LOTS of things we need to talk about and discuss as a family and make choices on.
Regardless of everything, they are still kids and they still love him I suppose (I say suppose cause they havent even asked for him since Oct.)
So, if you good, send some energy to my kids please. They will need it. At this point im not worried about me, im more worried about them and how things will go in the future..<sigh>
I'll sum it up....
Well, his orginally charge from the feds was 4 count felony gun pos. He took a guilty plea and they gave him 1 count felony gun pos. (why I will never know).
He started his sentence the beginning of this month and is now doing a 33 month stretch.
The last time he saw his kids were last Oct. of 07. At which time, he told my daughter that she wasnt allowed to come back, because his wife did not like her attitude.....shes only 10 years old!!!
Well, they also told my mother in law this who was being the go between for us (there was an order of protection in place and he wasnt allowed to come near me).
Well, of course they didnt give details to MIL but according to my daughter, he told her that until she got better (shes not sick!) that she wasnt allowed to come back to his house and lost her privalige (this guy is reall self centered).
On top of that, I had to take her to the dr. because well, she could hardly walk. His "wife" (more like boss as she has told the kids time and time again that its her rules and not daddies rules...in front of him no less) had made her do thos leg squats for so long she couldnt move her legs. And also proceeded to tell her that she was lucky she even had a small place to sit at her kitchen table.
SO, ya..lots of other stuff but i'll not get into it.
Neeless to say, im heavily debating on trying to take his rights as parent away, as one of the requirements is being in prison.
Out of all the requirements to do so, he meets 3 of them 100% and at least 2 more, as I see some of the things he did and let his "wife" do as abuse.
Well, I havent told them about their father yet and have been sorta reluctant to. I know it needs to be done and there are LOTS of things we need to talk about and discuss as a family and make choices on.
Regardless of everything, they are still kids and they still love him I suppose (I say suppose cause they havent even asked for him since Oct.)
So, if you good, send some energy to my kids please. They will need it. At this point im not worried about me, im more worried about them and how things will go in the future..<sigh>