Friendship Repairing Spell

[Amaya-chan]

I know that spells to change peoples minds on things and forcing them to think or do something aren't right and they don't work but is there any spell I can do to help me and my friend who is very angry with me get back together as good friends? I honestly miss her and everything and I've tried everything without magic and I've gotten to the point where this is my last resort. Does anyone have any spell suggestions for this?

~Amaya-chan

[Caitlin.ann]

My advice: Instead of trying to use magic, give her some space. Some things are better solved in non-magical ways. Forget the whole control thing, this isn't really coming into my line of thinking. She's mad at you for a reason. You've let her know you're sorry, give her some space and let her come to you. Its the most respectful thing you can do as a friend.

[Amaya-chan]

I completely understand that, the thing is she wrote me a letter saying a bunch of reasons why she shouldn't be my friend and I asked her what was wrong and tried to approach her in a calm way and she told me pretty much just to grow up and find myself. So I've been giving her space but I guess I wanted to resort to magic because I miss her but I suppose I'll give her more space, thanks for the advice.

[Caitlin.ann]

Just curious. What did you do? What are those reasons? And how old are you?

Of course you don't have to share that info, but it would help give a clearer picture of the situation.

[Amaya-chan]

I don't like to share my age on forums this size so I'll keep that to myself ^^; But I honestly don't see what I did, I could be blind to the fact of what happened but it first started when she got a new boyfriend and she began to ignore all people around her

In the letter she said that the reasons she shouldn't be my friend is because she was not wanted by me which in all honesty is not true because I care for her deeply, also was quite angry that I would act differently around others than I would her more like she learned it to be I didn't like to show my entire personality to many but her. I apologized many times though as in maybe 3 or 4 times and she ignored them all.

[Caitlin.ann]

Woah totally missed your signature. And I understand that you wouldn't like to state your age, but from the information in your siggy, you're approximately 14 or 15. That being said. to be honest, it sounds like a lot of drama typical of that age. Its a tough period of life, but its not the end and it does get better. Girls tend to act as she is at that age when they first get a boyfriend. It wasn't so long that I was that age and frustrated at my friends and others around me acting the same way. Luckily that doesn't happen anymore at my age. She obviously feels ignored to you. Maybe you had been busy and didn't realize you were neglecting her? Maybe its her own insecurity and not a fault of yours? Maybe you don't notice when you change? I can't know, but her feelings have obviously been hurt.

That being said, since you've apologized, you should definitely give her time and let her come around as I've stated before. It sucks, but things definitely get better later in life. People will tell you these years are the best in life, but those are lies. Being a teenager is filled with angst and dram and is really crappy. But rest assured, it does indeed get better.

Thanks for sharing. :)

ETA: Knowing all this really does help the strength of my advice and strengthens the fact that using magic for something like this would be a real waste of time. How long have you been doing magic? You may not want to meddle with a spell like this if you're brand new to it.

[Amaya-chan]

Whoops I feel a bit stupid now since I have my signature with my graduation and not my age oh well yes I am 14 X3 But I guess that does make sense, I'll give her space and see what happens, thanks again for the advice ^__^

[Caitlin.ann]

Whoops I feel a bit stupid now since I have my signature with my graduation and not my age oh well yes I am 14 X3 But I guess that does make sense, I'll give her space and see what happens, thanks again for the advice ^__^

You're welcome. :)

[synopa]

excellent post!

May I also add that as painful as this is right now, it will get better because time really does help. These are important times for you because you are learning valuable lessons that you will need your whole life.

Here's hoping she comes around soon! and kudos to you for keeping your age to yourself! :thumbsup:

[Caitlin.ann]

excellent post!

May I also add that as painful as this is right now, it will get better because time really does help. These are important times for you because you are learning valuable lessons that you will need your whole life.

Here's hoping she comes around soon! and kudos to you for keeping your age to yourself! :thumbsup:

Eh..it wasn't really kept private. *points at siggy* ;)

[synopa]

she tried! :giggle:

[Caitlin.ann]

Lol anyways, I respect her need for privacy. What I was really going for was an age range. I figured high school-ish but turned out to be Jr. high. But I think at least knowing the range of age helps a lot in better understanding whats going on. Just saying..

[Amaya-chan]

I attempted to keep my age to myself but I failed X3 I'm not too concerned giving out my age its just on larger forums like this I tend to try to keep it private.

[Caitlin.ann]

Lol then I advice a siggy change...

[Amaya-chan]

Yeah I'm gonna go do that and just put graduation on it instead of what one

[Caitlin.ann]

That would probably be better if you're worried about internet safety. If I figured it out then anyone can. :)

[Amaya-chan]

Yeah, I'm not overly safe on the internet...but I changed it just to be a little bit safer.

[Teresa]

My Advice is to just give her some time. Hopefully she will come around . She will begin to miss you and realize that boyfriends may come and go but a true friend is always there through the good and bad times. True friends forgive when they have been neglected too and care about us knowing all our flaws. Just keep being thoughtful and let her have some space and see what happens. Sometimes things just take time.


You can go to http://www.luckymojo.com and look up Sweet Spell and probably find a Honey Jar Spell or a Sweet Spell but in this case I would just give it time if I were You. :hugz:

[Amaya-chan]

Thank you Shalaye for the link and I'm taking everyone's advice and yeah ^__^

[Teresa]

Thank you Shalaye for the link and I'm taking everyone's advice and yeah ^__^

:thumbsup::uhhuhuh:

[RunningRiot]

When my friend was in an abusive cycle to herself and started to ignore the people trying to help her, like her friends and parents, I wrote her name on a paper and put it in a mostly empty perfume bottle with sugar and water. She got real sweet :lol