Love spell for me and my girlfriend :)

[vocis noctis]

My girlfriend and I want to do a love spell. We're totally in love and happy for the last 9 months now, and just to emphasise our feelings for each other we want to do something very special: a romantic and intense lovespell on each other. We feel kinda like "You could never understand my feelings for you", because we both find it too rare to be true, frankly :)
I know a 'spell' isn't really the word for it but I was just wondering if anyone knows nice things we could do together? It would rock :)

[Melysande]

"If it ain't broke, don't fix it." :)

However, doing a ritual to affirm your current degree of love for one another is nice. You could recite poetry to each other. You could feed each other and bathe each other. Not sexual, just love. You could give each other massages and imbue each touch with every ounce of the feeling you're feeling. You could create music together or write a ballad together, or write a story together that shows how far you would quest for your love. You could each go outside with a bottle in a rainstorm (Thank you, Rod Stewart, for that line: "Who else is gonna bring you a bottle of rain?") I once read about a sexual technique that involved both parties visualizing themselves as the ocean. They claimed it was incredible and lovely.

[Flar's Freyja]

I like those ideas, Mely. And you could call on the goddess Freyja to be with you as you do some of these things, but be careful.....she usually steps right in and you just end up going along for the ride ~ but it's always a very nice ride :)

Vocis, did you mean a ritual rather than a spell? It wouldn't be a good idea to cast a spell on your relationship, because this could interfere with the free will of both of you and could complicate things if it isn't meant to be and you might not like the result.

[Silverfern]

Toen mijn vriend en ik een jaar bij elkaar waren hebben we een ritueel voor ons samen in elkaar gezet om onze liefde als het ware te bezegelen.
We hadden allebei mooie kleding gekocht en de dag dat we dat ritueel wilde doen hebben we de slaapkamer overladen met mooie bloemen kaarsen champagne wierook enz enz. We hadden een gedicht voor elkaar geschreven dat we voorlazen muziek die we beide mooi vonden stond aan op de achtergrond. en daarna lagen we in elkaars armen voor een aantal uren luisterend naar elkaars gedachten.

Waar je ook naar zou kunnen kijken is een handverbintenis (handfasting) ritueel. Er is onwijs veel info op het net.

Groetjes

[Flar's Freyja]

:) Could you translate for the rest of us?

[Silverfern]

Sorry!! I saw Zwolle and went over to dutch without thinking :D
I was telling about a ritual my BF and I did that we made the bedroom extra nice, special music in the background and we wrote a poem for each other. After reading the poem we were just holding each other for hours

[Flar's Freyja]

That's okay, I thought it was really sweet!