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Phoenix Blue
September 11th, 2002, 07:36 PM
I read through the now-closed thread. I don't know what to say, or where to begin. . . **shakes head sadly** I really don't.

I know everyone here is under a lot of stress. We've all lived through a trying year, and the events that happened a year ago today hurt us all in some way or another.

Let's remember that snapping at others is the wrong answer, no matter how upset we feel. **Soft smile**

Most parents do the best they can. But some parents are downright abusive. I'm a survivor of an abusive parent-child relationship. For you who aren't. . . try to imagine being trapped in a house with your abuser, where you have almost no recourse. You can't leave--if you're caught, you're simply returned to your parents. Not all abuse leaves bruises; and it's almost impossible for a minor to prove mental abuse in a legal arena.

Puma, I'm sorry you had a bad day. **Huggles for Reneé-chan** And I hope that, as my Love Wanderer suggested, you can get out of the situation you're in at the first opportunity.

PrincessHLHofMW
September 11th, 2002, 07:57 PM
***puma*** my poor puma! ***hugs*** im always here!

Tammy Sullivan
September 11th, 2002, 07:58 PM
I pm'd hugs too, but I have plenty more.
(((((PUMA)))))

Flaire-FireStar
September 11th, 2002, 08:41 PM
(((((((((((((Puma))))))))))))))) :heartthro

SerenityMoon
September 11th, 2002, 08:50 PM
i love you befuchan!! *hugs her sis*

Sequoia
September 11th, 2002, 09:04 PM
omg. . . you are all so sweet. . . .

*BIG HUGS*

thank you!! thank you so very much. . . :)

Emerald Oak
September 11th, 2002, 09:37 PM
(((((((((Puma)))))))))

That thread was closed? What happened?

Djiril
September 11th, 2002, 09:47 PM
I'm sorry for all the nastiness on that other thread. I hope it's just because today has been stressful for some people.
(((((PUMA)))))
May things get better soon.:heartthro

materra
September 11th, 2002, 10:33 PM
Dear MW friends, sometimes our own pain and issues cloud our best judgements. Mine cloud my horizons too, create my opinions, and open my mouth with advice. I imagine it is similar at times for most of us.

There are more sides to every encounter than we ever know and sometime we can be very determined to defend our stance inspite of new information or even common sense. When I encounter mirrored actions of my own issues or hurtful experiences I react more from an emotional stance rather than a concidered view point. I think this happened here.

I wish for healing for all, warm hugs to banish pain, gentle words to guide us, the spirit of generousity and loving hearts to support our friends. (((Puma))) (((all our MW friends))) Brightest Blessings to all.