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Invidosa
August 30th, 2008, 01:23 AM
The love of my life just broke up with me. I don't want anyone else, how did this happen? I'm losing it guys.. can anybody spare some calming and healing energies?

Am3thyst3R4yn3
August 30th, 2008, 03:23 AM
I understand exactly where you are hun. I may be coming bakc to what i like to call my little dead zone soon myself. So i will send you healing calming energy and ask the goddess to help you fare better than i have. lots of :hugz: for you.

Cat
August 30th, 2008, 06:49 AM
Calming and healing energies heading your way.

WitchOfEndor
August 30th, 2008, 07:59 AM
:hugz: healing energy sent your way

Teresa
August 30th, 2008, 11:36 PM
:hugz:

Sakurako
August 31st, 2008, 12:45 AM
:hugz:

Annorah
August 31st, 2008, 01:02 PM
Healing, comforting and loving energies on their way to you.

:hugz:

Philosophia
September 1st, 2008, 08:58 AM
Sending healing, positive, and calming energy to you! :hugz:

Invidosa
September 2nd, 2008, 08:29 AM
Thanks folks. I actually ended up staying in the hospital for a while over this weekend, I was jsut out of control and it was decided that it was the best for me. I'm feeling better today, if a little groggy from new meds. Anyway big thank yous and hugs to everybody who lends a hand i really really appreciate it. As for the relationship, we are going to be talking. What it comes down to is he is "not sure if he is 100% in love with me" which just ripped my guts out when he said it, the one thing, the only thing that I have been 100% sure of is that he loves me, so it put me in a nasty tailspin. That along with my best friend being in the hospital again for surgery (tomorrow) was just too much. Thanks again for your help

Phoenix Blue
September 2nd, 2008, 08:33 AM
:hugz: Energy sent. It's natural to question the nature of your relationship once in a while ... how long have you guys been together, and have you thought about speaking to a relationship counselor?

Invidosa
September 2nd, 2008, 08:54 AM
:hugz: Energy sent. It's natural to question the nature of your relationship once in a while ... how long have you guys been together, and have you thought about speaking to a relationship counselor?

Thanks, I appreciate the help tremendously!

We have been together for a year, friends for three. A big part of the problem is that he is currently living in Texas, I stayed in Michigan for the time being for a laundry list of reasons, and the separation has been harder on him than he had origianally anticipated. Combine that with my emotional instability and it all gets really murky. in short, no we have not, but it's not really possible right now.

Cloaked Raven
September 2nd, 2008, 09:42 AM
Invidosa, I just saw your thread. Forgive me for posting late here.

Positive, calming, and healing energy sent, along with warm thoughts, prayers and a big hug. :hugz:

DreamSpell333
September 2nd, 2008, 10:20 AM
:hugz:

Invidosa
September 2nd, 2008, 10:37 AM
Invidosa, I just saw your thread. Forgive me for posting late here.

Positive, calming, and healing energy sent, along with warm thoughts, prayers and a big hug. :hugz:

Thanks Cloaky, I really appreciate it! Looks like its an ongoing battle for the time being, so dont worry about being late :)

Cloaked Raven
September 2nd, 2008, 01:51 PM
Thanks Cloaky, I really appreciate it! Looks like its an ongoing battle for the time being, so dont worry about being late :)
You're welcome. I'm here if you need me, OK? :hugz:

watersprite
September 2nd, 2008, 02:21 PM
:hugz::hugz::hugz:I am so sorry this happened to you.
But take heart. You are young, and you may not have been the love of HIS life. Better knowing now instead of later.
I am sorry you are having such dark times.

Arianne Weaver
September 2nd, 2008, 03:44 PM
Thinking of you.

Invidosa
September 8th, 2008, 08:19 AM
Well, looks like its all over, we were trying to find a way to make it work but, c'est la vie, i feel like crap. My best friend is staying with me for the time being. I'm ok, but i think its cause i'm kinda not feeling anything right now. thanks folks for all your support through another crappy chapter in my life, i don't know what i would do without all of you.

Phoenix Blue
September 8th, 2008, 08:54 AM
:hugz: I'm sorry things didn't work out. Let us know if we can help, 'k?

Invidosa
September 8th, 2008, 04:26 PM
:hugz: I'm sorry things didn't work out. Let us know if we can help, 'k?

thanks.