PLHH
October 1st, 2002, 02:48 PM
I'm a moderator at another website and there's a lot of negativity because we've had to create and implement a website mission statement and user agreement. This has created a LOT of controversy and many members left to go to another UNMODERATED set of forums. The women over at the *other boards* come to AW, C&P stuff from posts, PM's, etc and then they rip it to shreds over there, and eventually the shred-ee ends up hearing about it.....and a catfight ensues. The negativity is VERY draining. Basically it's down to women being *trolls*.....purposefully coming to AW JUST to start fights or stir up trouble or egg others on. It's awful.
Very stressful for all of us, including the innocent members who are just there to learn and grow....become better people and parents.
I ask you (general you) to please send peace, tranquility, calming, soothing, wisdom, courage, patience....all the positive thoughts and energies you can send my way to be the person I need to be to help the community work through the growing pains.
I'm new to this path......and am beginning to really research it. (Paganism/Wicca).....so please forgive me if I'm not doing things right, wording things correctly, if I accidentally offend. I'm here to learn, live, love and grow....
I need to find my relationship with my 3 y/o autistic ds again.....he's so independent and I want my little boy back......the regular one that was so cuddly and loving and NEEDED his mommy. BOY it hurts.....
I want to be a better wife to my dh. He works SO hard (nights as an electronic tech and days as a college student) to be sure Justin and I are well provided for....he loves me SO much. I'm NOT the cuddly type of gal....and I know it bothers him. And our sleeping schedules are opposite.....this leads us to lots of frustrations and mis/non-communications. I need guidance to find my way back into my role as wife, lover and friend.
I want to be a better friend.....I want to do so many things.....try new things and learn something every day. I don't want to waste a single moment.
MUCH peace, love, happiness and harmony.....
Very stressful for all of us, including the innocent members who are just there to learn and grow....become better people and parents.
I ask you (general you) to please send peace, tranquility, calming, soothing, wisdom, courage, patience....all the positive thoughts and energies you can send my way to be the person I need to be to help the community work through the growing pains.
I'm new to this path......and am beginning to really research it. (Paganism/Wicca).....so please forgive me if I'm not doing things right, wording things correctly, if I accidentally offend. I'm here to learn, live, love and grow....
I need to find my relationship with my 3 y/o autistic ds again.....he's so independent and I want my little boy back......the regular one that was so cuddly and loving and NEEDED his mommy. BOY it hurts.....
I want to be a better wife to my dh. He works SO hard (nights as an electronic tech and days as a college student) to be sure Justin and I are well provided for....he loves me SO much. I'm NOT the cuddly type of gal....and I know it bothers him. And our sleeping schedules are opposite.....this leads us to lots of frustrations and mis/non-communications. I need guidance to find my way back into my role as wife, lover and friend.
I want to be a better friend.....I want to do so many things.....try new things and learn something every day. I don't want to waste a single moment.
MUCH peace, love, happiness and harmony.....