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beachj
January 28th, 2009, 09:01 PM
Hello Everyone....
I had a very realistic feeling dream lastnight. I don't know if it had any meaning, a deep or shallow meaning or what?
Well heres how it went...

I was at home... and some one was with me. A Former friend, and her new husband. Everything was going well... She and I talked, He and I talked.. We hung out, I don't remember exactly what all we did.
I woke up...
and when I realised that it was all a dream,
It saddened me...
Because I realised, that in reality, she was no longer my friend.

You see,
We had been friends for more then a decade. She had recently been married, but we were still friends..
Then, suddenly, after calling me ignorant because of some question I asked about Corn Syrup, she cut everything off...
No goodbye, no explination, nothing...
Shes recently significantly changed how she looks,
Got contacts, changed her hair, died her hair...
I miss her alot,
During the time as her friend shes proven that shes a true friend over and over..
I cant help but to wonder what happened and why she ended it abruptly...

But I wonder, what significants her appearing in my dream had, if any at all.
I wonder if thers hope of being friends again? and Even if not, why she ended it.

Godgifu
February 10th, 2009, 04:08 AM
Probably just dreaming about her due to the complete lack of closure in the matter; kind of like how it's really common for people who went through sudden and unwanted breakups often dream of their exes for years, even after they've gotten over the breakup and otherwise moved on.

BearDancing
February 18th, 2009, 05:01 PM
this is all about missing and not having closure with her....only time will tell if you will be friends again...she seems to be in a different space right now...just try not to judge and be there for her...it does hurt...the loss of her friendship...just try risse above the hurt and know it has nothing to do with you...it is all about her..

over and out...dear abbey......:toofless: