I finally lost my mind!

[Bartmanhomer]

Ok, it was all started on this Tuesday. I was walking to my medication in the snowstorm. It was blurry and I saw the stoplight and I stop and the woman bump into me. She told me "You walk so stupid." And I said SHUT THE **** UP YOU BITCH-ASS MORON OR I WILL KILL YOU INSTANTLY!!!!! she was so frightened to death she ran away! I have gone destructive.

[Shawn Cameron]

...

all I can say is breath deep, unclench your fingers, and welcome to the club. its kind of nice to know I'm not the only one with a destructive temper (thankfully under decent control.)

*hug*

[Shanti]

Commit yourself if you feel that way, that you have gone destructive.

[Laisrean]

Sounds to me like a bit of Tourette's, but admittedly I am no expert. I'd suggest consulting one.

[ignescentphoenix]

Perhaps you should watch how you walk.

You're lucky that the woman didn't knock your ass out.:thumbsup:

[princeether]

What has tipped your mind frame into a destructive state Bart? Find out quickly and address it before you scream like that at the wrong person...

[Owd Scrat]

Sounds like you just had a overload of stress, keeping feelings of anger or frustration bottled up can cause an outburst like that!

Or PMS. Take a :achillpil and a hot bath!

[Glowy]

Ok, it was all started on this Tuesday. I was walking to my medication in the snowstorm. It was blurry and I saw the stoplight and I stop and the woman bump into me. She told me "You walk so stupid." And I said SHUT THE hug UP YOU BITCH-ASS MORON OR I WILL KILL YOU INSTANTLY!!!!! she was so frightened to death she ran away! I have gone destructive.


You are lucky you are in NY.. in a small town like mine.. you probably would have been arrested.
EG- the secretary at my son's school called the cops because a man was dressed like Jason from Friday the 13th.. and was at a public bus stop.. cops came and frisked him .. it was Halloween. Extreme, yes..

I think you need to speak to your therapist again buddy.

[Caitlin.ann]

Umm..you may want to get some help for that...

[Rick]

...I have gone destructive.

So, go back. You haven't harmed anyone yet, so there's still time to stop and turn around... and you know the way, 'cuz you just came from there...

[WitchJezebel]

You are lucky you are in NY.. in a small town like mine.. you probably would have been arrested.
EG- the secretary at my son's school called the cops because a man was dressed like Jason from Friday the 13th.. and was at a public bus stop.. cops came and frisked him .. it was Halloween. Extreme, yes..

I think you need to speak to your therapist again buddy.

No, he's lucky he yelled at the right woman. Someone else here in NY might have just dropped his ass right there on the corner. Might want to talk to someone Bart, sounds like you're a bit fired up and that can only bring you harm.

[Bartmanhomer]

Honestly I was so close to bash that scum skull! And I know how to fight and i'm not afraid of nobody! i don't care if he a serial killer or nothing i could drop that skank ass bitch out! and yes i'm in a lot of stress at work!

[Caitlin.ann]

Honestly I was so close to bash that scum skull! And I know how to fight and i'm not afraid of nobody! i don't care if he a serial killer or nothing i could drop that skank ass bitch out! and yes i'm in a lot of stress at work!

Seriously..seek help.

[Æon Flux]

Yes, breathe, and look up a therapist. (can't believe I'm giving the same advice that I once yelled at people for) If you know yourself that you're going destructive... look up a good therapist and sit down and talk to them.

I wouldn't call it getting help, I'd call it doing yourself a favor.

I hate the phrase "getting help". People say it as though one has rabies instead of being a little unbalanced because of the insane world we live in.

[Caitlin.ann]

However you say it, seek medical assistance, talk to someone so that others aren't hurt over your imbalances. And likewise so someone doesn't knock your lights out. Its in your best interest and that everyone you come in contact with for you to speak to a professional.

[SilverClaw]

It was suggested to you ages ago to get help. Why have you not gotten it? What happened to the appointment you had ? Sorry sounds like once again you are just attention seeking.

[Carri]

Honestly I was so close to bash that scum skull! And I know how to fight and i'm not afraid of nobody! i don't care if he a serial killer or nothing i could drop that skank ass bitch out! and yes i'm in a lot of stress at work!

Honestly, talking like that is either a sign of being very immature or very mentally ill. I would suggest if you get that stressed out from work or any other situation in life that you speak to a therapist ASAP. You may really hurt someone and I don't really think that is what you want to do. See someone for anger management. You have alot of stress with your Mom being sick, it may be effecting you more than you realize.

So take everyone's advice and get help. Go for being the most mentally sound member at MW, it may not sound as fun as being the most gangsta, silliest or what ever but it will be a more fulfilling lifestyle. And Girls love mentally healthy men. Go for it Bartman!

[ignescentphoenix]

Honestly I was so close to bash that scum skull! And I know how to fight and i'm not afraid of nobody! i don't care if he a serial killer or nothing i could drop that skank ass bitch out! and yes i'm in a lot of stress at work!


A real man doesn't hit a woman, not ever. Why does it seem like you're only looking for attention? Its very immature and you should seek help for that.

[Laisrean]

Honestly I was so close to bash that scum skull! And I know how to fight and i'm not afraid of nobody! i don't care if he a serial killer or nothing i could drop that skank ass bitch out! and yes i'm in a lot of stress at work!

Yeah, you're a real big man thinking you can take on a woman.

/sarcasm

Seriously, if you ever did that to a woman in public I almost guarantee someone would intervene and it would be your ass that gets dropped. Mental illness doesn't give you super powers, maybe you think you can take anyone on, but you'd be in for a surprise.

Sorry, no hugs from me here, but I'll offer you a helping hand in pointing you towards the loony bin.

[Clair de la Lune]

I hope you get help soon. The next person you have such an outburst with may just be armed with a gun and not hesitate to use it on you.

Please just get help before you kill someone or get killed. Gangsta, or whatever you think you are at this point is not cool. You need help, so please go to the nearest hospital if you can't wait to see someone for an appointment.

You sound like a ticking timebomb. Just tell them you are not sure you are safe and that you are not sure you can promise to keep yourself or others safe from your anger and frustration. You should get in sooner, or hospitalized, what ever is faster...but you obviously need it. Needing help or assistance or whatever you want to call it is NOT a weakness if you DO something about it and actually GET it. It's up to you. Just saying! :)

[Bartmanhomer]

Ok first i already talk to my therpist and she told me it perfectly normal from anger and I'm not going to no loony bin! i'm highly function for that

[BearDancing]

my sweet....no matter what your therapist says....screaming that into a pillow might be okay...but uttering that to a stranger is not healthy for anyone.....think about it....is that what you would like someone to do to you....

[Caitlin.ann]

Getting "help" or "assistance" does not mean you'll go to a "looney bin", it simply means that your therapist and/or doctor knows and can give you the necessary "help" or "assistance" whichever that may be.

[Cunae]

Don't worry about it, Bart. I get that way once a month. :weirdsmil

[Caitlin.ann]

I get that way too from PMS and OCD..I have some pretty ****ed up thoughts because of that. NEVER have I yelled or threatened violence to complete strangers because of it. And I've never been violent towards my family or friends over it. PMS is not an excuse, and IMO, neither is OCD.

Bart, you really need to go over this with your doctor and/or therapist.

[Bartmanhomer]

Didn't you read my post? the woman insulted me at the street and i blow up right back at her? and I'm going to call my therpist but i know it's going to be the same answer to everything.

[Caitlin.ann]

Didn't you read my post? the woman insulted me at the street and i blow up right back at her? and I'm going to call my therpist but i know it's going to be the same answer to everything.

She said "you walk so stupid" which is hardly enough for you to reply with

SHUT THE hug UP YOU BITCH-ASS MORON OR I WILL KILL YOU INSTANTLY!!!!!

Which is a threat and enough to get you in legal trouble. For someone to say "you walk so stupid" and you to insult her and threaten to KILL her not mentally stable. Plus she was wrong, but you even more so by many more times.

[ignescentphoenix]

Didn't you read my post? the woman insulted me at the street and i blow up right back at her? and I'm going to call my therpist but i know it's going to be the same answer to everything.


Her insult didn't warrant your violent response.

Im beginning to think that this story isn't true, and that you are just trying to get attention.

[princeether]

I was walking to my medication in the snowstorm. It was blurry and I saw the stoplight and I stop and the woman bump into me. She told me "You walk so stupid.

It sounds to me like you were walking like a jackass Bart, so maybe that woman had a point.

[Bartmanhomer]

Does it look like i'm making a funny thread? NO I DON'T! And I don't care if you or anybody else got a problem about this thread!

[Owd Scrat]

Ok first i already talk to my therpist and she told me it perfectly normal from anger and I'm not going to no loony bin! i'm highly function for that

Yea, I agree. I think many are making a bigger deal about this then it is. Havng one outburst does not mean your doomed to a life of mental illness.

And yes, mental illness can give you something like super powers. They can get scary strong.

[theblackrose]

so why make the thread???? werent you putting it here for us to comment??? thought that was the idea of a forum???

[ignescentphoenix]

Does it look like i'm making a funny thread? NO I DON'T! And I don't care if you or anybody else got a problem about this thread!




It looks like all of your other threads. They are all cries for attention.

[Rick]

It looks like all of your other threads. They are all cries for attention.

Yep, and he just gets more with every reply, pro or con...

[Bartmanhomer]

Look i'm under a lot of stress and i thought all of you would be a bit serious about this but say anything you want

[Cunae]

Look i'm under a lot of stress and i thought all of you would be a bit serious about this but say anything you want

Are kidding? Some of those replying are *very* serious. Mine was a little levity (but true!) I'm not sure there's any pleasing you, Bart.

[Rick]

So far, I've seen mostly serious people giving you mostly serious advice to go and talk seriously to a trained professional about the serious threat of violence you made against another person. What you did seriously constitutes simple battery, a crime usually punishable by up to a year in prison. You are seriously lucky that you weren't arrested.

[Mysticwater]

She said you walk stupid? I would have blown that comment off. Sticks and stones, remember?

Next time just ignore ignore ignore....it isn't like you really care what she thinks, right? Why get so angry and lower yourself to her inappropriate behavior? I am sure you are much better than that.

Personally, I would have said, "thank you you have a nice day too"!

Good luck in your future walks....:smile:

[Caitlin.ann]

Does it look like i'm making a funny thread? NO I DON'T! And I don't care if you or anybody else got a problem about this thread!

Umm who took this as a funny thread? I agree with what Rick said, you've gotten pretty well nothing but serious answers. And yes these seem like serious cries for help.

[Xander67]

I agree! Bartman, I understand your situation, seriously, I think you need to talk to your councilor. I watched helpless as my father beat the shit out of my mother as a child so I guess you could say I am biased here... Any Man who hits a woman is a coward, granted self defence, and etc... but let me tell you something, Nobody likes a woman abuser! Period

[Xander67]

Look i'm under a lot of stress and i thought all of you would be a bit serious about this but say anything you want

Bartman, I think we all know what stress is, Let's look at this objectively for a moment..

You expressed hostile intent towards a woman on a forum where there are many women here.. In reading their advice to you I would say they were reacting with love, understanding and a sincere wish to help...

[Laisrean]

Does it look like i'm making a funny thread? NO I DON'T! And I don't care if you or anybody else got a problem about this thread!

This is in line with the sort of things a sociopath would say. You post here asking for help, but it seems obvious you don't care about the rights and/or feelings of others. This is sociopathy.

[~Elise~]

Closing the thread due to the drama.


Folks, this is Helping Hands and Hugs, not Political Pagan. It is a FIRE FREE zone. This is where if you don't have something nice to say...shut the hell up. This is not a joke.

[Xander67]

Ok first i already talk to my therpist and she told me it perfectly normal from anger and I'm not going to no loony bin! i'm highly function for that

yes, anger is normal, however, how you express it can be harmful..

acting out on your anger like that saying you want to bash someone's skull can be viewed as terroristic threats, and god forbid you did hit her, you could wind up in Jail!

[SilverClaw]

Look i'm under a lot of stress and i thought all of you would be a bit serious about this but say anything you want
Sorry with your past threads somethings it is hard to know how to take your threads.