i hate these coincidences

[leo482]

i have feeling these coincidences that are happening to me are the universe's way of ****ing with me and my mind. i think i have bad karma thats why. i really want this to ****ing stop. the coincidences dont even mean anything. i know because i got hurt thinking they meant something when they never ever did
is it possible to influence coincidences with the subconcious or through the astral realm or something? maybe im doing this to myself.

[Agaliha]

Are you referring to Synchronicity?

[Louisvillian]

Or they could just be, you know, coincidences. You just have a run of bad luck, and are worrying too much about the things around you.

[leo482]

it has been happening for the course of 2 years, and im not looking deeply into stuff.

[Nesta]

i have feeling these coincidences that are happening to me are the universe's way of ****ing with me and my mind. i think i have bad karma thats why. i really want this to ****ing stop. the coincidences dont even mean anything. i know because i got hurt thinking they meant something when they never ever did
is it possible to influence coincidences with the subconcious or through the astral realm or something? maybe im doing this to myself.

I found it easier to change how I viewed the coincidences. I'm currently helping my step-daughter with something similar too. I told her that things aren't happening because she thought about them, instead she's thinking about them because they're going to happen. Does that make any sense? Excuse me, I have pms and my brain is jelly today.

[Sparkles]

Another thought is perhaps your subconscious is trying to tell you something by finding meanings in "random events" that support the message. Our subconscious mind often communicates through symbols rather than words.

Don't allow yourself to become obsessive about this, but spend a little time thinking about what this message could be that you are sensing, and where the message could be coming from.

[Meadhbh]

I agree sometimes happen because your thinking about them. If something is on your mind then your going to be more apt to notice things that are related. Its the way your mind set is. I would keep and eye out but at the same I wouldn't worry about it to much.

[*oonagh*]

"when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change"

[Dio]

it has been happening for the course of 2 years, and im not looking deeply into stuff.

Just try to keep plugging along. If you want to put meaning to these events, maybe try looking at these events as things that will make you stronger.

Even if they don't mean anything, they'll make you stronger regardless. Remember that a lot of people are bombarded with unlucky events in their lives. Sometimes it makes it hard to even see that good things are still happening. It's just the way it is, but it won't last forever. ***hug*** because I know how hard it is not to beat yourself up over it. Don't look at it as punishment. Look at it as an awesome opportunity to grow. Good luck. :)

[leo482]

its getting worst. i seem to keep crossing paths with this person i had a conflict with. i hate it. i go to great lengths to avoid meeting him. i even avoid places that i usually go.
today i had dinner with my cousin and some ppl at a restaurant to celebrate his b day. i seldom eat out, in fact the last time i went to a restaurant was 3 months ago.
so guess who was there at the restaurant??
the abovementioned person..

the restaurant had this camera thing which captures ppl sitting at their tables and projects it onto a big screen.
i was sitting on the second floor and suddenly he appeared on the big screen, and it kinda startled me. he was sitting on the first floor.

sometimes i feel like a higher power is trying to make a fool out of me or im just part of some crazy game..