Does even thinking this make me a bad person?

[DixieWitch]

Hello everyone!! It's been a long time since I've been on MW, much less this forum. I'll give you some background, then on to my thinking!!!

Last August, my mother-in-law moved up here from Florida. She now literally lives 2 miles from us. She's basically a hermit and won't get out to even try to meet anyone. Or look for a job even. Anyways...she is constantly bothering us, even for little things. We get several calls a day. Her original reason for moving up here was to be able to spend more time with the grandkids, which she rarely does. She missed our daughter's kindergarten graduation last week!! Hubby called her the night before to remind her. "I thought it was later in the day." Um Hello? 9am is not "later in the day". She is constantly trying to draw my hubby away from us.

I feel like she's trying to make up for lost time from when he was growing up. But all I know is that it is slowly driving a wedge between my hubby and I. I have communicated with him on several occasions about how I feel. And he has told her to calm down, back off. So she's either not hearing or not listening. And it's not like we can ignore her now..all she has to do is drive to our house!! Which we've tried and she's done!!! Maybe I'm petty and bitchy about the whole situation, but my feeling is "you had your chance. We've got our family now so back off." I think she used the grandkids as an excuse when her original plans were to spend as much time with her son as possible. Even if it means ruining his marriage. I'm dead serious on this!

ok fast forward to my thinking as mentioned in the title!! I've been seriously looking into some sort of banishing ritual or spell. I've not purchased anything yet. But I am looking into hot foot powder and a black votive. Even if it works for a few days, I'd be happy. Am I a bad person for even considering doing this? Would it lead me to the dark side?

We're out of options here. Our only other choice would be to move far away, which we can't do right now. Or I could get a restraining order against her, but I think that would cause more problems.

Thanks for reading this!!!

[memnoch]

First off, since you have been away, I've been having serious issues with my inlaws, so I definitely feel for you. From there, what is wrong with the dark side? What is wrong with taking care of yourself and your family, and honestly that is no where near the extent things could be taken. Beyond that I really have no advice, but take care, do what you need to do, and I hope things work out.

[DixieWitch]

First off, since you have been away, I've been having serious issues with my inlaws, so I definitely feel for you. From there, what is wrong with the dark side? What is wrong with taking care of yourself and your family, and honestly that is no where near the extent things could be taken. Beyond that I really have no advice, but take care, do what you need to do, and I hope things work out.

You've said enough to make me think even more!!!

Also, thanks. I hope things work out for you too.

[Deerwoman]

Do you and your husband actually want her completely out of our you and your children's lives? Or do you just want to her to stop being a bitch and act like a grandmother? I'd suggest first trying something less harsh and then adjust your workings accordingly based on how she acts. Perhaps start with a bend over working to get her to be submissive and listen to you and your husband. Make sure to grab some personal concerns from her - anything, hair, an item of clothing, a glass she drinks from... If you ever visit her house leave a few bend over and anti-evil eye mojos hidden in or outside of her home.

When she is visiting and you want her to leave, go outside to the window or door of the room she is in and make an arrow pointing away from your house with three cedar branches. She will quickly find a reason she needs to go. Cedar is a more benevolent way to hot foot someone out of your home.

If she doesn't change her nasty interfering ways after all this or similar work, I'd perform a working to get her to move further away so that her visits and calls are much more infrequent. If you want her to move far away I can send you some spells through private message.

[DixieWitch]

Do you and your husband actually want her completely out of our you and your children's lives? Or do you just want to her to stop being a bitch and act like a grandmother? I'd suggest first trying something less harsh and then adjust your workings accordingly based on how she acts. Perhaps start with a bend over working to get her to be submissive and listen to you and your husband. Make sure to grab some personal concerns from her - anything, hair, an item of clothing, a glass she drinks from... If you ever visit her house leave a few bend over and anti-evil eye mojos hidden in or outside of her home.

When she is visiting and you want her to leave, go outside to the window or door of the room she is in and make an arrow pointing away from your house with three cedar branches. She will quickly find a reason she needs to go. Cedar is a more benevolent way to hot foot someone out of your home.

If she doesn't change her nasty interfering ways after all this or similar work, I'd perform a working to get her to move further away so that her visits and calls are much more infrequent. If you want her to move far away I can send you some spells through private message.

Well it all depends on who you ask! Personally, I want her out of our lives. He wants her to be a grandmother. But I am willing to try the bend over first.

And if you don't mind sharing the spells, I'll gladly accept them!