see my true love

[HeavensHope]

does anyone know or have a spell that will enable me to find or see who i'm really suppose to end up with. Something safe for newbbies because i've never done this before, and i'm avoiding mirrors...at night....they kinda make me nervous..but i'm welcome to message by dreams.

[Flar's Freyja]

Oh Boy! There's currently a discussion about Love Spells in New Pagans, I believe. Love spells are not recommended because one can unintentionally but subconsciously direct them at a specific person and cause lots of misery for all concerned. Are you in a situation where you are attracted to several people? A reading might help but it's not advisable to do a spell to resolve things.........however, you could do a working asking for help in seeing clearly.

There is one working that I think is pretty decent, though. In Yasmine Galenorn's "Embracing the Moon," she has a "spell" that is to attract the right person to you. I think it takes about ten days to finish but it involves listing the qualities that you desire in a person along with the qualities you have to offer. She says that she met her Mr. Right after only a few weeks or months, but keep in mind that it sometimes takes years for something like this to manifest.

The deities send the right person your way when you are ready. It's a good idea to reflect upon where you are in your life and if you are independent enough to live an abundant life on your own. Someone to love can enhance your happiness but shouldn't be solely responsible for it.

[HeavensHope]

thanx..but i dont mean love spells to attract...i'm doing fine in that area. It's just that with all the relationships of been in and out of, greats guys and all...i really just want to know if the one i'm with is the "one" or is there someone else for me out there somewhere..and i'd like to know.

[Flar's Freyja]

That's something only you can know or only time and the Goddess will tell. I'd be glad to do a reading for you if that would help but I'm a bit behind and might not get it done for a week or two. It won't give you a definite answer but can maybe help you clarify some things. If you don't want to wait, you could request one in the Tarot forum. PM me if you'd like one :)

[Cajime]

I wouldn't worry about the ethics of the spell as I don't see a problem.

However I wouldn't get your hopes up, it might give you someone who is write for you now but maybe not in the long term, and I often feel using love spells like this can get peoples hopes up to much. So just be carefull when going into this ^_^

Try a simple candle spell,

write what you want on one side, your name on the other. Focus your thoughts and wishes into the candle. Rub your spit onto the side of the candle with your name on and an oil symbolising love on the other.

I'm not very good with my oils but I'm sure you can find a good list online, and the candle colour should be pink.

light the candle and meditate on the topic every day for 10-15 minutes untill the candle has burnt out.

[HeavensHope]

thanx everyone.

[Flar's Freyja]

:wave: Merry Meet and Welcome, Cajime!

You can find a thread with candle colour correspondences and other basic info in the Magickal Correspondences and Basic Info thread stuck at the top of this forum.

For spells and charms involving love, rose, cinnamon and patchouli are appropriate. However, if there is another oil that symbolizes love to you, by all means use it. The coolest thing about the craft is that we use whatever we can get our hands on, because it's the intent that gives it energy.........and the magick is the Witch :)

WolfLadyStar has posted several meditations from a shaman's notebook in this forum that you might also want to check out. We're going to be combining them all into one thread soon.

[HeavensHope]

thanx for the advice..i'll give it a try.

oh, would i need to do a cleansing spell or something along that line? to clear the way of any negative energy?

[Tammy Sullivan]

yes, grounding and centering always, always come first.