Helping my mother pass with ease

[kristadb]

This is a painful thing to ask...but nonetheless, here I am.

She has lost all circulation in her legs and has an untreatable and spreading infection, gangrene, no detectable pulse below her groin and now she has a blockage in her leg.

We find out tomorrow what the doctors plan to do, but amputation is high on the list. My mother is in her mid-70s and suffers from arthritis. Losing a leg will make her totally houseridden. It will kill her.

She would rather die but her religion prevents her from killing herself; she risks eternal damnation.

So here I am, being asked to pray for her. How do I ask Hecate to help my mother pass on, by her own terms, in a painless, quick fashion? Is that even something I should ask?

I don't know what is "right" or "wrong" or whatever...I just know that I don't want this to happen - and, so much more importantly, my mother does not want this to happen.

[Lunacie]

Sending energies for the best outcome possible, and for your mother to find peace with her disability or with her passing. Also sending hugs and energies for you as you try to figure out the best thing for you. :hugz:

[kristadb]

Thanks. I have no words or ways to request this. I just know how unhappy she is. :(

[Annorah]

Comforting and loving energies on their way to you both.

:hugz:

[Glowy]

I see no reason you could not print your OP and put in on your alter, then light a candle, and read it aloud to her.

Just my thought. I hear your pain, and your plea in your post, I know your Goddess will.

I am sorry about your mother, I wish her peace

[LilithMorgana]

I will send her energy and pray for her.