How would you go about it?

[SpiDer_AnGeL]

Okay,this is a lame question, but I'm curious. If you had a crush on somebody, how would you go about letting them know you like them or finding out if you have a chance? (And yes I do like someone..so this thread is just kinda a question that has been on my mind a lot lately.)

[Silver_Alhena]

Tell your group of friends and ask them to keep a secret - it'll be public knowledge in no time! ;)

Seriously though, if it's a crush, it might be fairly obvious already..... no matter how well you think you're doing at hiding it. Crushes are great - enjoy it while it lasts! :heartthro

[Tammy Sullivan]

Eye contact, then watch to read the body language. You can always tell.

[Flaire-FireStar]

Tell your group of friends and ask them to keep a secret - it'll be public knowledge in no time!

That is soooooooooooooooooooooo true! 8O

Anyway..... I can be a bit of a flirt ( :rolleyes: ) so usually everyone knows who I like anyway -- and if the guy can't pick up on it... *shakes her head* I'd have to be incredibly blunt (and get some more nerves while I'm at it!)

Ehm. :) Best of luck, Spider Angel

[Pan]

Be a chicken! Write a note. :T

Or.. do what I did.. I had a friend ask him if he'd go out with me! 8O He did! Whee!

And now I married him. ;)

[Ben Gruagach]

Life is too short to hem and haw and not get around to finding out if someone likes you back.

If you want to know if they are interested in you too, ask them out on a date! It doesn't have to be an "official date" at the start - it could be something that you're doing with a small group of friends, like going to a movie or something.

Talk to the person. Spend time with them. Admiring someone from afar won't get you anywhere, and if you wait too long, chances are you'll never find out because you'll miss your opportunity.

[Gwion]

The tried and true courtship method since 6th grade.

[SpiDer_AnGeL]

Originally posted by Gwion
The tried and true courtship method since 6th grade.
:rotfl:
Lol, I love that Idea! I think I'm just going to say something along the lines of....I like you and I want to know if I'm wasting my time...or something.....but I'm hella scared! I think he should know I like him..I only tell him hes hot and things like that everyday..and hit on him.....GOSH! The opposite sex can be so confusing!

[MistOfTheSea86]

I was reading an article the other day about "Pleasuring Men" On MSN, and it was like. "Men are simple creatures, once you have them figured out (Which shouldn't take too long) You have them eating out of the palm of your hand.

Seriously, my advice is do it the way you feel most comfortable. Because when it comes to crushes I am in the same boat as you. The way I let them know usually is talking with them and starting the beginning of a friendship, getting the trust key involved. Once you guys share something that normally wouldn't be scared then you could start leaving hints. Although I do agree that life is short and taking too much time may have a lonely ending, more often then not actually getting to know the person on a more personal level can actually enhance the feeling and teach you a lesson not yet learned.

Just my two cents:)

[Cajime]

I wouldn't know as I never did anything about it. But generally if someone likes you and you like them then there will be a connection bettween you. If you have a chance you will know, you will feel it, the emotions of love and close friendship is easy to read ^_^;

So, when you talk to him does he seem interested in you?

[ankhesen Sekhmet]

When I had a crush on my (now) fiance, we had mutual friends, so I just started asking him to take me to the store or something, then we'd go for walks to talk, and so on. We built a friendship, and started flirting, so here we are :)

[FireryWings]

When I had a crush on a guy I was kinda close to, I just got up the nerve to come out and tell him my feelings. He didn't feel the same way but at least now I know and I'm not saying a lot of "what if's" *L*

[Sowelu]

I like the eye contact idea....that...."body language" thing.;)
Eye contact, I mean DEEP hook em' in eye contact has always worked for me:p

[Gwion]

"You know how to whistle, don't you Joe? You just put your lips together, and blow."

This one worked well for Lauren Bacall.