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faye_cat
October 20th, 2009, 04:34 PM
About a week or so I posted an energy request for my mother in law.


So my mother in law's house got burned and damaged pretty bad by her drunken (now ex) boyfriend. Not only did he burn all her clothes, jewelry, food, but the worse part is she has her own accounting business, run from home. All sorts of one of a kind documents were burned, as well as her computer and software.

And now she's bailing him out of jail today.

WHY! WHY YOU STUPID WOMAN WHY?!

She's gonna end up dead or in the hospital.

I thought this was a wakeup call for her, but apparently not. Oh, and the reason she said she is is so he can work and pay her back. Well....already I can see that NOT happening. Plus, is she gonna be living with him? She's setting herself up for a worse "next time". GAH!!!

Raven Reed
October 20th, 2009, 04:37 PM
This is a common pattern. And yes, she may end up dead. I am sorry, for you and her.

Deb13b
October 20th, 2009, 06:01 PM
Some women will never learn. I have seen so many friends over the years in these situations. They never end well. Just make sure you don't get caught in the crossfire. Sounds harsh I know but don't waste your time and energy.