family protection

[shnen]

I wish I could think for myself right now, but I really need your guys help/advice, because I am having a hard enough time dealing with this the way it is.

I have a member in the family that has, for the past 20 something years tried to destroy our family.

And somehow it all revolves around me. I haven't done anything, the memeer in question is 11 years older then me.

I know a lot has happened to me because of him, and I wonder what else he has done that I don't realize is his doing.

Now the rest of my family is die hard xtian, so all they say is to pray for him, but I cannot, I have one mental family member already, and I cannot try to help someone who has some very strange infactuation with me. I just want to protect my family from him, he has hurt us all so much already.

Please help me.

[Stacy]

shnen,

I wish I could help you on this one, but I can't think of anything right now..

You know, there's a similar situation going on in my family and it made me think of some really mean spells that I could do, but I never did..

Mybe you can do some sort of protection spell for you and your family?

Is there any way you and your family can completely separate from that person? (that's what we did)

God, I hope I could say more, but from what you said I can't pull out too many details (for example: is that your brother? Does he live with you and your family or not.. etc.)

Hope other MW will have better advices..

[shnen]

thanks Stacy.

he is my half brother (previous marriage before my mom and my step-mom). all my siblings live away from home, including myself.

they won't separate themselves from him, they believe that God will save him, or whatever, but they can't see that he is jsut evil, he doesn't want to be helped, they would rather turn a blind eye then to try and recognize there is a larger issue at hand. My real brother sees it, and acknowledges it, but he still insists he will be there to help him.

[Stacy]

Maybe you could try a spell that will bless his soul and make him see love instead of hate? And, I would do along with shielding and protection..

Becide the use of spells, I don't see much you can do, because of your family belief.. The only thing you can do (and that's very hard) is try to separate yourself mentally from him.. Try to force yourself to be "blind" to all his evil and just focus on your piece of mind..

It's good that you are living away from your home.. It makes it a little bit better (even though I know you are thinking at the first place of your family). But, wait and see, it will come back to him.. In one way or another, the destiny will return to him everything he gave out! Just try focusing on your piece of mind!

:heartthro to you and your family

[shnen]

thank you stacy... :heartthro

it has already come back to him.. he was diagnosed with hepatitus C last year. so basically he is dying.. you think this would make him a better person...

my whole family is scattered across Ontario, quite far from one another, so that is good. its jsut really hard to try and unconfuse right now...

[FaeRain]

{{{{shnen}}}} :heartthro

Sending you hugs and light....I have a brother-in-law that has wrecked my family, so I can empathize somewhat.

Mean people suck!:mad:

FaeRain

[Flar's Freyja]

What they all said, and be careful how you make your request. I once placed a circle of protection around a child but the child ended up being injured before he was removed from his family. My intent was to get the threat of violence removed before that happened. This turned out to be in his best interest but I really didn't like the way things came about.

[Rubi Waters]

(((Shnen))) I don't have anything new to add that the others havent already said, but I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and sending you energy to help deal with it all.

[Tammy Sullivan]

((((shnen))))
hugs and love and energy coming at ya, stay strong, you know what you know, ya know?

[shnen]

thanks everyone... i am starting to be able to see things and put them in place again... will be a long haul, but I will be fine.

now wheres that toad spell to put on my half-bro? ;)

[Stacy]

stepbrother :smash:

[shnen]

*coughs*


Half brother.... not step.. my step brother is actually cool... my half is the evil manipulating bastard.... can I say that here?

[Stacy]

Than
:uzi: half-brother :smash:

[shnen]

:thumbsup:


still if anyone has any ideas, thoughts, or whatever, they would be appreciated. :)

[Witchy Cowgirl]

((((Shnen))))
Hun, I feel for ya. I do have a suggestion. From what I'm picking up in your post though - you may not want it - but it's just my "for what it's worth" And remember I'm here for ya - as we all are.

As much as you need and want to seperate from him you should also pray for him....or as Stacy said, preform some type of Blessing for him. This could help protect you in that you are able to overcome the hard feelings and try to help him.

I also feel some sort of protection for yourself is in order. I once did a protection spell for me and mine. While I built protection for us I prayed that the other party fade back into their world unharmed. I haven't heard from her since but I have heard that she and her family are fine. I still pray for strength to get over the hard feelings I had (ok, have) for her. Even though those feelings are still hanging on - they are better.

As far as your other family goes, send them energy. You may choose not to pray for or bless your half-brother, but since other family members are praying for him you can help them by sending love, strength, and healing their way.

This is just my opinion. Whatever you decide know that we care for ya and are willing to help in any manner we can. I'll remember you in my prayers and light a candle for you as well.
:heartthro :heartthro :heartthro

[Rick]

Surround him with a Thorngarth, thorns inward... it will contain him...