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Flar's Freyja
January 8th, 2003, 10:42 PM
Date: Sunday, February 2, 2003

Time: Midnight Saturday or 12:00 a.m. Sunday
I can't believe how confused everyone has been about
this...........Flar's mom and I agreed we probably couldn't
get him up and out of the house - or dressed - for a
daytime event.........

Place: At the home of a friend in Tulsa, Oklahoma, in the
backyard Zen garden if it's warm enough (there are
about 25 witches working on influencing the weather
as we speak) or in the house in front of the fireplace
if it's cold.

Feasting at around 10:00 p.m. Saturday night, after the group Imbolc ritual to take place at 8:00 p.m.

Dress is being made, I think I have shoes, Flar's still deciding what to wear........

His mom and her co-worker are making my headpiece from lavender and rosemary.

Flar has an appointment for his hearing on the 28th of this month so he won't be able to say he didn't realize he was getting married..........

kblackthorne
January 8th, 2003, 11:00 PM
:boing:Woo-Hoo!

Best wishes to both of you!

:smooch: :hearteyes: :loveduv: :bubbles:

It's so exciting... and less than a month! Wow!

Here's hoping your big night goes off without a hitch. (Except for the all-important hitching, of course!)

Semele
January 8th, 2003, 11:36 PM
Wow, I didn't realize it fell on a week-end. I am going to have to look at the schedule and see what I can stir up!!

I guess I had better get started on your gift...tis coming up soon!

Flaire-FireStar
January 8th, 2003, 11:40 PM
I could use the cold weather up this way... :D



His mom and her co-worker are making my headpiece from lavender and rosemary.

Ohhh! That sounds absolutely lovely, sis! :heartthro

Faery-Wings
January 9th, 2003, 07:16 AM
Great news. It sounds like everything is falling into place. YAY!!!

Old Witch
January 9th, 2003, 07:44 AM
Great!

Flar's Freyja
January 9th, 2003, 10:15 AM
Originally posted by Semele
Wow, I didn't realize it fell on a week-end. I am going to have to look at the schedule and see what I can stir up!!

I guess I had better get started on your gift...tis coming up soon!

Oh, dear........I didn't think about that - you work in the middle of the night and on the weekends :(

Please don't worry about a gift - if you can be there, that's blessing enough!

Semele
January 9th, 2003, 11:51 AM
Originally posted by Freyja
Oh, dear........I didn't think about that - you work in the middle of the night and on the weekends :(

Please don't worry about a gift - if you can be there, that's blessing enough!

Silly woman, I am making it so you know its nothing too spectacular!! My mom actually gave me the idea.

I will find a way to be there. I will just have to look at the schedule tomorrow night and possibly trade a shift with someone...but I will not miss it even if I have to call in sick..cough, cough!!

Wyrdsister
January 9th, 2003, 11:53 AM
Yippie!! What wonderful news! You realize you are going have to start a "Freyja's and Flar's Handfasting" thread with copious amounts of pictures after the ceremony, right?? :D :D

Wyrdsister

shnen
January 9th, 2003, 12:49 PM
we want details, pics, movies.. everything!

*sigh* wish I could be there...

if theres anything i can do let me know ok??? :D

WandererInGray
January 9th, 2003, 01:33 PM
*dances* Yay Freyja and Flar!!!

We'll be there in spirit....you can count on that.

Flaire-FireStar
January 9th, 2003, 01:57 PM
Originally posted by shnen
we want details, pics, movies.. everything!

*sigh* wish I could be there...

if theres anything i can do let me know ok??? :D

Same.... :)

Though I'll probably be partying on that night anyway (it being my b-day!!!!!! :lol: )

(((((((Sis))))))))))((((((((((Bro))))))))))) :heartthro

Mnemosyne
January 9th, 2003, 06:54 PM
I'm so happy for you two. I can't wait to hear all about it. :)

Rubi Waters
January 9th, 2003, 09:51 PM
So glad everything is turning out well for you guys!!!!!!
yes want pics!!!!!!!

Flar's Freyja
January 9th, 2003, 10:00 PM
I wonder how the picture taking will work if we get to have it outdoors at night under a new moon...........

I'm excited, nervous and a little stressed. I dreamed last night that Flar's mom insisted on hiring a caterer :eek:

tabcat
January 9th, 2003, 10:12 PM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Freyja
[B]I wonder how the picture taking will work if we get to have it outdoors at night under a new moon...........

My husband, who does a little photography thinks your pics will be ok if you use a flash.

I wish you well and many blessed years with your Flar!

Lavender
January 10th, 2003, 01:21 AM
I'm so looking forward to the pictures!!! I'll have to figure out what time it'll be here on the West coast and light some candles for you guys.

Alaiyo
January 10th, 2003, 08:45 PM
Remember not to wear a veil that hides your face. That's how trolls kidnap brides and get away with it. They kidnap the girl and put a changling in her place so that the unwitting groom pledges his love to it instead of the right person.

Flar's Freyja
January 20th, 2003, 12:57 AM
Originally posted by Alaiyo
Remember not to wear a veil that hides your face. That's how trolls kidnap brides and get away with it. They kidnap the girl and put a changling in her place so that the unwitting groom pledges his love to it instead of the right person.

:eek:

Actually, Flar gets to deal with my changeling every new moon......

So far, the Guard's not shipping the kid off anywhere - please keep the energy going, there's still two weeks left - we've changed the time which resulted in actually moving it up a day so that Semele can be there - so below is a copy of the invitation. Tacky, I know - lack of time and money prevents fancy written ones from going out unless I can whip something up this week.

Flar's Freyja
January 20th, 2003, 01:00 AM
Earth, Air, Fire and Water
Bind Us To Her

Please Join Us
And Share In Our Joy and Love
As We Publicly Bind Our Hearts To Each Other
Handfasted and Heartjoined

Saturday
February 1st, 2003
5:00 p.m.
Guardians of the Heart
Zen Garden
Tulsa, Oklahoma

Flar7 and Freyja

Please RSVP by January 26, 2002

Feasting to Follow
Ritual Dress Encouraged
No gifts, but please bring a dish to share
Imbolc Ritual at 8:00 p.m.

Flar's Freyja
January 27th, 2003, 10:53 AM
The Post Office appears to have lost my gown......and the cake person and I can't seem to stop playing phone tag......

Both of these things are stressful because the seamstress went ahead and made the gown in a more expensive fabric as a gift to us, and another friend is making the cake topper to look like us......

Blueowl
January 27th, 2003, 11:59 AM
DO not freak out! Everything does work out...:) I know from experience and going through it twice..second one was thebest! It will be allright..jsut the way of the God/desses to get you riled up!

WynterWynd
January 27th, 2003, 12:07 PM
*kicks post office around*

Your dress will be there!! And your day will be beautiful for the both of you! I really want to see pics, try high speed (1600) film and th e flash for night pics.

Many and Bright Blessings to both of you! :heartthro

Old Witch
January 27th, 2003, 12:56 PM
I said it before, It will be there in time!!!!!!!.........Come on gals, give the post office some energy..................

Thistle
January 27th, 2003, 01:08 PM
Post office energy on its way. That dress *will* get there on time!!

Rubi Waters
January 27th, 2003, 03:41 PM
Energy sent to post office
((((Freyja & Flar))))) everything will be fine :heartthro

IsisErin
January 27th, 2003, 04:11 PM
postofficepostofficepostoffice

WynterWynd
January 27th, 2003, 10:33 PM
OK......*"hurry your bumm up and get the package there" energy being sent for the post office!!! :p

Semele
January 28th, 2003, 10:04 AM
I guess Freyja hasn't had a chance to post it..(can't imagine just what she is doing with all her time!;)) but she told me on the phone last night that the dress has arrived...as we all knew it would!

WynterWynd
January 28th, 2003, 10:58 AM
YEAH!!!!!! :boing:

Old Witch
January 28th, 2003, 11:00 AM
I knew it would!!!!! ALL RIGHT!!!!:D

shnen
January 28th, 2003, 12:01 PM
:thumbsup: thats great to hear!

Blueowl
January 28th, 2003, 02:17 PM
Does the "DRESS HAS ARRIVED" dance....woo hoo!:sunny: :sunny: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :boing: :boing: :boing: :boing: :boing: :boing: :boing: :boing: :boing: :wave: :smoke:

Remember to breath through all this Freyja....it helps lol

Flaire-FireStar
January 28th, 2003, 05:40 PM
Originally posted by Semele
I guess Freyja hasn't had a chance to post it..(can't imagine just what she is doing with all her time!;)) but she told me on the phone last night that the dress has arrived...as we all knew it would!

EXCELLENT! :thumbsup:

Rubi Waters
January 28th, 2003, 11:11 PM
great news!!!! everything will be perfect!! :)

WtchyChick13
January 29th, 2003, 12:27 AM
:boing: :boing: :boing: YEA!!!!!!!!!!!!! :boing: :boing: :boing:


I guess this isn't the right time to say "I told you so..." :lol:



Ok all--Now we have to send all the relaxation energies we can to the happy couple.


Ready??? Breathe in....Breathe out....Breathe in....Breathe out....