Needin some lovin

[*Adia*]

Lately I've found that I'm having some serious problems with the dating world. You all know the old saying, "love comes to you when you aren't looking" or something like that. Well...after way too long of not looking, I'm getting frustrated, AND LONELY! There's nothing I want more than to find a guy and have a relationship...I'm longing for it right now....and I can't explain it. Its just really getting to me. I was wondering if there are any sorts of spells, NOT TO MANIPULATE, but to bring love to me, attract it...if that makes any sense. I'm just really sick of this single scene and need something to change. Hmm...any ideas?

[fire_Raven]

can't help yah here... i've never had a boyfriend...
I'm undisirable or something...
BTW i love the froggie Avvie

[Stacy]

Hmm.. not sure if I can give you step-by-step instructions on what kind of spell you might do.. I know there are some (like the ones to attract love to your life; not a specific person), but I'll leave that to other memebers to tell you cause I don't know.

All I can do is just send positive energies your way..

:sunny: :sunny:

[Thorferrer]

I will also send positive energies your way. I know how you feel, when you wish that if you can't have that couples love, then at least you wish that you could not see any of it, but ofcourse more and more becomes visible.

[shnen]

*hugs and love*

If you do a self loving spell I have alwyas believed that radiates to others and gets them attracted to you. People want to be around those who are positive and love life... so if you send that vibe out, I am sure you will be fightin them off. :) and hey, if it doesn't work at least you have done tons of good for number 1... YOU! :)

[Mnemosyne]

Shnen, good advice. I'm having a few problems also. So what do you advise for us who need some more self-love.

[Xander67]

In the movie Moulin Rouge,

in the finale scene, the man up in the top of the theater remembers what he was trying to say...

"the greatest thing man can ever learn is to love and to be loved"

you are one of us :) we all love you here,
take some time to get to know what makes you happy :)
what do you like to do? get in touch with your creative side by visiting the arts and crafts forum... and come play with us in Just silly..

let us get to know you as you discover more about yourself, and who knows, you may even learn some new things...

Im not really sure what to say...as far as a spell, but i think if you do some of the things i recommended, it will change your outlook far better than a spell...

please remember this if nothing else. The Goddess has a plan for you and although you may or may not be aware of it right now, She LOVES you. Reach out to her, let her know how you feel ..and she will send a legion of Faeries to minister and comfort you..

feel free to pm me if you need someone to talk to ..
oh, one other thing, you are most welcome, as everyone is, to pop in the Cloud and the Tree lounge in Just silly, it is a wonderfull place to be pampered and to enjoy friendly conversation!!

Blessings

[Emaleth]

*hugs everyone*

I know how you feel. Sometimes I get depressed, too. I'm not exactly the most sociable person in the world:rolleyes: .

I love Xander's advice, I think it is very important to remember than we are never alone, that there are always people ready to help and love us, and, what's most important, the Lord and the Lady are there for us all the time.

I also like the idea with self - love spell. I think I'm gonna try this out soon:) .

[Magestya]

I'm sorry you're feeling the way you are. I was there once too. You've sent out your message into the universe. Your love will show their face.
I meditated once, and found myself crying because I was so lonely, sitting under my willow tree. Then a man came and danced with me as the trees branches lightly touched the tops of our heads. I can't even put into words how happy I felt. I never did see his face... not until I met him which wasn't long after.
Maybe try a meditation and reaching out for someone. You never know what will happen. I don't know how advanced you are on meditation, but it helped me through a really hard time in my life.

Blessings,
Magestya