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Kaylara
January 10th, 2003, 07:44 PM
Caretaker captured in child-abuse case



Published in the Asbury Park Press 1/10/03

THE ASSOCIATED PRESS
NEWARK -- A go-go dancer who was supposed to be caring for three young boys -- one of whom was found dead, the other two starving -- was arrested yesterday after a man she met on the street tipped police.


Authorities had looked as far as North Carolina for Sherry Murphy, 41, since Saturday, when two brothers were found starving and emaciated in her basement. The next day, authorities returned to the home and discovered the mummified body of the older boy's twin brother in a purple plastic storage bin.

The case ignited a furor over the state's Division of Family and Youth Services, which had investigated complaints about the family but closed the case last year.

A second state employee who handled the case of the three young brothers was suspended yesterday, said Human Services Commissioner Gwendolyn Harris. That action was taken as a result of the ongoing investigation of DYFS' handling of the case, Harris said.

The supervisor in charge of the case has already been suspended. Both suspensions are with pay, said Human Services Department spokeswoman Pam Ronan.

The two workers' names are not being released.

Murphy was arrested early yesterday as she slept in an Ellery Avenue apartment where Jean Claude Dessources had let her stay, Mayor Sharpe James said.

Dessources said Murphy had been crying and claimed her name was Michelle Williams when he saw her Monday near a go-go bar, James said. Murphy said she had just arrived from the South with no place to stay and asked if they could "chill together" for a while, James said.

Dessources let Murphy stay at his home. He saw news reports about the case and asked Murphy if she was the woman police were looking for, James said. Murphy denied it and turned off the TV news any time the story came on, saying it was too distressing to watch, James said.

On Wednesday, Dessources sent the woman to his cousin's apartment next door, then told police, "I believe the woman staying with me is the woman you're looking for," James said.

Dessources also told them he was interested in the $5,000 reward. Officials said they had not yet decided if he would get it.


Suspect in jail
Murphy was at the Essex County jail after being released from University Hospital last night. She had complained of lightheadedness and high blood pressure while being questioned, James said.
Authorities said she was likely to be arraigned today.

The two surviving boys, Raheem Williams, 7, and Tyrone Hill, 4, remained hospitalized yesterday in fair condition.

Funeral arrangements for Raheem's twin brother, Faheem Williams, who had been dead for more than a month when he was found, were not complete. His death has been ruled a homicide.

No one has been charged in his death, but Police Director Robert Rankin said yesterday that additional charges against Murphy were pending. He would not provide details.

Murphy had been caring for the boys since their mother, Melinda Williams, was jailed on assault charges in March. The women are cousins.

Melinda Williams, 31, told authorities she couldn't find Murphy or the children after she got out of jail last year. She was hit by a car Saturday while rushing to see the children and is hospitalized in critical condition.


Information ignored
DYFS had received 10 complaints about the family in the past 10 years, including substantiated reports that Williams left the children alone and didn't get proper medical treatment for them.
Authorities say at least one of the boys also was molested. A friend of Melinda Williams was arrested Wednesday and charged with sexual abuse.

But the case was closed in February 2002, the same time Williams was jailed for child endangerment stemming from a 1996 incident. She entrusted the boys to Murphy, who authorities say has a crack habit.

Human Services Department investigators found evidence that the two suspended DYFS employees did not follow proper procedures for reporting on and closing the case, department spokeswoman Ronan said. But she said more investigation is needed to determine if they are at fault.

Once that is done, Ronan said, a recommendation may made for further disciplinary action, including termination, which would entitle the workers to a hearing.

Harris said specific findings of the case review would be announced today.

Union officials could not be reached last night but said earlier that the suspended supervisor is "a wonderful woman" who is well respected by her colleagues.


Rebuffed by police?
In announcing Murphy's arrest yesterday, Newark's mayor said Dessources previously had found some police officers in neighboring Irvington and tried to tell them he knew where she was. But the officers, James said, told Dessources they were busy with other things and suggested he go tell police in Newark instead.
Irvington Mayor Wayne Smith said his department is investigating the claim.

"If he came here and our police department didn't respond to it, we'll deal with it," Smith said. "We're investigating it now, and if that was handled incorrectly, Mayor Smith will deal with that swiftly, trust me."

Smith also said his department deserves credit for working with Newark police on the investigation, including arresting the man charged with sexual abuse.

Found at:
http://www.app.com/app2001/story/0,21133,666842,00.html

A local radio station is asking for donations of toys, clothes, books, and other things for these children. They are asking for people who want to make a donation to write a letter to these children. I couldn't even imagine what this 4 and 7 year old have gone through, but perhaps the knowledge that people are not all horrible will help them through this. I am also asking for prayers and energy for these children.

The radio station's website is:
http://www.nj1015.com/personalities/carton-rossi.htm

Kaylara

Old Witch
January 10th, 2003, 07:57 PM
It makes me physically ill when I see the newscasts..........

Kaylara
January 10th, 2003, 08:11 PM
My little brother Nicky (8 years old) was really upset by this, and when I told him that he could send them something to try to cheer him up, he went rummaging through his toys and wrote them a really cute note. If an 8 year old can understand that you shouldn't do this kind of thing, how can several fully grown adults not know that it's wrong?!?!? What the hell is wrong with people???

Kaylara

Yvonne Belisle
January 10th, 2003, 08:26 PM
This is really upsetting to read. I have a little boy a year younger than these kids. They are going to need a lot of love and attention to help mend the damage this would do to them emotionally as well as physically. They will probably be inundated with toys and stuffed animals I think I would be more inclined to see about money if there is a fund for them. They are going to have very high medical bills for a long time.

mol
January 10th, 2003, 09:37 PM
I heard about this today...

I almost didnt believe it. I love at my son and daughter and wonder who could do such a thing?

Stacy
January 10th, 2003, 09:47 PM
My GOD!!!!

I can't believe how sick people can be..

Would you mind if i provide your article (with the radio station link for donation) to couple of my friends?

For now, I am sending energy and strength and will light candles for their recovery..

Poor kids..

Flaire-FireStar
January 10th, 2003, 10:24 PM
Funeral arrangements for Raheem's twin brother, Faheem Williams, who had been dead for more than a month when he was found, were not complete. His death has been ruled a homicide.


My Goddess! What kind of sick minded person would do such a thing!? :mad:

MammaStar
January 10th, 2003, 11:08 PM
When I first heard this story hit, I was in tears. It was horrible HORRIBLE what that woman did, not too mention the mother. At first when the story was broadcasted, we didn't know that the mother abused them as well.

Why DSS let this slip through their fingers, since they made COUNTLESS visits to the children's mother.

Sickening. Just sickening. Why would anyone ever want to hurt an innocent child.

Kaylara
January 11th, 2003, 10:17 PM
Originally posted by Stacy
My GOD!!!!

I can't believe how sick people can be..

Would you mind if i provide your article (with the radio station link for donation) to couple of my friends?

For now, I am sending energy and strength and will light candles for their recovery..

Poor kids..


Go ahead and tell anyone you like... I posted this to get the story out because I really think that people should know what happened to these kids, and the more positive energy going to them, the better.

Kaylara

Flar's Freyja
January 12th, 2003, 02:10 AM
This made me sick too, and in my state I've seen countless moms go to jail and have the person they left to take care of their kids screw up, but never to this point.

Another thing that really fires me up is the shortage of child protection workers in the state. We face the same thing here in Oklahoma. A study was done determining that we are over 500 workers short across the state and those jobs still haven't been filled. You can go to the OKDHS website on any given day and find openings in nearly every county.

Good workers with high standards of performance are the ones who leave and about a third of the ones who do stay are lazy and don't care about doing a good job despite being overloaded. It is possible to do a good job when you make your children a priority and learn to ignore the piles of paper on your desk. Lazy workers learn what they can get away with and this puts many children at risk. It also contributes to the burnout of quality workers, who often end up cleaning up their messes.

The public never hears about the good things that child protection workers do. The horror stories are the only ones that ever make the news. Another thing that we can do is write to and call our legislators and demand that these vacancies be filled and ask why they are not filling these jobs.

MidnightSun
January 12th, 2003, 02:15 AM
This is just disgusting. Absolutely disgusting! What inhuman monster could do such a thing to a child? Let alone 3 at once???? And then killed one???? What a sick world we are living in. Prayers and blessings to those children....they will need it. *sigh*

Kaylara
January 13th, 2003, 12:24 PM
A major problem in NJ is that the case workers are Grossly underpaid and overworked. They recently fired many employees of DYFS, and just loaded the cases onto other case workers. I think that if we lighten the load on the case workers, it will be much easier for them to get to the children who are most at risk on a regular basis. It would also stop the case workers from calling before they go to a residence to investigate. (Which they currently do.) I've dealt with DYFS all of my life because my parents were divorced and my father is a violent drunk. I've had many friends who were foster children, and I tell you, many times they get treated worse in the foster homes than when they were with their own abusive parents. I've worked to get my friends that were being abused in foster homes out of them, but it has literally taken threats of taking this to the media, and letters to the state government before any thing was done.
I just want to get the word out to people about this. No one should ever have to go through what these children went through. With enough awareness it is my hope that parents like this will get caught way before it comes to something like this.

Kaylara

Semele
January 13th, 2003, 05:28 PM
Originally posted by Yvonne Thomas
This is really upsetting to read. I have a little boy a year younger than these kids. They are going to need a lot of love and attention to help mend the damage this would do to them emotionally as well as physically. They will probably be inundated with toys and stuffed animals I think I would be more inclined to see about money if there is a fund for them. They are going to have very high medical bills for a long time.

I am almost certain that the boys will be wards of the state and as such will have state aid to cover hospital and medical bills, but I still agree that money might be a good idea. Maybe a college fund, it is never to early to start on that.

This is just the topper to a week-end full of sad news and heartache. What is the world as a whole doing to our children?

Yvonne Belisle
January 13th, 2003, 05:44 PM
I am thinking long range the state will only cover them till they turn 18 then they have to be productive but impoverished or have a child to support to get state aid. The abuse they have been threw I figured would leave lasting medical issues mentally plus I was thinking with the way the government keeps reducing aid there may not be aid when the kids need it. Plus of course there is the fact that anything left over can go toward providing them with a college education and a good start in life.

Semele
January 14th, 2003, 05:23 PM
Well, at their ages, most of the physical stuff will heal quickly. They will be back to a normal healthy weight soon and should have little or no lasting phyical requirements, certainly not anything that will still require medical attention once they are 18. Mentally, yes they may need lots of therapy, but then again they may not. Don't get me wrong, I know that these things leave lasting scars and it is best usually to deal with it in a professional therapeutic setting, but after a while I feel it hinders productivity in life to keep re-hashing it. Children, in particular, are far better at dealing with both physical and mental pain. They process and heal faster and so long as the abuse isn't still ongoing, they don't always need to be in constant therapy to "stay healed".

Hopefully they will be adopted or at least stay in one foster home for a lengthy enough time to feel like a part of a loving family. I certainly wish them all the luck in the world and I feel there is no reason to give up on governement agencies, even though they have failed these boys miserably. Right now it is their only option and there is a good chance they will be readily accepted into a new home where they can put this all behind them. All the media coverage can actually help in this case.

laserhazel
December 17th, 2003, 02:10 PM
What would you do to prevent this type of thing from ever happening again?

Would you commit to a world of peace and release all support of wars?

What would you do, to never have to read about this type of thing again??

Phoenix Blue
December 17th, 2003, 02:19 PM
What do those questions really have to do with the article itself? How will "releas[ing] all support of wars" impact cases of child neglect?

Kaylara
December 17th, 2003, 05:05 PM
Whoa. Who dug this up again?

Lazerhazel, I don't quite understand what you're getting at here. These children were not in a war zone. They were under the protection of the State of NJ Division of Youth and Family Services, who failed them with fatal consequences.

Actually, the case has been in the news lately because the numbers of children who died this year while under DYFS supervision (in NJ) are set to be released soon, and it looks like we're setting a new record this year. :(

laserhazel
December 17th, 2003, 10:22 PM
I don't know I guess I was just angry. And I always associate all forms of lower behavior with a discrepancy in the collective consciousness.

I apologize if it seemed off topic

In my mind, I try to process all things that occur on Earth as being directly related to one another, after all what caused this woman to neglect or abuse her children was a reaction in the chain of life.

Psychologists would look at her parents or a geneologist would look at possible genes which cause this sort of thing, I however, look at the over all scheme of events which affect life.

Such as; a government that does not oppose war in any form, Is essentially supporting the killing of human beings. Consequently, a message is set up to the collective consciousness that killing is alright, when any conscience having being is opposed to war or any activity which hurts people.

-laserhazel

Flar's Freyja
December 17th, 2003, 11:46 PM
This made me sick too, and in my state I've seen countless moms go to jail and have the person they left to take care of their kids screw up, but never to this point.

Another thing that really fires me up is the shortage of child protection workers in the state. We face the same thing here in Oklahoma. A study was done determining that we are over 500 workers short across the state and those jobs still haven't been filled. You can go to the OKDHS website on any given day and find openings in nearly every county.

Good workers with high standards of performance are the ones who leave and about a third of the ones who do stay are lazy and don't care about doing a good job despite being overloaded. It is possible to do a good job when you make your children a priority and learn to ignore the piles of paper on your desk. Lazy workers learn what they can get away with and this puts many children at risk. It also contributes to the burnout of quality workers, who often end up cleaning up their messes.

The public never hears about the good things that child protection workers do. The horror stories are the only ones that ever make the news. Another thing that we can do is write to and call our legislators and demand that these vacancies be filled and ask why they are not filling these jobs.

I'm digging up my old post - again, the workers themselves can't do anything - at least in my state where state employees are not allowed to lobby - but YOU can. Most states are disgustingly short on workers due to the stress of the job causing very high turnover rates - and some states, like Oklahoma, let those openings sit there for months and months even when they have applicants.

Please do some checking in your own states and find out if this is the case - it likely is - and demand action.

Another problem for many states is that they are putting too much money into being reactive instead of proactive. In Oklahoma, they all but completely shut down the prevention programs which are much more effective than acting after the fact.


Psychologists would look at her parents or a geneologist would look at possible genes which cause this sort of thing, I however, look at the over all scheme of events which affect life.

According to social work theory, you are on the money. Two people can grow up in seemingly identical situations but are affected differently by their individual experiences. I did find, however, in my experience as a child welfare worker that the majority of families involved in the system had lower levels of intelligence, long family histories of abuse, neglect, addictions and mental health issues and few opportunities to make changes in their lives that could help them break the cycle. This is a large way in which the system fails - again, workers frequently are fighting the system every step of the way in their efforts to help these families. The main reason? Money. The programs either do not exist or the state does not want to pay for them. Workers who have a sincere desire to make a difference and find that they can't are the ones who end up leaving - and they are typically the most highly skilled and responsible ones.

Cerulean
December 18th, 2003, 12:57 AM
Somehow the authorities never seem to catch them. Stuff gets reported and nothing happens. Yup. I've seen it.

Kaylara
December 18th, 2003, 03:48 PM
Oh... They caught these bastards... I hope that they fry them... Sorry... But after what was done to these children, the people who are guilty should get the death penalty. They're too sick to remain in society.

Flar's Freyja
December 18th, 2003, 03:58 PM
Somehow the authorities never seem to catch them. Stuff gets reported and nothing happens. Yup. I've seen it.

Uh-oh, y'all got me up on the soapbox - yes, that's another thing.

If you call and make a report and nothing seems to happen, and you know it's a serious situation, call, call, call again. There is no limit on the number of calls you can make.

When a call comes in, the first thing they check is to see if there's "history" - other calls. Frequently, a worker can go out there and just not get there when they can spot something, or sometimes can't find the people at all. If there is a history of referrals, they are more likely to go out again. And please, please, please - have information like addresses, schools, etc. They can't do anything if they can't find the kids! If you are in a situation where the child is actually with you, call right then and there - and better to call the police first, then CPS. Law enforcement is quicker.

Kay, keep us updated. What was done to those children should be done to them.

laserhazel
December 18th, 2003, 09:03 PM
How is abuse prevented?

Obviously punishment does not fear people.

-laserhazel

Calyx
December 18th, 2003, 09:19 PM
That article made me sick to my stomach! I often wonder how people can be so twisted and perverted that they get their kicks from torturing and abusing innocent and defenseless children. And I agree, they ought to fry them! better yet, just send 'em to prison. They have their own ways there in the big house to take care of people who abuse children, and all sound extremely unpleasant and painful!

Is MW going to set up some sort of fund or anything? I am already sending healing and loving energies but would like to do something a little more?

Angel
December 18th, 2003, 09:36 PM
:grrrrr: That just made me angry. How could somebody do that to a child, let alone three? I hope they get everythign they deserve.

Flar's Freyja
December 18th, 2003, 09:48 PM
How is abuse prevented?

Obviously punishment does not fear people.

-laserhazel

Education - not just for the families who are at risk for abuse, but also for the general public as well as other professionals. I am amazed at the number of individuals, teachers and nurses I talk to who are concerned about abuse yet don't know when to report!

Some states have very successful early intervention programs, where social workers visit clients during their pregnancies or soon after the child is born. Just having someone visit these homes can do a lot to prevent abuse, either by offering services that may help or even just by being able to observe signs that children may need to be removed from a home.

Again, the problem is money. The public hears about these heinous cases and loves to b*tch about it, but then they vote down tax increases that could help keep these programs going. The public doesn't realize that the "poor" have a multitude of problems, and child abuse is one of the biggest ones that is a direct result of poverty. The general public perceives the poor as lazy and a drain on society and forget all about the children.

I mentioned before that these are the cases you hear about - you never hear about the good work that child protective workers are doing despite this lack of resources.

People that have committed this type of abuse typically have some sort of history indicating that they might be headed in that direction and somehow fell through the cracks - frequently because at least one person failed to report.

For instance, when a neglected child in my son's school system was murdered and I heard the gossip about the family within the community, I looked them up on the system. While teachers and other community members were fully aware of the problems this family had for years, there was not one single report on the system. Not one.