Question about online readers

[Jackie79]

Hi!

I was just wondering, has anyone here got a reading online? Like u know free readings, tarot.com ect?
I was just wondering, how reliable are those readings? I got one from a person on tarot.com, he said alot among things that I wouldn´t graduate from makeup school, well I did even thoúgh I had feared his answer would be that I wouldn´t.

This has made me doubt other readers unfortantly, some has been right and I am thankful for the time they spent helping me. Now I just want to know, if u get a reading and u know one of the things/some of the things the reader say´s aren´t connected to reality or can under no circumstances be true, does it mean that the whole reading is completeley of or maybe just that one thing? I recently had a reading done where it just didn´t add up what I got to know, seriously it was completley off because it could not be:P

Anyways, I am asking so that I don´t feel like I have to ask a second and then third, then fourth ect person to see if they say the same to check if I was fooled or..yeah it´s hard to explain. I am trying to re-gain trust in tarot so it would help alot.

I am personaly taking a break from tarot for a while, I feel like I need it but I got one last reading to go and one last question because it just doesn´t add p to me that three people say the same thing but a fourth a completeley different thing, so if three people say the exact same thing, and a fourth also say´s one thing the others has said but then, boom they say the complete different thing according to another subject, should I then belive the three who said the same thing or the fourth who said the exact same thing as the previous three on one subject but on the other subject not? Confused, well so am I.

Also, if u ask let´s say 6 people to read on a subject after eachother, does that affect their abbility to read on the question?

Just wondering, and to all u readers out there who once helped me, thanks alot guys I appreciate that u always answer my questions about tarot and help me out when I am lost in this world. Mysticwicks is a second home.
And I am sorry if I offended someone in the past or now, u guys are really great and I want u to know I apperciate every advice and help I have recieved.


Love to u ALL

[EavanStar]

I understand that you want insight into your life, but you need to realize that the future is not certain. You CANNOT force it and even though 3 people have told you the same thing, it still doesnt mean itll happen.

This is in no way a jab at you, nor do I mean you to take offense but you are wasting peoples time in asking the same questions over and over and over. Not only that, I find it disrespectful...however, that is just me. I truly hope you find some answers you can live with and be at peace.

[Jackie79]

I know that it isn´t certain but as I told one, a couple of years ago I got a reading from a witch, it took almost 3 years for that to come true and it cam true, just like she had told me, so I don´t know, I guess I just wanted proof on that I could belive that I had been told.

And it wasn´t my intention to make anyone mad or anything, I just wanted to know if what I had been told and hoped/looking forward to would actually happen. I mean things I have told people has come true...so I just wanted the same for me plus some stuff I asked about, like if I would get new friends this year(it happened) and a year ago before i went as a aupair to germany, I asked if I would stay the whole year and get along with the family, got no repetaly and I left after a fue days in that hell, I also asked when i went to makeup school if I would get new friends, no was the answer and I didn´t, most of them where bitchy. So, I mean there´s gotta be a chance of it happening

And a part of me really belived them when they told me the things they told me, but a part of me needed confirmation because I don´t think I am worthy a high profile musician. And I see it as a sign that three people said the same thing so...Idk

I did a reading for myself to see why I can´t belive and I am waiting for a person to look at it for me so I guess I will find out then.

[Terra Mater]

Something you miss is that at the time the reading was done, maybe you weren't going to graduate. Then you got told that you weren't applied yourself more seriously, paid more attention, and changed the future by changing the present.

Readings are not about the future set in stone, they are about what will come to past if the present does not change. When you change the present, you change the future.

In addition, divination is not an exact science. Even a great reader can mistake the exact reason for a specific occurance of a specific card/bone position/wrinkle in the hand/etc. If you fear you are going to fail make up school, that fear can influence the reading. Sometimes it is difficult to tell if what you see is what will happen or just what the querent fears will happen.

Last, readers (online or off) do not always tell what they see. Sometimes the reader sees the fear, recognizes the fear, and tells you what is needed to get you to move past the fear into actions that will prevent the fear from coming to pass. The reader knows that it is better for a reader to appear wrong about you failing to graduate than for you to actually fail to graduate.

Just some food for though, dine well.:thumbsup:

[Jackie79]

Terra, wow! Thanks, so my fear affects the reading? Yeah, I was told by my teacher(we had got into a fight) that I probably woulnd´t graduate, so I took care of things, trained every day after school ect and made it happen, though I promised to go back since I failed beauty makeup but I am not so..this was almost a year ago and I am going to LA to study fashion, catwalk and music-makeup.

Hmm, so maybe a reader sees what will happen if I don´t stop to doubt everything the whole time, I mean I don´t belive or think I am worthy it ergo thinking it won´t happen. Do u get me?

I mean, wow Terra u really helped me alot by explaning this, no one has told me this before, so thanks!

PS: if u stay on that road and work ur way to the goal, does that mean it can happen?

[Terra Mater]

Of course. There are many people who succeed in spite of the many obstacles to their success. A great example of this is Michael Oher, the football player who was one of 13 children of a crack addicted mother. this man had every excuse to fail, every reason to fail, and mountains of cards stacked against him. yet he succeeded. Or Helen Keller, lost in her own head through the double strikes of deafness and blindness who went on to be a political activist, author, and lecturer.

A strong enough will can overcome much.

[Jackie79]

Yeah because I get mad when I found out things like that, like now I am more than ever focused/motivated to go for my goal and make things happen, just don´t know how to do it since they are in LA and I am here so..

I relax when I get yes bla bla bla and I think, oh well it will work out by itself, but when i get no, it motivates me and actually sometimes piss me off, could that be the universum/guides telling me to get a grip and start working towards it?

Terra can I ask u something?

If I focus on something, will that then be what the readers sees instead of seeing what´s real? Like what my mind and heart wants, like if i really want to let´s say, move to austria, and i focus on that all the time, work towards it ect, will the reader then see that I move to austria because I focused on it so much or because it will happen if I continue to work towards it?