My Ex is a dork! (Rant)

[Chibi-Fallon]

Okay, so today my boyfriend and I officially broke up. Wasn’t a big deal since I was kinda already over him (we’d been on a “break” :rolleyes: for like a week). Big deal whatever we’re still friends.
None of that would be so bad if today when I was talking to him he was hitting on me! It’s just so retarded that I can’t even get my mind around it. Why would you break up with someone and then hit on them?! It’s mind-bogglingly retarded. :bug: I’d say guys are retarded but he acts like a girl (and then I act like the guy so it all works out). My life is just retarded. Is this how guys are supposed to act?

[Ravens_Tears]

Ummmm in my experience, alot of guys can seperate "sex" from their feelings.... and it doesn't surprise me that he hit on you! I think in their minds they can't understand why you'ld have to give up a perfectly good "sex thang" just because you broke up....:rolleyes: NOt all guys are like that by any means... but I have dated my share of them... I'd venture to say that it's normal...

[shnen]

There is no law on how or guys act the way they do... its freaky man. just be glad your a woman.

oh, and of course hes a dork, thats a prerequisite for an ex. :p

so you still like him? would you want to go back with him. A rue I have had since highschool is never go back. If you broke up once you will do it again and again. but thats jsut my opinion! :)

[IsisErin]

When I broke up with my ex-boyfriend we hit on each other all the time. But I think that was mostly because we didn't really want to break up (I was moving away to go to college). If you don't want him to hit on you just say 'Do you mind not doing that?!'. That's what Fraser did to me.

[Tiana_Ecarias]

I'd say it was normal, either he's trying to boost his ego by hitting on you, OR he's doing it, and doesn't realize he is....

I did that once with a friend of mine, was joking around and ahe asked me to stop hitting on him... Which was a shock, but I did.

Also, you can ask him to stop.

Tiana_Ecarias

[Faery-Wings]

Also, guys seem to like what they can't have. It gives it the element of... I can't have her, so she is so much more what I want. ( Not that you are not in your own right, this just adds to it.) Did you see Friends last week with Joey and the nanny? As soon as Ross said "Don't go after her" he was after her. :)

And then there is the possibilty of make-up sex or kissing or whatever. So people really find that a plus.


And yup- ex's are *always* dorks.

[Valnorran]

Don't overlook the possibility that he's just messing with your mind.

[shnen]

you could mess him up and flirt back really good... or start flirting with his friends... :devil:

[Azure]

If you flirt with his friends, you'll find out pretty quick whether or not he's still interested in you, or whether he is just jealous because he still sort of regards you as his. (I will admit to having done this after a really bad breakup and totally p.o.-ing my useless ex).

Of course, you can also use his friends to tactfully get the message to him from a distance that you'd like him to back off.