Help!!!!!!

[pagecrdd]

OK this is probably going to sound really dumb lol but, as i had mentioned before i have been unable to get a gainful nights rest as i am plagued by nightmares and voices and distinct sounds. all of which make me very uneasy inside. many nights i will wake up extremely afraid and other nights (such as tonight) i am unable to sleep at all, the fear is always with me.

well recently i severed the ties with a friend who had been giving off bad vibes. and tonight i did a protection spell on my home and family. after performing the spell and asking that my dreams be pleasant etc the candle burned out and as i reached down to pick it up i found hair on it (the candle is brand new) and the hair belonged to this girl with whom i have severed ties. i am certain it is NOT mine as its about 3 times longer lol and no other women or men have been in my home with that color and length hair in ages, so yeah im certain....anyway, im wondering if this might mean something or if it is purely coincidence.....

any help is appreciated!

[Raevyn]

Coincidence, IMHO. As far as I know there's no symbolism involved.

[Flar's Freyja]

Could be conincidence, or could be symbolism - the interpretation is up to the individual.......I pay alot of attention to symbols and depending on the situation, I might view it as symbolism. What are your feelings regarding finding the strand of hair?

[Mithrea]

Not to supercede what Freyja was trying to do or put thoughts in your head . . .

I can only respond with how I would take it.

If I found myself in that situation and I was *sure* it was her hair, I would take it as a sign that I am not free of her yet--that her influence is still within my house/life in some way, just as her hair is. This might sound silly but did you do a mundane physical cleaning of your house before you worked the spell? Meaning, did you vaccum and dust heavily? If not, try giving your house a darn good housecleaning and trying the spell again.

However, I would say that this girl is definitely on your mind. It is one thing to sever ties with someone, it is something completely different to forget about them. Her influence over you or affect on your life, is not going to ever be gone unless you force it. Don't dwell on her, put it out of your mind and those reminders of her will probably stop popping up.

[Rick]

Hmm... I believe I'd have burned the hair in the candle flame as a physical symbol of severing the ties...