need advice/input/opinions...

[MaegnusIsttarion]

i currently live with my wife, 2 yo son and, my wifes best friend. i have been experiencing ever increasing strange and frankly scary things going on in my house. things like spirits coming and going that i can tell mean me and my family harm, other senses of people watching me in a room with no windows, and just recently ive had spirits come into my bedroom and stand and stare and i mean like a crazy person would stare at you or like a shark looking at fresh meat staring at you. well i had a fight with my wife over our situation because this "friend" has been bringing people into my house that are not let say nicely good people in any sense of that word. they come into my home and leech of me, my wife, my son (which aggravates me to no end) and will also beg the roommate for money cigarettes drugs etc. etc. etc. one of these so called friends has even went so far as to run up a phone bill on my home phone, eat my son almost quite literally here out of house and home, run up an electric bill by sitting butt naked in front of a space heater for the whole night (which has shown on some days a $10 increase in the light bill) when he has been told to go to bed and also running all the electronics he can access in the basement at one time. ive been told that i cannot express my opinion of these people to the roommate or to them personally because someone might get upset. these people are users, abusers, drug addicts, amongst other things (one is the roommates ex-boyfriend who is on probation for several felonies such as possession of a altered firearm, house of common nuisance, and possession of drug paraphernalia, while this persons current girlfriend is under age yet begs to drink and do drugs in my basement knowing that doing so would have consequences for me and my wife but also her boyfriend and herself). well through out my training/reading/education/discussion with other pagans i have come across that certain types of people will drag bad things along with them and not just on the physical plane but also on the higher planes as well. well to top things off i got some information from my stepfathers mother (my grandma) who both are very strictly religious christians, that and i quote here " i am on my knees praying for your oldest stepson because God has told me there is a great evil in that house that needs to leave and im praying that it leaves and doesnt hurt him or his family". also to mention here my grandma had no idea that things had gotten as bad as they are and that i was told by police to leave or go to jail last night, yet she knew that something immensely evil was going on here. what im wondering is what you guys think, what you can tell me that might help to clear this crap out of my house and away from my wife and son, and what to do both mundanely and magickally to clean up if i can get him out of my house and the people to leave me and mine alone. Thanks for any help!

[Terra Mater]

Forget the spiritual side of this for now. You have some very tangible issues in the physical world to deal with. If you own this property then you have every right and reason to file an order of eviction against these people that are polluting your space. If you are renting, then you need to talk to your landlord or your local renter's board about the options for getting them out without having to throw you out.

You cannot wait any longer, the spiritual activity around you is either drawn by them or by the perils you have put yourself under by allowing this to continue. If you cannot do anything else, you need to talk to the cops about the criminal activities you have witnessed. If you have participated in any of them, you will probably get conditional immunity (get arrested or charged with anything in a set period of time and these charges get levied as well).

There is no question that they are going to fall hard for their life choices. The only question is whether or not you and your wife go down with them.

[MaegnusIsttarion]

I think me and the wife may have a solution. She agrees that the so called friends are not worth the air they breath or space they occupy and that our roommate would be better off moving out. Everyone knows that life will be a living hell if the rules are not followed, i.e. they laws of state and country among others like the house rules. im needing to know what can be done to clear the house once hes has gone, besides buying as much sage as i can get my hands on and literally fumigating my house like you would if you were killing vermin. BTW we are buying our home and i have got the point across that this does not need to be happening in my house and around my son, that the things that the roommate and his friends do can do my son harm. I believe this will see a good end as long as the people in question listen. ive got her agreement that this needs to be done and that we will be fine without others living in our home and leeching off of us.

[FiresSong]

I agree with Terra - you've got bigger issues than the dark and scaries. I would personally express my opinion all over the place in the form of a "Get the Hell out of my house and away from my child(ren.)"

As far as the nasties are concerned, do a good thorough house cleansing, put up some wards, and keep shitty people out of your home.

[StarlitNox]

If I were in your position, I would have been chasing them around the house with a rusty chainsaw until they got the message, to be honest. I would NOT let them be around kids, that never works out well.

I was a kid that grew up around an environment exactly like that, only my parents were involved in it too. HEAVILY. Let me tell you, the best thing you can do is send the kid(s?) to stay with relatives until they're gone, if they're going to be around for even another week. Seeing people walk around in a drug haze, stumbling around in a drunken stupor... those are things kids should never get used to seeing, because they'll wind up attracted to friends like that because, hey, they're used to it, right? ...yeah, a bit of personal story there. XD

It's good you're doing something about it. Most people don't, not until they realize just how quickly the situation is snowballing, and by then... too late.

>< This is why I hate the idea of roommates. These days, you can hardly even trust the people you call your "best friends", let alone random people leeching off you.

I can't wait to hear that you've gotten rid of them :3