I have a dilemma

[Eiddwen]

Ok I have this dilemma, but its not life or death or anything like that. I live on my own, in my own apartment, by myself. I'm shy by nature which makes it sort of easy to be by myself, but I miss people. I miss having someone to talk to everyday...someone/thing there to keep me company. I've been offered a place at my brother's and his ex-girlfriend's and their roommates house. I would just haveta be there to provide rides, put groceries in the house, and just have to pay $150/month. I know I have to do whats right for me and I can live with them, but I think my feelings are that I just dont want to disappoint anyone. Any advice? (If this makes sense)

[StarlitNox]

Ok I have this dilemma, but its not life or death or anything like that. I live on my own, in my own apartment, by myself. I'm shy by nature which makes it sort of easy to be by myself, but I miss people. I miss having someone to talk to everyday...someone/thing there to keep me company. I've been offered a place at my brother's and his ex-girlfriend's and their roommates house. I would just haveta be there to provide rides, put groceries in the house, and just have to pay $150/month. I know I have to do whats right for me and I can live with them, but I think my feelings are that I just dont want to disappoint anyone. Any advice? (If this makes sense)

If you want socialization, there's penpals here :D
Don't do anything that isn't good for you. Look out for numbah one! :boing: That's all the advice I can give here. I'm shy and miss people too, so I can sympathize. Like I said before, pen pals :D

Going from alone to around people 24/7 will be quite a shock for you. I hate that transition. It just makes me more and more antisocial. Also, grates my nerves until I snap :P

Also, don't worry about disappointing other people. Who's to say they wouldn't disappoint you? Even family will walk all over you, given the chance. It happens, but slowly, so it's sneaky like a ninja like that.


I'd KILL to live alone, wanna trade? XD

[Eiddwen]

lol Well thanks I went from people 24/7 to no one unless i left my house there are times I spend days just curled on my sofa. I think I would rather be around ppl 24/7 then alone, plus we all work so its not that bad. Tho I just feel like i'd be disappointing my parents in a big way. like this decision makes me wanna cry because I love my apartment, but i love my "family" (the girls that would be my roommates and my bro) too.

[*GrumpButt*]

Ok I have this dilemma, but its not life or death or anything like that. I live on my own, in my own apartment, by myself. I'm shy by nature which makes it sort of easy to be by myself, but I miss people. I miss having someone to talk to everyday...someone/thing there to keep me company. I've been offered a place at my brother's and his ex-girlfriend's and their roommates house. I would just haveta be there to provide rides, put groceries in the house, and just have to pay $150/month. I know I have to do whats right for me and I can live with them, but I think my feelings are that I just dont want to disappoint anyone. Any advice? (If this makes sense)

Don't worry about that. Do whats right for you, not them!:thumbsup:

[rheab]

It sounds like you're moving into the set of "Friends"! It could be drama, but I think it sounds fun, and wow, $150.00/month plus food, that might be worth a tiny bit of drama. I hope it works out for you!