Not sure what this is, anyone that can give advice or input, Welcome!!

[McDarvin]

This is something that has gone on since the first of the year. First I got cancer in Jan, then another health problem in March, and Have been on and off work since then. I've got two close friends which also practice. Not only have I gotten sense of ill will from each one of them. But I've had this cloud like haze over myself and my abilities since a ghost visited and haunted one of my friends apartments in November of last year.

The friend had called us both over to try to help with this haunting problem, because she had been thrown off the bed by this spirit in the house. And her dog wouldn't stop barking at the door of the bedroom in which the event took place. Everything went fine and we seemed to help cleanse the house. But something went terribly wrong with the friend I had come over there with. The girl I was with seemed to become posessed by whatever what doing these things to them in the apartment. And between all four of us it was a battle to get this thing to leave her alone.

After everything was said and done. And me and that friend split apart and she moved away thousands of miles. I still have suffered nothing but afflictions from the time that happened until now. The girl that moved away, I fear might have done something to me such as a binding, or a banishment for some type. And the guy friend I have. I have the feeling that he's gotten himself into something far worse that I'm not sure about. He seems to be like a psychic vampire.

Anytime he's around me and my spouses energy levels plummet. We have brought it to his attention and he says he has done something on his own accord about his problem. But the other day after having done many protection spells, and general healing over months with no steady results. Me and my spouse who is also pagan, we did a version of a reversal to whoever has afflicted us. I made sure to not mention any names and keep it open. I just wanted whatever it was to stop trying to sicken me even more. I noticed shortly after that BOTH friends that I mentioned, The girl who moved away and my friend, the psychic vamp, are both having extremely weird things happening to both of them.

I'm not sure what else to do in a delicate situation, but if there's any psychics, or someone that can see something that would be of great help. Or something that I have missed. I just want to be myself again, and be happy. I don't need this negative energy around me. Any thoughts would be appreciated. :boing:

[McDarvin]

There's a lot more to that story. I just had to shorten it. Sorry if the post was odd or whatnot. I just don't know what to do in a situation like this. I didn't mean scare off everyone lol

[phathead]

Hello Mcdarvin,
Sorry to hear about this mess but things like this happen more than most people think. In your post you stated that you and some of your friends "practice", but did not specify as to what specific practices those were. That could be an important detail in determining the solution to your problem.
Through your description, it sounds like you already know what the problem is....somebody did something to attract a dark spirit, it attempted to attach to the people and place it found itself in so it could stay - for whatever agenda of its own. You guys tried to do a spiritual cleansing to get rid of it that was not necessarily 100% successful.
My first question is, did you do anything to yourself to pre- protect yourself before attempting this? Also, did you do a personal cleansing after the fact?
In my tradition, you would go for divination to determine the cause of the problem and the type of ritual or cleaning needed to rectify it. The specifics can be as generic or detailed and involved as the situation requires.
My suggestion, take frequent spiritual baths and house cleansings. Find someone, in your tradition, or not - as necessary, to determine the problem and solution through a very good divinatory reading. (keep in mind, we are not talking about some lost soul who cannot find the light. We are talking about a possibly malevolent dark spirit with an agenda - Chamomile and sage sticks with a crystal won't cut it. If that is what this is - THIS IS A FIGHT!)My personal opinion -a Palero is your best bet.
Final advice, stay the hell away from any negative people like that - no painless way to put that.
Good luck.

[Cindlady2]

I pretty much agree with phathead. This is something that often happens to people who are a bit too zealous. (Sorry if it offends) Sometimes people jump into things they think they know about, only to find there was allot more to it. You may have to find someone stronger, more knowledgeable and experienced than yourselves to help you. Don't be embarrassed by this, we all had a "learning curve". And take it as that... learning! When doing any type of exorcising .... protect yourselves and those around you. Personally, I work within several circles whe dealing with something like this. But in all fairness, I can see you weren't sure what you were dealing with.