strange dreams...help

[HeavensHope]

well you know my bf.....who i think is the 'one' i still do. But lately i've been having wierd dreams about him. 2 of him leaving me, and one of him hitting on one of my friends....FYI he hasnt met any of my friends yet. In the dream he's completely different from who he really is. In my dream he's kind of a slack, careless, irresonsible play boy. In real life he's the complete opposite of that....he's very caring...he has so much passion in everything he does....and i know he loves me with a very strong passion. Sometimes i get into these quiet moods where i dont say a word and keep to myself and go into my own lil world. It makes him feel like i'm shutting him out...makes him feel like i dont care about him and every time that happens....he doesnt let it go until i tell him what's wrong with me. Unlike all of my past bf's who normally leave me alone til i get over it and everything is all fine and dandy again. One time it got so serious that he said he would go out and not come back til i talk to him....and he did...couldnt believe it but he did. He was so upset that he stood outside in the middle of the night at about 2am in the freezing cold with just a sweater on....i thought he'd be out there for about 20mins give up and come back in...but nope. He stayed out there for hours and hours...and i was out there too...trying to get him inside...it was getting colder and even though he was upset with me for not talking to him...he took off his sweater and put it on me...i didnt realize that he was ONLY wearing a sweater til i looked up and he was half naked in the freezing cold. Still he refuses to go inside til i talked to him....so i finally just spit out what was wrong...and he went inside....and talked some more. =) all is well again. That's something i'll never forget...first time a guy has ever reacted that way towards me..didnt know how to take it. What i dont understand is why am i having these aweful dreams about him?

[WtchyChick13]

I think it may be because like you said, he is the first one of your boyfriends to try and get you to talk about your problems whereas the others let you alone.

It may just be that you are afraid of losing him and your mind is playing some tricks on you while you sleep.

I wouldn't worry about it too much. If you're like me, my mind seems to work overtime just as I'm about to go to sleep. Conjuring up all sorts of strange things.

I say, if it keeps up, talk to your boyfriend about it and see what he says. Couldn't hurt. ;)


You may also want to check out the Divination Forum here also--they do dream analysis there and you may find some answers there that you are looking for. :)

[Gently Gazing Eyes]

Hmm.. wow.
He seems very nice and devoted..

[TornadoAli]

Hmmm...it sounds to me as if your inner fears about him are just surfacing in your dreams... If your intuition is telling you that he is right for you, then I would go with that. Your dreams are just pointing something else out...?

[HeavensHope]

thanx everyone

[Psyche Ague]

I agree: I think your fears are manifesting themselves in your dreams. You may be paranoid that this really nice guy may be "fake" or "leading you on," while your rational side is fighting against that thought. This cognitive dissonance within your mind may be coming out in the safe form of dreams. Just try not to let them influence how you see him. Remember to let his actions speak for him, not your dreams. Don't let your dreams make you see him differently.