Just A Question.

[Indigosoul]

I can't read myself so I need a little help. Recently, I was told by a psychic and then again by an astrologer that I would become pregnant soon. I was wondering if anyone else can see this, and maybe a time frame for when this would happen, if the baby would be healthy, and how it would effect my life and my lover and I's relationship. I would appreciate any input you may have very much!

[Corr]

I would recommend talking to your lover rather then a psychic. Nothing a psychic can say will be more significant or important then what you hear from your partner. Babies can change everything in your life so... Be careful and act responsibly.

[Indigosoul]

True, but I know that my partner cannot predict such things which is why I didn't ask him when this would happen.

[Eyeris]

Mayhap it means that you are in a very fertile period physically, or mentally/spiritually/however-else-you-might-look-at-it. We don't need to get personal and discuss your birth control methods OR if you are already trying to have a baby (you have not specified).

IF you are NOT trying to have a baby: I think all Corr was trying to say is, that if you are not trying to have a baby you should find out if your lover wants one or not. Have you discussed what would happen if you were to become unexpectedly pregnant? I think every couple should be prepared, it is always a possibility. (and I predict it will be really bad for your relationship if it happens, and you are not on the same page). Is a baby wanted 'now?' or 'someday?' Do you want a baby now? Are you ready? Do you have the resources to support a child? the answer for the two of you is no, I'd suggest extra protection for awhile. If it is yes... the discussion changes.

"he can't predict such things" unless you are using birth control. You can not predict accidents, and even accidents have options such as the day after pill. Just saying, even if the psychics say so if you do not want a baby, there are a great number of ways to not have one.

IF you are trying to have a baby: Good luck :D You can request a reading I'm sure.

[Indigosoul]

We are not trying to have a baby. Neither one of us particularly want one at this point in time, but if one happened to come we would have to deal with it. But neither one of us are doing anything to prevent it either. So if I were to get pregnant in the near future it would be accident related and not due to either of us trying. But if there were an accident neither one of us believe in the available options out there if it were to happen. I was just curious is all.

[Twinkle]

I personally don't think that an astrologer can predict your ovulation cycle, your ability to procreate, or your partner's sperm count. The vague mumblings of a stranger have no impact on your life unless you choose to let it.

[lightdragon]

offhand you are the chooser of your own fate. if a psychic tells you might become pregnant soon. then i would check with the material things and ask your partner wether he wants a baby or not. but what this person said i would take it with a grain of salt.

[Indigosoul]

Normally I would probably question it. However it was more than one psychic who said this, and I did a tarot reading on the subject which verified the same thing that they had said.

[lightdragon]

still, check you birth control devices and if your S.O. wants a child. all these people can do is say what transpired, what is and what MAY be. NOT WHAT WILL BE.