Over-reacting??

[FaerySong]

yeah my gf of about less than a month cheated on me with some (inhuman) guy at the movies a day after we went on this vacation. And then I found out from her ex that she (my gf) was trying to get her (the ex) to have phone sex with her. And she's trying to pull the whole "oh I'm going through too much stuff right now"....for two months. and yeah.....I got really mad/hurt, and I was j/w....

[SerenityMoon]

you have every right to be angry. no matter how long you two are going out, cheatnig is wrong, end of story. if i were you, i'd end this relationship now if you know for sure she cheated on you. it's easier for youto get out now than it will be if you wait two years and prolong it.

[FaerySong]

I did, I broke up with her when I heard it. and I had confronted her about it and she just said "shut up" before I said "no, we need to talk". urr _ _. that's two failed short-lived relationships in a row. I chuckle now.

[Albie]

I'm sorry to hear you've been hurt, Faery Song. It sounds as if the person you tried to talk to wasn't ready to meet your heart openly..... and that speaks of where she is emotionally. It isn't a statement about your value nor a judgement upon how loveable you are. You know that, right?

Two failed relationships are like two plates of dinner out you didn't enjoy. One doesn't say that they are bad orderers in restaurants, one just burps the acid reflux and move on to better, more healthier places to eat.

I wish you much love and acceptance with your next intimate friend.

[FaerySong]

thank you. =)

[AmbivalentMirage]

I don't think you're overreacting at all. Just allow your emotions to flow...but be wise with how you express them. Human emotions, themselves, are not troublesome...our expressions of them, however, are! ;)

[FaerySong]

thanks, everyone, this is making me feel much better. At first I was furious and hurt, and then like yesterday if it got quite I would start thinking about it, and get really upset. heh. but then people like you tell me it's not my fault, and then I'm ok. =) thank you all.

[materra]

I echo what Albie said as it is right on the money. Hang in there, and keep your eyes open....BB