not realy important but eh*shrugs*

[crystalblue_orchid]

this isnt realy important but my mom it quetioning takeing me to visit a group of friends of hers, i've already ben going with her fro a few months now but she's one of those over protectiv typs..well kind of anyway, she knows i can handle my self but shes still, well, mom.

anyway shes concerned that i might be offended by the topics and language and what not, i ceep telling her that its ether nothing i havent already herd befor or that my friends wouldnt talk about, but she ceeps saying she doesnt want be to be all "corupted", lol.

the stuff they talk about is like, normal jokeing talk that silly , slightly sick minded people talk about, i for one do have a sick since of humer so im not realy botherd by it, but she ceeps asking if im offended by any of the sexual conversations and, well stuff adultsover the age of 20 normaly talk about, i.e. drugs (they have always told me never to do drugs mind you), sex, alchohal, and just over all sper of the moment conversations.

its prity mutch the same stuff me and my friends talk about only its people who are over the age of 20 for the most part.
i ceep telling her that im fine with it and that if i didnt want to be there or was uncomferateble (blhaa cant spell that word)
that i wouldnt even ask to go.

so i dont know im just kind of confused on why she's so concerned about that.

[Starry Di]

hooked on phonics would love to get ahold of that post o.O

Okey...let's pretend that I understand what you wrote...Your mom doesn't want you to be corrupted so she's babying you, right? Eh. that's the way most parents are ;) :$

[crystalblue_orchid]

:D hehe,

i know i cant spell very good, i like to say it was the falt of the schools, hehe.

but yeah, its just that im terning 18 in october and i dont want her to baby me ALL of my life, *shrugs* but i gusse its her job er somthing, oh well.

[Yvonne Belisle]

If you are that close to 18 talk things out explain that it is reassuring for you to hear it from them as well and that it is nice to know kids aren't the only ones who think about that stuff maybe that tact will help. Other than that her attitude is normal parents that love their kids just want what is best for them and to keep them safe and protected.

[crystalblue_orchid]

:D thank you

[MidnightSun]

comfortable :) *well someone had to!* hehehe :) Me and my mom already had this discussion just a few days ago. Me and my twin sister are 5 months from turning 18, and we discussed the things that are going to change, things that won't..etc. Perhaps you should give this a try?

[crystalblue_orchid]

*shrugs* eh, me and my mom talk a lot too, i just dont realy get why moms have to be so....momish?, hehe. oh well, atleast i know she cares, wich is good, so yay for my momy :D