Don't have to read, I just need to get this out.

[FaerySong]

I had to get the pain in my heart to go away. I've been upset about my break-up, and seeing my Ex today really smacked me. But, I don't want to harbor this pain, I want it to go away NOW. SO I came to the decision to forgive her, and then cut my tie with her. Was this ok? My friend was kinda like "don't fall into that". And that's my problem, I forgive to easily and then people work their way into my brain again. but yeah like I said I just needed to write this. and the random people who DID click it, can leave any comments if they feel necessary...

[Siarlas]

Pain takes time to go away, but personally, I think you have made the right choice. Too many times I have forgiven a person only to have them hurt me again. You don't need someone in your life who can have such a negative impact.

[Phoenix Blue]

I think you did the right thing, too. . . **soft smile** too often, people say, "oh, you shouldn't do that." But how do they know? Have they been through your experience? Is their belief tempered through fire, or is it soft like unwrought iron?

[Flaire-FireStar]

*hugs*

Aww, Faery.. I agree with what's already been said. I let my friend Jason (figuratively) stab me in through the heart 4 times before I just said that enough was enough...

But it seems like the breakup is still fresh in your mind..You seem to care about her a lot, but if she's going to cause you so much pain, I think its' best you take a break from her. *hugs*

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My PM box is always open if you need someone to rant at.
:smooch: Keep strong, hon.

[Xander67]

I think you did the right thing too ..

and we all care about you! please do not ever feel like you are dumping on us, or being a burden,

we are here for each other, and maybe there is someone reading this thread that will also be helped...

rant, vent, kick, cry, scream away, we are here for you!

[Phoenix Blue]

What Xander said. ;)

[FaerySong]

*hugs all around* thank you. I want to break something/cry/hurt someone but I cant do any of that. my eyes remain dry and my hands at my side or on the keyboard. but really, my mind is ripping apart. it's like a battlefield. but thank you all for ur support, it really means alot of to me =)

[Siarlas]

Originally posted by FaerySong
but thank you all for ur support, it really means alot of to me =)

:: gets all sniffly ::

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[Thistle]

FaerySong, you did what you had to do to take care of yourself, so you definitely did the right thing. It's okay to forgive a person for what they did, but still cut your ties with them. You forgive them for yourself, because if you don't, you're the one it hurts. But forgiving doesn't mean that whatever they did is okay with you, it just means you can't carry a whole load of hurt and pain around. ((((hugs)))) Be strong, hun, it will get better.

[FaerySong]

thank you Thistle, I had to explain that to my friend because she was like "why did you forgive her?!?!?" but now Brittany (my ex) is like planting S**t on my friends saying they've been harrassing ehr (they haven't, I know they haven't.) she's just trying to create more stuff to be depressed about. It makes me want to break something cuz she needs to get over herself, seriously. (and she hasn't even apologized for what she did to me :( )

[sandra scrumbo]

*hugs*
I know how it feels, and don't ever feel bad about venting to people: it often helps... and if not, there is always chocolate!!!

[Ravens_Tears]

Vent away!!!!! Goodness knows I've been doing enough of that on here... and I can vouch for the chocolate!:D Always works for me.