Trying to reach my dad

[blewrayne]

Okay guys, I need all the advice I can get. I am trying to talk to my dad through prayers at night time hoping that he will come in my dreams. It just seems that he is constantly around my sister...And I just want to be able to see him, or talk with him in my dreams....I've tried thinking about him, talking to him out loud...just lately I haven't been able to touch base. ( yes my dad's on the other side...) It's been 4 months since he's passed, and you know it feels like yesterday. I still talk like he's here...but when I've come to reality, he can't come over and fix the car...
I'll take all the advice you can give...Thank you Kindly my wonderful friends...

[FeatherGoblinglimmer]

Maybe he will appear to you when you truely need him. Did your sister take your fathers passing particularly badly perhaps?

[FeatherGoblinglimmer]

Just read what i just said. I am not saying you don't truely need him and i hope he will be there when you need him. Hugs and prayers for you.

[blewrayne]

thank you kindly for your prayers and good advice...Yes my sister did take it harder than I she was closer.
Much appreciated!!!

[Cricket]

(((((((blewayne))))))) I so know how that feels, the need, the frustration, the worry that you will never make the longed for connection.....my love and thoughts are with you.
I will share w/you what I did in hopes it will give you some ideas or help you in some way, k? My daddy & I were not close in the 10 yrs or so prior to his passing, I did not live near him.
Here's what I did: I got a picture of him and put it by my bed and surrouned myself and the picture with the pure white light and each nite before I went to sleep I said, "Daddy, please come in dream tonite, the barriers will be down and I will remember." I did this faithfully and he came. First I noticed a familiar scent around me though. Like you, I'd go around talking to him all the time, figured he'd finally get tired of hearin me and speak up if nothing else to tell me to please be quiet!
He had a lot of pain in his legs, he had a wreck when he was 18 & was crushed & had a full body cast on. We would rub his legs w/alcohol and bengay. I did not know I was an empath and my bones would hurt til I almost cried many times when doing this for him, but I never mentioned it to him. I suppose he associated it w/a warm, close memory so......I began to notice the same 'ache' that I got when little when I'd rub his legs. Just little things.
Sometimes, although we truely want the contact, we are not 'open' to it and it is hard for them to get thru to us. Try the dream work and never give up talking to him, please. It matters not if he responds to you right away, he can hear you and he WILL talk to you or communicate w/you. Just do not loose faith and do not say "I can't" or "I do not" say "I will hear and communicate w/you soon, Daddy, maybe even in the next 10 seconds! I love you and I miss you"
Love
Cricket

[Koehnae]

I have been in your position. My dad passed away two years ago. For 6 months I was hurting so much from his death that I couldn't even cry. My mom, my sister... even my uncle... had all talked to him in dreams. I longed so much to talk to him. It was shortly after 6 months that he finally came to me in a dream.

...I was sitting in my room on the floor, my back against the bed, reading the book on my lap. My dad walks in and sits down on the floor in front of me. He says," So, what have you been up to?" That started a long conversation just like the ones we had when he was alive....

As much as I wanted that dream right away, I believe now that it came when I most needed it. I woke up from that dream crying... finally.

The best advice I can give you is to remember that he is there and you will get your dreams when you need them most. But, it doesn't hurt to keep asking.