Energy help for husband and I

[jenn]

My problems are pretty lame compared to others in this forum. My husband works 2 and 3 hours north of home and he commutes back home every night. I worry about him all the time and then I get so stressed over home stuff then feel bad because he is so tired. Money is too tight to move, and in fact its getting real hard as I know is the same for alot of people these days, to stay caught up on our basic bills. To top it all off, with my good luck, I am headed to court tomorrow because I got pulled over 2 weeks ago and received a ticket for extremely expired tabs and then notified that my liscence had been suspended . I could just kick myself for the tabs because we are so on top of things like that and I am scared to death to go to court for my liscence-I suffer from anxiety and actually today for once I am calm and just need to get this over with. I had spent the first 2 days after it happened crying and wondering whats next . I'm afraid I am going to get up there and lose it, or have a grumpy mean judge. Please help!

[nomadicdragon]

I'll be sending energy your way.. hope everything works out.

[Old Witch]

Sending you some calming energy

[jenn]

Thank you very much, I tied back up in a gigantic knot after I wrote that!

[Hawk Shadowsoul]

ENergy sent.

[DanuMoonrunner]

Energy sent!

[Rubi Waters]

calming and good luck energy sent

[Faery-Wings]

Oh do you sound like me right now. Once the stress ball starts rolling, it just doesn't stop. It keeps on getting bigger and bigger. :(

(((HUGS)) and lots of calming energy.
I am carrying some rose quartz and blue lace agate today to keep me balanced. Mabe something like that will help you?

[*Cerridwen*]

aww you poor thing :hugz:

energy coming your way, hope things are ok for you.

[FeatherGoblinglimmer]

I hope it works out . I send soothing energy your way. And i shall light a green candle for you to help your financial situation(((((((())))))))

[Joshua]

Energy sent.

Actually, showing up in court is just about the best thing you can do. Plead your case for leniency. Most judges are very good about reducing fees when people own up to it and ask for a break. Blessings and good luck.

[jenn]

Thank you all very much. I have to go in this afternoon and woke up this morning with a full blown cold probably brought on by stress alittle but my daughter is home sick from school too. I am going to hope for leniency-our jail here is usually pretty full. Im not so worried about the tabs because I got them the very next day, Im more spooked about the liscence being suspended and need to explain that Ive had circumstances out of my control and that I realize I need to get things paid off, or something like that.

[Chrystiona]

I hope it went okay :) (( hugs ))

[Hope]

calm and peace --- hope it went well

love
hope

[LadyAutumnCat]

Energy sent sweetie.

I had to go through a suspended license issue, but it all worked out in the end. I just had to pay a fine before I left the court. It's about $300. Good luck, I understand.

[Hoot]

It's the little things in life that often peck at us the most - mainly because of the way we perceive them. The hope I send for you is that you believe in yourself - I know you can do this, even if you don't yet. Sending you some strength and calm to center yourself and find your fortitude.

[jenn]

It's the little things in life that often peck at us the most - mainly because of the way we perceive them. The hope I send for you is that you believe in yourself - I know you can do this, even if you don't yet. Sending you some strength and calm to center yourself and find your fortitude.

Thank you-you touched on the most important thing and that is that I need to be stronger... It didnt go as badly as I thought, although I have to go back in late October. They have a program to help people get their liscense back and they make it to where you dont have to pay all of the interest the collections company tack on to your bill. They issued alot of bench warrants that day-people didnt bother to show... Its hard as Im sure alot of people are in the same boat, with bills and all, and having three kids to feed, etc. At least my husband ended up taking Friday off so I got to see them, although its hunting season. Today he is back up in Seattle and probably wont be home until 9 at night. He had to leave by 5:00 am. Poor thing

[athena422]

Calming energy sent. I too shall light a green candle for prosperity for you.

[Flar's Freyja]

My problems are pretty lame compared to others in this forum. My husband works 2 and 3 hours north of home and he commutes back home every night. I worry about him all the time and then I get so stressed over home stuff then feel bad because he is so tired. Money is too tight to move, and in fact its getting real hard as I know is the same for alot of people these days, to stay caught up on our basic bills. To top it all off, with my good luck, I am headed to court tomorrow because I got pulled over 2 weeks ago and received a ticket for extremely expired tabs and then notified that my liscence had been suspended . I could just kick myself for the tabs because we are so on top of things like that and I am scared to death to go to court for my liscence-I suffer from anxiety and actually today for once I am calm and just need to get this over with. I had spent the first 2 days after it happened crying and wondering whats next . I'm afraid I am going to get up there and lose it, or have a grumpy mean judge. Please help!

(((Both of You))) I'm making a 120 mile round trip commute to work and that doesn't include the driving that I do FOR the job. This past year, I hit two deer within 6 months on one of the highways I have to travel and lately I've been fighting falling asleep at the wheel - I have a dr. appt this week to find out what's up with that. I also suffer from anxiety and depression and don't take care of important things either and the time passes and I end up in real trouble that could have been easily avoided......

Hugs and energy on the way.

[DixieWitch]

Sending positive thoughts and energy your way.

[jenn]

Hes getting pretty bogged down too-he got up at 3am and I dont expect him home tonight until about 10:00-Im suprised he hasnt said anything about dozing off. And he is a concrete finisher so the work itself is hard. The money thing is getting a little better-gettting caught up and after I get my liscence back I need to find something part time too. My kids go to year round and have misc. breaks here and there.I appreciate all of the support.we got into a huge fight last night and arent speaking too much today and I feel bad cuz I know he is drained and then I have my everday stresses too

[Hoot]

I'm so glad if I helped. Sending more, with a hug. Share it with your husband!

[jenn]

Thanx! It does help. I dont mean to sound so snivelly, its just hard -hes been having to travel like that since last February I think and hasnt had time to do anything anymore he enjoys. Hes even starting a side job Saturday so there goes his free time. I try to have things in order here for him but then Im getting stressed cuz it feels like Im a single parent these days. Ill make sure to share it-hopefully he isnt in fight mode still!:floating:

[Pesha]

Ah hon it will be ok. HUGS and energies are sent.

BB
DS.

[cyprian]

Energy Sent!