Life is horrible I need a friend

[lady rain]

Hi This is lady rain

I am very upset at the way life is going for me. I really need a love spell, but in many cases they don't work. I have work with the weather, and others lives both worked out fine as of spells. Now I want to ask us Pagans for a love spell or something to help me.

The overwhelming feeling of love actually came to me when I was dateing Tom. I think for the first time in my life I feel in love. No I am not 14 years old (18), so I can honestly say and explain what love is. Our relationship was perfect, no fighting, we had fun, and life for me for the first time was happy not stuck in a depression. He broke up with me for reasons I accept but now in my life I am unhappy and alone. You see I have no friends not one! If I did I wouldn't wast the time. I am bored, have a Job where there too I work alone. I am graduating high school so vactions a huge and I have to work my butt off for college. I need a friend to sit there and tell me everything is ok, Also to cry on some ones shoulders makes me loved. You see I am going to the school of Visual arts in NY though I live on SI I can never make friends do to the 3 hour travel stuff.

Help me someone there is other conflicting problems that are making me blue, I really want to be happy again, if I get TOM back my world and love will be filled of joy and happyness!

Blessed be I'll post more when I am not crying at my pathetic life.

Lady Rain

[Yvonne Belisle]

I am not trying to make light of how you feel but I want you to think about it. Real love must come from the heart not be forced or commanded. There would always be something missing and no you wouldn't notice it at first but in time you would. There will come a time when you find someone that has that magic in their heart for you and although the wait maybe lonely it is worth it. I have one friend who is horribly lonely she knows that the special someone is out there and she won't even date unless she finds him. I hurt for her in her lonelyness and I hurt for you as well. I will keep the wish in my soul that you find that someone soon. Don't loose heart.

[gunner]

lady rain, i grew up on staten island, way back before they built the bridge and i've had a lot of rides on that ferry back when it cost a whole nickel to get across to "the city". if you need friends you've come to the right shop, one way or another we've all been through what you're feeling now (me included!) and we've pulled through, or are pulling through it. you are not alone, even though we're out here at a keyboard you can find people here that do really care about you. give them a chance.

[MammaStar]

Hey Lady Rain. Believe, me we've all been there. Myself included. I know how it feels when it seems everything is so hopeless. So dark, you can't even see the starlight. Then, something, anything, a bird singing, a childs laughter, snaps you out of it. You see the sun shine again, you start to smile again. And the next thing you know, someone smiles back at you. It's gonna take some time (for me 5 years), but you CAN DO IT. Go to college, do things that make you smile and make you happy. Not cause you want to meet that special someone, but because you WANT to. That's when love will come back into your life. But always remember, Love Yourself first, and love will find you. :heartthro

[MistOfTheSea86]

Don't Worry I know exactly how you feel. I used to think that since I am an Empath I have experireince in all emotions. But this feeling was so indiffrerent. It was sorta scary. At first I ignored it, but then I saw the person I was in love with walking across my way. It felt as if a thousand knifes were stabbing my heart, then a huge torch was cauterizing the wounds then stabbing it yet again. It felt this way because I didn't even know the person! It hurt so bad. It went to butterflies carresing my heart. TO knives and torches. It hurt even worse when I knew that it was not possible. Almost the exact opposite. I even considered suicide. And before that I even considered a love spell. BUt believe me when I say that that should never be used. It will hurt you even worse when the spell comes back at you. I wouldn't know if anybody could survive that. Don't worry love will find you. I beleive in it fulfilly, and know that one day it will pass my way And all my regrets and fears will pass away. It may be a painful process. But one that I know you can endure. It will find you. If you believe in it enough.

[Semele]

You do have friends...many of them right here!! Sorry you are having a rough time. Just remember it always gets better, then worse then better.. The eternal ebb and flow that is our lives. Learn to ride the waves and appreciate the good times more!!

[Xois]

Lady Rain

a love spell will only help you if it is a "self" love spell. Let the guy loose. Move on. It was so hard for me. I was broken up with and had the entire summer ahead of me. I sat in my room feeling sorry for myself. I just kept saying, as soon as I get back to school, i'll be fine becuase I will be busy. I coudln't sleep, I couldn't eat. I developed Hyprothroidism and went down to a size 8 (very unhealty for a woman my height and bone structure)

And then one day, it just stopped.

I went for a walk by the ocean and it was all better. I don't know exactally what changed.

Doing a love spell will not help you.

If you feel like you need help or you are in crisis, please seek professional help. (I start thrusday ;) ).

We are here for you. Please take care of yourself. There is no magick love pill I am afraid.

Love
Xois

[SeekerSandy]

Young Lady Rain; Xois is right on the money. You have to love and believe in yourself. Without that, you can't properly love anyone else, not truly and deeply. Once you learn that most important lesson, you will realize how insignificant this temporary feeling is.
You will become stronger and more experienced with the years ahead and not let yourself be worked up into such a state. Or allow it to happen at all.
For what little my advise is worth, a quiet session with the Goddess and Horned Hunter, being open and honest, will work much better than any spell. You are in no condition to work magickal spells right now anyway.
Things will get better, trust in the stars and yourself!;)