Your opinion please....

[Rævyn Cigány]

How would you feel if you knew one of your children was destined to love and honour the Goddess but you also knew just as well that your other two children could go either way? I have always said that I would never push any of my children into one faith or another, and that I would let them choose when they were old enough to do so. My real problem is this~how would I deal with a son(s) who may or may not be taught that their mother is 'bad', or she is into 'bad' things? I'm not saying this is happening now, far from it, but I anticipate it, because as of this moment, only myself, my brother and an aunt of mine are pagan...everyone else is Roman Catholic. I would appreciate any thoughts or suggestions you all can give me.

Many blessings and much love to you all

Rae )0(

[Rævyn Cigány]

*sigh* good Gaea...I've already posted this elsewhere in the forum! I definitely need more sleep!! :( but still, more opinions would be much appreciated :)

BB

Rae )0(

[Myst]

I'm afraid that might happen no matter what. I can imagine my children going to school only to learn Witches are make believe, or worse, just like I did. I hope I can keep an open dialogue with them and show them that Mommy doesn't sacrifice animals or ride a broomstick, and I sincerely hope they will gain the courage and confidence to stand up to people who might belittle them.

[Andrea Goodman]

I have the same fears, but I believe that if you seat down and talk to the chidren, and explain to them that everyone has their own faith and things that they believe. And to never force their faith or opion onto other and to keep and open mind that all of are children should be find with our believes.
Sincerely
crystal7515

[Socharis]

Originally posted by Andrea Goodman
I have the same fears, but I believe that if you seat down and talk to the chidren, and explain to them that everyone has their own faith and things that they believe. And to never force their faith or opion onto other and to keep and open mind that all of are children should be find with our believes.
Sincerely
crystal7515


I agree

[tigger759]

i have to agree with crystal!
It's hard i know as my daughter will most likely grow up roman catholic as i want her to make the decision when she's ready.
But that goes back to what will i do if my child isa gay/lesbian will i love them any less?? Thats how i look at it and my answer is no! NO matter what they decide when they get older you will accept to a degree because you love them. They are your children just inform them. Let them read and find out what is good for them.
Good Luck!!

[Rævyn Cigány]

Thanks all SO much for your input...and yes, tigger, I know exactly where you're coming from. I refuse to be like my own mother who figures it's her mission from God to bring her heathen, devil-worshipping children 'back to the Light'. Whether my sons are Christian, Pagan or Taoist Alchemists, I will love and nurture them, no matter what! :D:D:D

BB

Rae )0(

[bloodstone20]

I read this and think that instead of sheilding your child, you should show them. Not having any religious experiences won't help them to choose. Take them to church, let them be in a ritual with you. Let them bulid experiences, as this will help them choose. One time at church and another at ritual is <B> not </B> a good thing for choices.
Just my 2 pents.

[Swanspirit]

Merry Merry Raevyn,
It simply doesnt matter,,,,,,,,,my sons, and my daughter arent all pagan , and it doesnt matter..... it simply doest matter, all that matters is whether or not what they are doing is fulfilling and satisfying to them.
Love and HUGS and future Happiness for your children
Swannie

[random]

Originally posted by bloodstone20
I read this and think that instead of sheilding your child, you should show them. Not having any religious experiences won't help them to choose. Take them to church, let them be in a ritual with you. Let them bulid experiences, as this will help them choose. One time at church and another at ritual is <B> not </B> a good thing for choices.
Just my 2 pents.


ditto

[Andrea Goodman]

Hello all of you again

I do want to teach my children wicca and let my children chose their only faith, but the people in my small town is very hard headed. They think that everyone should go to church and wicca is a great sin to do. My children could not share there faith with anyone but me. I did not find my right path until I was 17 or 18. I had always felt out of place when I was took to a church even today I am uneasy with it. I want to teach but I also don't know how to explain it to my children. Thanks for your opions. Chat to you later.
crystal77515

[bloodstone20]

Teaching them about the core beilefs first. Say,"There is one being, The All. The All is in everything, hence the name. The All is both male and female, and neither. Some Pagans, Like me, break the all down Into a God and Goddess. A Man and Woman that are The All, and deities with great power."
Then maybe tell them some mythology, and then say.
"ON the other hand," and explain some of the beilefs of other religions.

[Andrea Goodman]

Hello bloodstone20

I guess you found the easies way to teach them. I really did not think about teaching them that way. I will try these out and get back with you all. Thank You again.
Sincerely
crystal77515