Son of a B_____

[nomadicdragon]

OH MY GOD!!!!!! MY exhusband(we've been apart 4 months) and he comes over to get his fish tank and he brings a girl... and this is a girl he has been dating.. and he met her while we were still married. OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT AN A**H**E

sorry for the language but that really just ticked me off and it kinda hurt too... :dis:

[Lunacie]

Oh good grief. That was just wrong! You're so much better off without someone like that in your life now.

[nomadicdragon]

Oh good grief. That was just wrong! You're so much better off without someone like that in your life now.


totally..

[Xander67]

*hugs*

For what it is worth, not all guys are like him...

[JWill0ws]

What a jerk!

Honestly, I agree. He seems pretty insecure, to me. You deserve better.

My ex hubby pulled something similiar 3 months after the divorce. I just laughed in his face, despite feeling the tinge of pain you feel now. It has been 7 years now - and he is still a cheating jerk and I feel so much better inside and out without him.

Keep in there :huddle:

[nomadicdragon]

What a jerk!

Honestly, I agree. He seems pretty insecure, to me. You deserve better.

My ex hubby pulled something similiar 3 months after the divorce. I just laughed in his face, despite feeling the tinge of pain you feel now. It has been 7 years now - and he is still a cheating jerk and I feel so much better inside and out without him.

Keep in there :huddle:


agreed

[Xander67]

The head should be present and the heart should listen to it now and then...

Mr Campbell was a smart man :) I saw his mini-series the power of Myth, it was amazeing!

[nomadicdragon]

The head should be present and the heart should listen to it now and then...

Mr Campbell was a smart man :) I saw his mini-series the power of Myth, it was amazeing!

indeed he was... i love his books.

[Fairywolf]

Hang in there! If you ever need someone to talk to I am here. Just PM me or email me. I know what you are going threw! :hugz:

[nomadicdragon]

Hang in there! If you ever need someone to talk to I am here. Just PM me or email me. I know what you are going threw! :hugz:


thx.. careful i might take you up on that offer.. i'm ok.. it just kinda made me angry you know..

[Phoenix Blue]

**Soft smile** Understandable. But like JWill0ws said: if he roamed on you, he'll roam on her, too. It takes a lot of willpower not to cheat, especially for a man who's done it already. Frankly, I don't think he'll bother exerting it. . . **shrugs** it's not much of a consolation, but maybe it's something.

[ajna]

Well I'm not the voice of reason here...
I think he should have his most precious parts carved out in a very painful way.

[Bainidhe Dub]

**Soft smile** Understandable. But like JWill0ws said: if he roamed on you, he'll roam on her, too. It takes a lot of willpower not to cheat, especially for a man who's done it already. Frankly, I don't think he'll bother exerting it. . . **shrugs** it's not much of a consolation, but maybe it's something.

Exactly... like my aunt always told my cousin and I.....

"Once a cheat, always a cheat."

*hugs* I'm sorry he's such a butt. Grab a cup of tea and we'll chat sometime - my ex just told me he's now dating someone five years younger than I am & he met her while we were still together - where I work.

[Flar's Freyja]

That son of a b****

Sounds a lot like my ex. You know, in my work, I have a strict rule that people can't bring boyfriends and girlfriends to visits with their children. It's amazing how many want to do that just to p*ss their ex off.

[nomadicdragon]

Exactly... like my aunt always told my cousin and I.....

"Once a cheat, always a cheat."

*hugs* I'm sorry he's such a butt. Grab a cup of tea and we'll chat sometime - my ex just told me he's now dating someone five years younger than I am & he met her while we were still together - where I work.

yeah i agree... i am better off now... but i feel foolish.. I feel really foolish... like i should've known.. i'm normally a great judge of character..but i guess no one is perfect

[nomadicdragon]

**Soft smile** Understandable. But like JWill0ws said: if he roamed on you, he'll roam on her, too. It takes a lot of willpower not to cheat, especially for a man who's done it already. Frankly, I don't think he'll bother exerting it. . . **shrugs** it's not much of a consolation, but maybe it's something.


it is something.. i feel bad for her.. i think that one day.. he's going to be a very sad old man and his daughter is going to have a rough life because of it. and me?? i'm going to be happy.

[*GrumpButt*]

oh my my my!

What a pr*ck!

That was totally uncalled for!
I think all he wanted was to say:
"Hey look what I can get, now that were not together."
thats not cool...
If you need to talk, you know to pm me, orrrrr

whitedragonfire1@aol.com

[nomadicdragon]

That son of a b****

Sounds a lot like my ex. You know, in my work, I have a strict rule that people can't bring boyfriends and girlfriends to visits with their children. It's amazing how many want to do that just to p*ss their ex off.


I know.. yet there are no children involved.. at least not between him and i..

[nomadicdragon]

oh my my my!

What a pr*ck!

That was totally uncalled for!
I think all he wanted was to say:
"Hey look what I can get, now that were not together."
thats not cool...
If you need to talk, you know to pm me, orrrrr

whitedragonfire1@aol.com


andi nterestingly enough, she was that pretty.. in fact she was quite ugly.. not is usual type.. but whatever

[Aidron]

This is so typically tacky. Honestly, did he need her to help him move a fish tank? Unlikely. Where people come from when they think doing 'this' sort of thing is reasonable eludes me.

I would have told her to wait outside and that she, much like him, was not welcome in my home and the only reason he was even allowed in was so he could get his filthy crap.

What a moron... :rolleyes:

[nomadicdragon]

This is so typically tacky. Honestly, did he need her to help him move a fish tank? Unlikely. Where people come from when they think doing 'this' sort of thing is reasonable eludes me.

I would have told her to wait outside and that she, much like him, was not welcome in my home and the only reason he was even allowed in was so he could get his filthy crap.

What a moron... :rolleyes:


yeah.. but i was still sticking with the.. I didn't want to sink to his level kind of deal... the whole thing just sucked.. i think he's just upset because i've basically pretended that he does not e xist for the last few months.. maybe he was trying to get my attention or something..

[Fairywolf]

thx.. careful i might take you up on that offer.. i'm ok.. it just kinda made me angry you know..

I am always here!!! :)

[nomadicdragon]

I am always here!!! :)

thanks ((hugs)) :hugz:

[DanuMoonrunner]

That just sucks ND! What a childish thing to do. But ignoring it is the best way to handle, never let them know they got to ya!
(((ND)))

[Hawk Shadowsoul]

ND, he sounds like an immature, selfish peice of s**t and your life should be so much better off without this little boy around. Stand up and grow some big, brass ones and eliminate any further reason for him to exist in your life!

[nomadicdragon]

ND, he sounds like an immature, selfish peice of s**t and your life should be so much better off without this little boy around. Stand up and grow some big, brass ones and eliminate any further reason for him to exist in your life!


actually have already done that.. the fish were the last thing... With the exception of the court hearing for the divorce.. i don't ever have to talk to him again.. and I don't plan to.. my life is much much better without him..

[FaerieGothMommy]

He done that to try n make you jealous, i hope you didn't show no signs of jealousy! otherwise he would have known that it got to you!
But thinking about it, if he done that to me i probs would have gone mental!!! ... I can have a short temper at times,

I don't blame you for getting peed off!

[WitchJezebel]

What a Jacka$$!! Let him keep his insecurities Hon, you don't need his B.S. at all. Glad you're moving on, you're better off for it.

I will say tho, if he has to come to your home again for any reason Nomad, you tell him in no uncertain terms that he is not to bring his "friends". You've no dealings with her, let her butt sit outside and wait.

[Xentor]

I even feel sorry for the girl. Getting caught between two divorced people as the pivot of attention... not a position I'd like to be in.

:hugz:

[Stillwater Spirit]

What was said about a new person being caught between two divorced-or seperated-people is very true. I have been on both sides of that fence, and I can honestly say it is terrible. The original thrill of feeling "so special" that the other person was left for is quickly replaced with the doubts, and ultimately the reality that now, the game is turned against you.
The rats don't change...just move on to someone new who hasn't herd their bull$h!t before.
Chin up! Next time he "remembers" something and wants to come get it(hhhhhhmmmmmm) :lol: , leave it outside, lock the place up and go have fun somewhere with a friend.

:shift:

[kewlhippiechick]

I'm so sorry...what a butthead!
Immature and insecure doesn't even BEGIN to cover what he is!
Hugs, sweetie. Hang in there...

[Pesha]

Oh sweety, am hugging you. What a jerk your ex is. And how insecure he is also that he felt he had to flaunt a new girlfriend in front of you. That is so stupid and served no other purpose but to try and show you up. And he did not succeed, just proved you are so much better off with out him. HUGS.

BB
DS.

[Jenne]

You're right, he's an a-hole. :hugz: hang in there Babe...we're here for ya!

[Sequoia]

what a total jerk.

My ex-fiance did that kind of a thing to me. Actually, he left me for a girl I'd introduced as my friend, about a month before. They started cheating on me, and actually were out to dinner and such, and he had the nerve to say that they were talking about me, discussing how he could keep us together. . . :bad:

There are far better fish in the sea, sweetheart! *big hugs*

[dragonprotector]

*hugs*

For what it is worth, not all guys are like him...


I agree with Xander, we arent all bad. Hang in there and hopefully you'll find a good guy to be with.

Blessed Be and Good Luck,
dragonprotector

[nomadicdragon]

I'm so sorry...what a butthead!
Immature and insecure doesn't even BEGIN to cover what he is!
Hugs, sweetie. Hang in there...


my brother's girlfriend has come up with a nickname for him.. dickhead.. cause butthead is what we call her ex.. lol but yes he is...

[nomadicdragon]

What a Jacka$$!! Let him keep his insecurities Hon, you don't need his B.S. at all. Glad you're moving on, you're better off for it.

I will say tho, if he has to come to your home again for any reason Nomad, you tell him in no uncertain terms that he is not to bring his "friends". You've no dealings with her, let her butt sit outside and wait.


yeah.. i've determined that he as no need to be in my house ever again.. and i didn't even tell him waht my new address is..