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Pesha
November 18th, 2003, 03:04 PM
Two years ago I was living in Kanab Ut. It is in the very southern part of the state and I put myself into a rehab hospital to try and help my legs. Well I was allowed to put all my things except for a few I took with me, into a friends storage shed and was assured of their safty. I also stored alot of my sons things there as well. We tried several times in the last year to go down and retrive the stuff but moety and having the time stopped us. I received several phone calls from this friend that the shed had been broken into and all my witchy things including all my library and ritual things, were gone or totally destroyed by vandels. Well this friends mum died a few months ago and I called her and asked about my things. SAhe again said do not worry I locked the shed and no one can get in, just let me know when you can get it out. Then she disappeared on all of us. Finally we found someone to go down and yes indeed the shed was locked and we could not find my lost friend. Last weekend my sons friend went back there and all the sheds and the old mobile home where gone, the property cleaned up. Obviously sold by this other person. And no word from her for so many months.

What hurts is that some of the things are shells and stones from Australia. Irreplacable for me. It hurts to see al my things gone, all my good clothes, all my books, all my natural things. And yes I kick myself alot for not having gone down sooner and tryed to get the stuff, but as I said time and sadly money where not there. A very sad lesson learned. A very sad lesson for me and well I will not be as trusting anymore. Well it is after all my fault. sighs. Sorry for whinging, but just needed to see it in print and own it.

BB
DS.

RubyRose
November 18th, 2003, 03:11 PM
((hugs)) Aww, I'm so sorry to here about all your stuff being gone ... that'd be a tough thing to have to go through

WandererInGray
November 18th, 2003, 03:14 PM
:hugz: I so know how you feel, Hon.
The only thing that got me through the robbery was to grieve for the stuff (and I still do at times) then realize it's a) only stuff no matter how important it seemed and b) it's gone forever so I can't let it torture me for the rest of my life or just let it go.

*soft smile* Your mileage with this tactic may vary.

It sucks, massively. *hugs again* And I'm so sorry that someone else had to go through it. :blech:

jennymac
November 18th, 2003, 03:28 PM
((hugs)) I'm very sorry about your stuff.

~*Ginger*~
November 18th, 2003, 04:59 PM
(((((((((Dragonsinger)))))))))))

WynnJera
November 18th, 2003, 05:04 PM
I am sorry that this happened to you ((( hugs )))
:huddle: Dragonsinger :huddle:

13thChylde
November 18th, 2003, 05:05 PM
:huddle: hugs to Dragonsinger. I am so sorry about your belongings.

banondraig
November 18th, 2003, 05:08 PM
(hugs)

FlyingBear
November 18th, 2003, 11:13 PM
:sniffsnif

:rubhead:

:sadeyes:

:loveydove

Findarto
November 18th, 2003, 11:37 PM
ah man, that's F'ed up.

Now you have to buy all new stuff, and your fav stuff and precious stuff is gone, I feel for you.

Energy Sent to you.

Kalika
November 18th, 2003, 11:41 PM
:hugz: I'm sorry hon....

Everything happens for a reason... maybe there are greater things for you in store, and a time will be coming when you will not need those things, because you will be provided with new.... That really stinks though, and I know its hard to see anything positive in the experience at the present time.

I know there is emotional value to the things you lost... I hope that you remember all of the things, so that even if you cannot see them, you can hold them in your memory.

Blessings,

Kalika

FeatherGoblinglimmer
November 19th, 2003, 08:30 AM
Huggles(((dragonsinger))). No one can take their memory away though hun. You will always have that:)

Xentor
November 20th, 2003, 08:45 PM
:huddle:

(((Dragonsinger)))

I'm a very materialistic person. Some of my things are very personal and I'm very fond of. Some took great many years to collect. I don't know how I'd react when they were really taken away, but right now I'd say let them have it all, I don't care, I can replace everything or move on.

But that's just me. I never get too attached to anything.

Calyx
November 20th, 2003, 10:38 PM
*hugs*

I'm really sorry about your stuff. I know that sucks!

But you are still OK, and although you can't replace any of your treasured items, hopefully you will find that there are other, just as great things out there for you.

I feel for you. I know how upset I would be if that happened to me.....

Blessed be,
Calyx :floating:

Xeen
November 20th, 2003, 10:56 PM
Gaw *huggles*
It sucks that you lost all your stuff. That would absolutely kill me. I love my stuff. It's not much, but it's mine, damnit.

Too bad you had to learn not to trust through this experience, though. :-/

Autumn
November 20th, 2003, 11:00 PM
((((((Dragonsinger))))))

Hugs hugs and more hugs...I am so sad that your stuff is gone...

Parasites
November 20th, 2003, 11:00 PM
that pisses me off!!!!!!!!! :rant: :rant: :rant: :rant: :rant:
ARRRRGH!!!!!! Is there some way you could track down this person,then take them to court? I wouldn't let them walk all over me.
Man, i don't know how to send energy,but my heart is with you on this. I really wish i could help financially but i don't even have an allowance....
:colorful: anyways atleast you still have your self left.I don't know what to say that could comfort your loss,especially the being-used by that woman.I'mreally sorry that happened.Listen to some Smiths,or morrisey(it's lightly sad music but not depressing),maybe it will help you cope,or let you feel calmer...i don't know i'm just rambling.Gahhh.I should shut up now.

Parasites
November 20th, 2003, 11:03 PM
:sniffsnif Hope you feel better.

DanuMoonrunner
November 20th, 2003, 11:06 PM
Wow Dragonsinger, I'm really sorry to hear this! It is tough when you lose everything precious to you, but it makes room for more stuff to come into your life. We had a fire 3 years ago and it really does hurt an awful lot to think of what you lost. Just remember the things you didn't lose and focus on being thankful for that!

Hoot
November 20th, 2003, 11:16 PM
(((Dragonsinger))) I'm sorry this happened to you. Sometimes losing a beloved object can take more time to recover from than a physical illness. And even though it could seem odd right now, it may help to think of what Kalika said - that everything happens for a reason - and that in some odd way this may work out in your best interests, whether you discover the reason behind it or not... But I'm sorry you're hurting.

Cerulean
November 21st, 2003, 01:26 AM
I'm sorry that happened. It is NOT your fault. You stored your stuff with a friend when you were in rehab, for Godsake. We have to be able to trust people for the world to work . . . .otherwise we all become too closed to have a successful society. And who would think that someone would steal magical supplies. Talk about bad karma. I hope she gets what's coming to her.

Pesha
November 21st, 2003, 12:30 PM
As much as I beleive in Karma and the three fold law, I hope all is well with this former friend. She has had her share of bad luck and heartache. So I guess I have to go forward. This just came at a bad time for me. Ah well Stiff Upper Lip and all that rot.

BB
DS.

PeleRising
November 21st, 2003, 11:09 PM
Im sorry that your special things are gone!!!!:hugz:

IndigoMoon
November 22nd, 2003, 12:42 AM
(((((Dragonsinger))))) That's tough to go through. When I lose things I try to think of it as needing to move on. Sometimes its a signal for me to let go of a certain part of my life.

Scarlettvixen
November 22nd, 2003, 06:46 AM
hugzzz hun

kewlhippiechick
November 22nd, 2003, 07:08 PM
:huddle: To you Dragonsinger. I understand what you're feeling. Much the same happened to me. What kills me the most is that I lost the little undershirt that the hospital gave me when I brought my son home. If it helps at all, always remember that these cherished items live on in your heart.

Blessings to you...