Decision

[Gala]

I need to make a decision. It is a very difficult one to make. I need to decide if I really want to do this. I have considered it before, but I finally met someone today who has done it. I don't know if I would be up to it now. I don't know if it is right for me.
I would rather not say what it is.
Do you guys have any suggestions for a way to make this decision and then know that it is right.
I tend to second guess myself. To talk myself out of signs and answers that I got from the Divine, or Fates or whoever gives us the answers.

[Semele]

While I can't really tell you any answers or how to reach them, I can offer a prayer and some energy for you while you are trying to make this tough decision. May you find clarity and the answer soon.

[Autumn]

Sometimes it helps to write out the question, and the choice you want to make and write a list of pros and cons to each approach as well as the possible outcomes.

or you could turn to a deck of tarot cards and explore options that way.

you could do both

I will light a candle for clarity for you.

[Aine of the Fae]

Sometimes it helps to just have someone to talk to. So if you want to chat you can reach me on AIM at unearthlymirage or yahoo at gwynnelacey or msn at velvetmirage@msn.com

[Xentor]

If you have to ask yourself, do I want to do this, then you've already reached the answer.

:hugz:

[Hoot]

(((Gala))), like you mentioned, I think we all avoid or second-guess what we see in front of us sometimes. Sending you energy to discover all your options, instinct and wisdom to choose what's right for you, and courageous resolve for following through. You can do it!

[Pesha]

{{{{GALA}}}} sometimes when I have make a big decsion, I go off and have what I call a Big Think. And I let my first instincts guide me. For me that has always worked. Energies and love sent to you sweety. PM me if I can help ok.

BB
DS.

[Gala]

I am still deciding but I am also reading your posts and thinking. Kevin and I will have to do some major thinking on this one. Thank you all.

It helps to know that you guys are there thinking about me.

[Calyx]

Gala,
Do some soul searching and then trust your instincts when you make a decision. They are probably right.
Lighting a candle for peaceful thoughts, since others are helping clarity.
PM me and let me know if there's anything I can do to help.

Good luck and hugs! :huddle:

[IvyCeltress]

Sometime when I am confronted with a dilemma, I try to project into my future self. I try to decide what actions or decisions, even if they are difficult in the short, I would be proud of when my future self looks back or or what actions I would be ashamed of.

I hope that helps.

[Antoninus]

Well, the more you hesitate, the harder a choice will be. All you can really do is draw your sword, grab the gods's hand and charge in swinging.

[SylverStar]

If you have to ask yourself, do I want to do this, then you've already reached the answer.

:hugz:
I kind of agree with this statement.

[Gala]

Originally Posted by Xentor
If you have to ask yourself, do I want to do this, then you've already reached the answer.



I kind of agree with this statement.

I would normally agree with that statement, but not in this case. This is a life altering, decision. It could only bring happiness and joy, but my age is a factor. As is my financial situation. And my health. Am I up to it. It could also potentially NOT be good for another party.

I know I am being very vague but I would really not want to share right now what the question is.

At any rate everyone of you have given me great advice and I thank you. Perhaps I should go to the tarot board and get a reading.

[WynnJera]

Tough choices are tough for a reason hun :huddle: I am thinking of ya and your road ahead :)

[Thistle]

Do some soul searching, and then follow your heart. (((((((Gala)))))))

[Hoot]

Yup, Thistle said it. Still thinking of you, (((Gala)))

[FeatherGoblinglimmer]

Huggles and energy for clarity sent to ya hun(((())))

[Gala]

I did a rune search the other day and posted the runes in divination but havne't heard anything back.
The answer sounded like it would be a good thing.

[Flar's Freyja]

Sometimes the best decision is no decision - if it's right, things will happen that will make the decision for you.

[mothwench]

:hugz: hugs, gala... i'll send energy to help you decide- whatever it is. and you can add me to the list of people you can pm if you need to talk. :)

[Gala]

Just wanted to let you guys know that I have made my decision. I have decided not to do what I needed to decide on.
I just don't think I have the stamina to carry it out.
I know you guys are in the dark, but just let me say that you helped alot. and I appreciate it.
Thanks.

[Hoot]

Sending you love

:huddle: