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Isis
July 7th, 2001, 02:50 PM
Hello all,

It's Isis yet again with a request. I'm having a problem with a superviosor at work. She's had it out for me since I started at the company, and things have gotten worse in almost two years.

I've tried talking to her, reasoning with her, and I've bound her a couple of times. I'm trying to face down the issue without the use of magick, however its becoming increasingly hard. She's a woman of no reason.....she bypasses the b-word and heads straight to the c-word. I've got a trash mouth and I never ever use that word.

Before you ask, I've got an interview with another company. I feel so confident and positive about this company, and the interview.

What I want is to finish up my time at this place without strife and drama, and then successfully and quietly move onto my next job.

Your prayers would be greatly appreciated. I love feeling that Pagan strength ya know? So thanks for your assistance on tis one. It's greatly appreciated. You guys are fabulous.

isis

quixote
July 7th, 2001, 03:36 PM
MM, Isis,
I've been in a similar situation before and know how bad it can get. My prayers are definately with you. It's great to hear about your interview-things can only get better
Blessed Be,
quixote

Isis
July 7th, 2001, 10:29 PM
Quixote,

Thanks sooooo much!!!! I really needed that. How did you handle your issues? I mean this woman dispises me, and its actually gotten to the point of being rather funny.

Thanks to Bast and Anubis, I held my cool, and was completely protected in our meeting. It was rather amusing watching her become exasperated with her calm demeanor.


Isis

solwicca
July 7th, 2001, 10:56 PM
MM Isis,
I'll light a candle for you tonight and ask the goddess to make things as easy as possible for you.
I've been there too, it's actually surprising how many people are out there that aren't happy unless they're making someone else misrable. Sad really.
Blessed Be Solwicca

Isis
July 8th, 2001, 10:02 AM
MM,

Guys, I always forget to say MM, or MP so you have to forgive me, LOL.

Thank you. You know my spirit is strong right now, I feel really, really good, about the entire situation, ya know? Please continue the prayers, and thank you so much for keeping me in them.

BB

Isis

Rævyn Cigány
July 8th, 2001, 10:19 AM
You've got my prayers and thoughts too...ever think of instead of binding her, shield yourself? Shielding is hard to do in a stressful environment, I know, but hey, why not give it a try? And if all else fails, put your nose to the grindstone and IGNORE HER!!! She's obviously looking to boost herself by dragging you down...I'll keep my fingers crossed for you and I just lit a candle and asked She who listens to me to grant you that new job...!!!!

BB and many good thoughts

Rae )0(

EasternPriest
July 8th, 2001, 11:35 AM
I had a supervisor like that several years back. I knew from the moment our eyes met, that he didn;t like me. Soo, I did the best I could, and prayed for a ring pass not around me. I eventually ended up leaving, but it felt good not to feed his problems in the process.

Prayers and blessings your way!

Isis
July 8th, 2001, 11:40 PM
MM,

Hello all! I'd like to thank all of you for the prayers and let you know I feel so strong, positive and good, ya know? Thanks guys.

I've taken the protection sheild advice, and I love it, feeling that power now, thank you for that.


MP,

ISIS

cybele
July 9th, 2001, 02:52 AM
Isis,

Instead of magick to contain her nastiness have you thought of magick for yourself? You are leaving soon so the best course would be to ignore her and be robotically polite and pleasant. Could you cast a spell for (on) yourself? If she is out for you for whatever reason you can do no good, be neutral for the short horrid time you are there.

Perhaps a "I am rubber and you are glue" spell would be in order? ( kidding ) Maybe something so she is not sounding so shrill, or your tolerence for fools is doubled for a short time. Maybe a soothing song can play quietly in the background while she speaks or when her name is mentioned?

Good luck and I will send you strength.

Blessings,
Cybele

Myst
July 9th, 2001, 02:04 PM
A deflection spell is always good - ie. the rubber and glue thing.. :)

quixote
July 14th, 2001, 07:08 PM
MM, isis,
I am very glad to hear how well things went, and youre very welcome. I havnt had anyone be that nasty to me in a very long time but at the time I just left the job-I realize now that my co-workers knew on some level that I wasnt going forward anymore, so they made my life miserable untill I left. the job I had , had turned into a dead end and although they were horrible to me, I would not be on the path Im on if they hadnt been. Other issues Im still learning how to handle.
BB
quixote

Twig
July 14th, 2001, 07:23 PM
You know, there are some people who are going to cause you strife no matter WHAT you do. They will not be satisfied until they have made your life a living hell. Usually, these are your supervisors. I call it the Napoleon Syndrome. Why:confused: Because they KNOW they hold power and wield it viciously.

My advice:
1- Talk to them
2- go to the next higher up in the chain of command and file a grievance
3- Get that other job and, on your last day, announce to everyone present [with THEIR supervisor near]what an ASSHOLE this person really is and get it all out of your system so your concience can be clear and everyone knows why you're REALLY leaving! :crazy: :D 8O 8O 8O

Then you can leave in...

Peace,
Twig
:elf: