Help im traped

[Silent Whisper]

Merry meet all. i was wondering why do people talk about me like im a outcast im a person just like them just different from them because i have a gift from the god and goddes and i love who i am just because im a witch dose not mean im a bad person only if they could understand. can you tell me why people are so mean to thows who are different from them...blessed be:rolleyes:

[random]

Hey, cheer up.
You don't have to fit in, there are lots of amazing "outcasts" out there. That happened to me, and these outcasts are now my best friends. They are the best, though some might be a bit too proud and arrogant. But, what can you do?

Just hold your head high and stick with it.
Great things could be in your future. Never know. Might find someone exactly like you.

:)

and welcome to MW, enjoy your stay!

[Niamh]

Hi SW. I don't think any of us around here really know why people can be so mean. We were talking about this in another thread, and I think it comes up quite a bit. People are all different, so there are as many different reasons as there are people.
Do you have a core of close friends with whom you can talk, etc?

[Sephiroth]

people fear wat they dont understand whisper. they need to learn wat u are and how u act, but they will fear u until u stand up and tell them that u are the same besides of the religion. u are human just like them. i believe that everyone has a gift just some dont know that they have it.

[Silent Whisper]

Thanks guys at lest i now your my friends i just wish people would open up Greow up and like people for who they are and not what they do8O

[Rick]

You can be Primal Sceam here, if you like. You are safe & amongst friends. If anyone here makes you feel otherwise, just let us know. We embrace diversity.

[Silent Whisper]

thanks for the help guys i know now what to say next time this happens......tell me if you ever had anything like this happen to you:)

[Rick]

...well, my ex told my family that I was a satanist, & did black magic. I saw no point in trying to correct them, if they wanted to believe her (even they though they all know better). Sound familiar? I look at it as their loss, not mine. BTW, I'm an Odinsman (more commonly referred to as Asatru).

[Shy Hawk]

Hey Rick, have you ever heard of Primal Scream therapy?

[evilslinkycat]

yeah some people are just downright mean... I went throught hat in high school, its not alot of fun, but somepeople don't understand and never will. Personaly, even back then I was glad thta I wasn't like everybody else:p and had fun being the school freak LOL
Don't let them get to you to much

[Skye]

Try not to let others get to you, I know this is hard.....but


Off the subject, I lived in Spokane-Cheney, for along time...where are you at.....Isn't is beautiful country:D

I miss it:(

[rantnraven]

Originally posted by Silent Whisper
thanks for the help guys i know now what to say next time this happens......tell me if you ever had anything like this happen to you:)

Those that are self-righteous bore me. They deserve NOT my energy in defense. I am true to myself within my path. I seek solstice in that.

A very loved and wise man, and Dear Friend, told me once, "I have lead you to water and so shall I, now, lead you to fire. If it gets too hot, at least you know where the water is. Thus, you can attain balance." - Kalisius (with a "K").

With love and balance,
RnR

[Myst]

"can you tell me why people are so mean"

fear of the unknown and what they don't understand.

I'm reminded of a quote from one of our favourite movie characters, "fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to the dark side", also stated as "fear leads to stress, stress leads to pot, pot leads to twinkies"...:) I remember being ostracized through school as well; I think everyone is at some point or another. I didn't wear my pentacles to school for this reason, but they just found something else to harass me about. Try to ignore them because they don't matter - the only people who do matter are those who care about you, and the people who care about you accept who you are!

[Silent Whisper]

hey skye so you live in spokane. thats cool i live in the Vallye part i used tolive in the citiy ulgy part of town anyway thats for the replys people keep um coming blessed be:)

[sherry]

Originally posted by Silent Whisper
Merry meet all. i was wondering why do people talk about me like im a outcast im a person just like them just different from them because i have a gift from the god and goddes and i love who i am just because im a witch dose not mean im a bad person only if they could understand. can you tell me why people are so mean to thows who are different from them...blessed be:rolleyes:

WELCOME to the Family:) :heartthro
I agree people do fear what they do not understand!!
All of us here have been exactly where you are right now, and some still go through it daily. As you get clearer on your path you will be able to explain to those you choose to and more comfortable to walk away from the fools who will not understand if you wrote it in kindergarden english.

I have got to admit as I get more and more comfortable with who I am I seem to be drawn to people who are just like me!! And not as scarey to others because I feel complete in what I am. The confidence you put out in front of you tends to make them uncomfortable in who they are, so they will ask less and less questions.

My family was the worst at this sort of feelings, they are all baptist and are affraid of me going to HELL for what I have become. I ask them how can I truely go to a place I do not believe exists, If it were possible I would be living in Cinderellas castle now wouldn't I? (instead of painting my own bathroom today!!)

Keep up your possitive spirit only you know the goals you have set and do not let anyone change your mind. We like you for who you are, and we are your family too!!

[Sunday's Child]

Fears compund when you look to others to supply what you believe you must have but cannot create.

[Mariposa De La Luna]

:sunny: :sunny: :sunny: Merry meet and welcome!!!!! :sunny: :sunny: :sunny:

The problem is you have no problem, get it? The ones who try to put you down have the problem. They obviously only feel better about themselves when they pick on others. They are trying to avoid thier own problems and fears by taking it out on someone else. They are the ones trapped by listening to what others tell them is right instead of thinking for themselves.

You are unique and special and they are not. Welcome home!