I need a reading again

[Mariposa De La Luna]

OK me and my husband are working on making our marriage healthier but he feels there's one little wrinkle he can't quite put his finger on. Could someone(s) please do a reading for us. His name is Eric and he is a Virgo my name is Michelle and I'm an Aries.

Thank you much in advance. :D

[silvrsnstr]

Tho it would be helpful if you were talking to me, I'll throw them anyway.
You: 5 of cups. This represents lonliness and loss. Are you sad over spilled milk. Clarity: 8 of pents: You are in the process of making something, building it, and really putting your time into it. Your work is almost done, it just needs a second coat.
Your husband: 6 of swords. This card is blind chance. Is he focusing on the task at hand? This also means a journey. Maybe you should take a break, and go to the local amusment park. Hzve fun. Clarity: 7 of cups. This means that there are alot of choices about, and the one that is best is not the prettiest. Think things over.
Needed Actions: Page of swords. Be more funloving, and enjoy the simple things. Dance in the meadows. Maybe do a fun little ritual on the New Moon. Neaira and Helios meet at sunrise, and they are husband and wife. Maybe you need to reach a hight spitituality. Clarity: 7 of wands: Seek high ground. Lawyers, or someone equally ugh, choices and persoal battles are on the way. Maybe you should plant the seed of happiness on the new moon.
Clarity: PAge of Wands. Be strong, swift, and enduring in your actions. Clarity, 2 of swords. Choices, choices, choices, blind chance, and all the other little goodies are on the way.

Kinda grim, huh. Sorry.

Blessings,
Crimson StarRaven

[Mariposa De La Luna]

Thank you so much for giving it a throw :)


Originally posted by silvrsnstr
Tho it would be helpful if you were talking to me, I'll throw them anyway.
You: 5 of cups. This represents lonliness and loss. Are you sad over spilled milk.

This is not clear but

Clarity: 8 of pents: You are in the process of making something, building it, and really putting your time into it. Your work is almost done, it just needs a second coat.

Yes this is what the question was about


Your husband: 6 of swords. This card is blind chance. Is he focusing on the task at hand? This also means a journey. Maybe you should take a break, and go to the local amusment park. Hzve fun. Clarity: 7 of cups. This means that there are alot of choices about, and the one that is best is not the prettiest. Think things over.

i don't know if he is focusing but trying to. And the Journey may mean the gathering coming up. We both know that the right thing can be the hardest to do. Not as bad as it sounds.


Needed Actions: Page of swords. Be more funloving, and enjoy the simple things. Dance in the meadows. Maybe do a fun little ritual on the New Moon. Neaira and Helios meet at sunrise, and they are husband and wife. Maybe you need to reach a hight spitituality. Clarity: 7 of wands: Seek high ground. Lawyers, or someone equally ugh, choices and persoal battles are on the way. Maybe you should plant the seed of happiness on the new moon.

OK


Clarity: PAge of Wands. Be strong, swift, and enduring in your actions. Clarity, 2 of swords. Choices, choices, choices, blind chance, and all the other little goodies are on the way.

Kinda grim, huh. Sorry.

Blessings,
Crimson StarRaven

I don't think its as grim as it looks. No good leads though huh?
Thank you kindly :D

[Mariposa De La Luna]

C'mon people anyone is welcome. Even if its your first time. :) I don't bite. :D

[Dagda Moon~Lily]

I'll do a quicky reading for you when I get home from work tonight. :D

[Kiya]

I drew two cards for you, with the second crossing the first, and used a signifier (The Lovers, obviously!) to represent your marriage.

The first card I drew was the 2 of Cups - this seems to me to be the partnership you two have. I feel that there is plenty of love there, and all SHOULD be ok.

The crossing card was the Devil - this is telling me of bondage (no, not like that!) It feels like one of you is holding on too tight, maybe being too clingy or emotionally demanding, and this is holding you both back from nmoving further along with your marriageSomething is binding you into a pattern that you've been comfortable with, or used to in the past, but it isn't the best thing for either of you. Perhaps you need more time on your own individually? Maybe just to take some 'me-time' to read, veg out, but just learn to be comfortable on your own.

OK, I prefer doing readings at home in front of my fireplace than surruptitiously under the desk at work, but I couldn't ignore a MysticWickkan in need!

Hope everything works out ok,

love and light

[Mariposa De La Luna]

Thank you so much Kiya! :D
The Devil is my husband! :eek:
Taking some time for ourselves seperately might be what he couldn't put his finger on.
Thank you again. :D

[Kiya]

I just hope it was useful! Hey, no matter what anyone says, nobodies relationship is ever perfect. My SO and I fight like cat and dog - but we wouldn't be without each other. Except when he DOESN'T REPLACE THE TOILET ROLL WHEN HE USES THE LAST BIT!!

big hugs!

[Mariposa De La Luna]

Yes it was useful!
Me and Eric get about as perfect as a couple can be but he doesn't get the toilet paper roll thing either! At least he can put the seat down so I don't complain too much.

[Myst]

My fiance's ex used to have a FIT if he put the roll back on the wrong way 'round. Maybe that's what your SO's are afraid of? :)

When he does those little things that drive me nuts like leaving crumbs on the counter, milk and bread tabs on the counter, or leaving the dishes in water over night so it's a cold tub with a film of scum the next morning, I try to remember my mother's advice. Which is to remember when these things happen why you began to love him in the first place - these little things will soon cease to matter :)

[Dagda Moon~Lily]

Sahm,

I drew a card for you and it's the 2 of WANDS. ;)

This card means: personal power, boldness, originality.

I feel that one of you has more control/power in the relationship than the other. There is a need to balance this power.

You hold the world in your hands, yet you are still "seeing what's out there". You may be oblivious to what you have because as the old adage goes....the grass looks greener on the other side. Sometimes you feel as if life is passing you by....and you feel closeted away, and you feel that yes, you have everything, but there is a need for more. There is a loneliness I feel with this card also, it goes with the bound/kept feelings.

I would advise to bring the boldness and originality of this card into play. Spontenaity goes a long ways in relationships, keeps them fresh and alive! Be creative and do crazy, funny little things for each other!

Hope this helped!

~D

[rantnraven]

Originally posted by SAHM
C'mon people anyone is welcome. Even if its your first time. :) I don't bite. :D

Sorry I didn't get to this earlier.

3 card spread: Past, Present and Future.

I won't consentrate too much on past but I will say this, 7 of Shields tells me that there were riches there. Not money, persay but, something of great value to you. You seem to have left most of it behind and took a little with you.

Present: King of Spears. That which you took from your past, you hold dear to you. So much, I feel, that it is complicating the matter. I see something that you may be placing in front of you that you want to let go but cannot. Not right now anyway.

Future: this is dificult - 8 of Swords. That which you carry from your past may be your nemesis. I see a binding of sorts. A type of inprisonment that you will find dificult to escape. Let it go, that of your past. It will enhance your future.

Calrifier: Thought to throw this in at the last minute. I selected three random cards from the deck without looking at them. I tossed them in the air - two landed face up and one, face down. That shall be the clarifier. The Horned One. Great power is within you. You may need to meditate hard on the issue. The animal you seek is a Fox, there is power in that. You will prevail but not without trial and/or tribulation. There will be a price tag so be prepared to pay.

Sum it up: You have the strength within you to survive. Self preservation is not the point, Focus your healing energies on that which is special to you. You can, and will, conquer. Let go of something from the past. You seek balance and, summarily, must make a sacrifice.

Goddess be with you Sissy, this was not easy.

Rant

[Mariposa De La Luna]

Thank you Brother, it wasn't easy for me either but neither is life. :)

[Mariposa De La Luna]

Originally posted by Dagda Moon~Lily
Sahm,

I drew a card for you and it's the 2 of WANDS. ;)

This card means: personal power, boldness, originality.

I feel that one of you has more control/power in the relationship than the other. There is a need to balance this power.

Too true


You hold the world in your hands, yet you are still "seeing what's out there". You may be oblivious to what you have because as the old adage goes....the grass looks greener on the other side.

Yes and no

Sometimes you feel as if life is passing you by....and you feel closeted away, and you feel that yes, you have everything, but there is a need for more.

Yep, but I'm working on it. :)


There is a loneliness I feel with this card also, it goes with the bound/kept feelings.

I would advise to bring the boldness and originality of this card into play. Spontenaity goes a long ways in relationships, keeps them fresh and alive! Be creative and do crazy, funny little things for each other!

Hope this helped!

~D

Thank you Dagda! It did help. :D
I'm already working on some of those things but you made the "why?" clearer to me. :)

[Mariposa De La Luna]

Thank you silvrsnstr, Kiya and Dagda so much!
You have all helped and are very talented. :D

[Kiya]

Me blushing here!

:bigredgri

[Myst]

I pulled only one card from the Faerie Oracle deck, which was the Dark Lady (she actually jumped out of the deck when I was shuffling). She suggests to me something is hidden on your part. You're clinging too hard and jealously too - it's like you're still looking around but you don't want him to know because that'd be giving him permission to look around too. Definitely you need to take some personal time to reflect on what you need from the relationship and whether you're getting it or not, and if you're ready to commit to this one guy. JMHO. I've been there too, good luck..

[Mariposa De La Luna]

Originally posted by WillowRaven
I pulled only one card from the Faerie Oracle deck, which was the Dark Lady (she actually jumped out of the deck when I was shuffling). She suggests to me something is hidden on your part. You're clinging too hard and jealously too - it's like you're still looking around but you don't want him to know because that'd be giving him permission to look around too. Definitely you need to take some personal time to reflect on what you need from the relationship and whether you're getting it or not, and if you're ready to commit to this one guy. JMHO. I've been there too, good luck..

I don't think this applies. I don't cling to my husband in that sence. He also has my blessings to "look around". And I've already took the time to look at my relationship with him.

I'm sorry but this was way off literally. OTOH I can see where some of this fits.

Thank you but I also don't need anymore readings on this thread :D

[Myst]

Ah, she was reversed. That's why.

NM I understand what it all means now.