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ladyrowan
July 19th, 2001, 04:20 PM
i received this e-mail recently and i kinda liked it , hope you do to.
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Subject: You May Have Read This Before: But Please Read It Again
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To all of you... Make sure you read all the way down to the last sentence-most importantly the last sentence!
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There once was a little boy who had a bad temper.
His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.
The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of
nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.
Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his
temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.
The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there."
A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.
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Friends are very rare jewels, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share words of praise and they always want to open their hearts to us.
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Please forgive me if I have ever left a hole in your fence.
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HAPPY FRIENDSHIP WEEK TO YOU - YOU ARE MY FRIEND AND
I AM GLAD!

loopy
July 19th, 2001, 04:21 PM
I'd read that before, a long time ago. Definitely a good one to re-read though. :) Thanks.

Amora
July 19th, 2001, 04:47 PM
I never read that one before. I really like it.... makes you think.

sarhea
July 19th, 2001, 04:56 PM
Wow, great food for thought....Mind if I snatch it? I have a friend I'd like to send it to.*smile*

EasternPriest
July 19th, 2001, 05:04 PM
hmmm...have a few places myself that I may forward this to. Thank you!

ladyrowan
July 19th, 2001, 05:16 PM
Please feel free to send this on to friends.
I received this from a good friend, and immediately wanted to send it on to another - my first husband who i hurt deeply when i left him 25 years ago (we're still very good friends)
I didn't know when i sent it to him that his 2nd wife had left him the day before. He said it meant so much to him to receive it at that moment, maybe your friend needs it too?

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Rævyn Cigány
July 19th, 2001, 05:50 PM
I love this story!!! Thanks for posting it!

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Mariposa De La Luna
July 19th, 2001, 08:43 PM
Thanks for the story! i know a friend I can send it to too :)