My Empathy Is goin Haywire I think!

[MistOfTheSea86]

YOu see I have a best friend. WHo before, I had a huge Crush on, mind you. Well anywayz that crush has long since past. But now my Empathy is telling me something. That he likes me! I am so confused because he is one of the Straightest guys I know! Could I be confusing this with my own emotion for him that has past? Could it be him just loving me as a friend. I am lost! My empathy is confusing me! I hope this was the right place to put this. HELP ME!:p

[Emerald Sky]

Hmmm... maybe you can try to do a tarot reading about it... or just wait it out and see... or just ask him! ;) I know, I know, that's not so easy.

[Myst]

Originally posted by MistOfTheSea86
I am so confused because he is one of the Straightest guys I know!

Hm sometimes it's hard to tell. You could do some divination and see and continue to be friends then wait it out. Which is hard, I know, but....

[MistOfTheSea86]

I think I am going to ask the cards (When I get em Back!:D ) Then I guess I will try some other form of Divination. Pherhaps I should meditate. What would be a good inscence for this?

[Sighing_Softly]

Actually I really recomend that you dont use divination for personal events or ones that you are emotionly involved with, as it is human nature to subconsciously project the desires and fears etc onto the reading, both in what the physical layout is and what u think the translation is. This aplies for all divination forms and it is highly unlikely that anyone can truthfuly say they dont have that problem as if they had that strength of mind control they would be almost at ascended master level! (well at least, veyr spiritualy advanced to the point wheere they would not need a tool to focus the psychic faculties)

[Kaylara]

If you want I can do a reading for you on it...

Kaylara

[MistOfTheSea86]

It would not be an inconvience Kaylara...

[SimplyStrange]

Who knows Mist, maybe he's bi? I mean, you say he's straight, but that's because he likes girls. Perhaps he likes guys too, and he's using his straight side as a beard. Or maybe he's just becoming closer to you, since you are his best friend, and beginning to crush on you because you are the exact type of person he'd like to be with. Either way, a reading sounds like a good idea...

~ iSS! ~

[MistOfTheSea86]

Let us hope a reading will help:)

[slvr_phoenix]

Or you could just flat out bluntly ask him without imposing any expectations on the question. If you think you might lose the friendship over it, then it couldn't have been a very good friendship to begin with, and who better than himself would know the answer.

[SimplyStrange]

Originally posted by slvr_phoenix
Or you could just flat out bluntly ask him without imposing any expectations on the question. If you think you might lose the friendship over it, then it couldn't have been a very good friendship to begin with, and who better than himself would know the answer.

I agree with the fact that if this ruins it, it wasn't a good friendship. But how do you just ask your straight best friend if he's gay? I mean, you'd think that since they're best friends, he would've told him by now.

[MistOfTheSea86]

I forgot about it, It was just me... Because there is no way, that he can SSSOOO drool over Jessica Alba and still like me....