Should I be "seeing" signs from my sister?

[annie]

My older sister passed away in January. I have two other sisters that I'm close to, but I was was closest to my sister that died. My othern two sisters and several other members of my family have gotten "signs" that they know came from my deceased sister. I haven't gotten any kind of those signs from her, and I wonder if there is some reason why I don't? I don't know if this is the right section of the website to ask, but I was just wondering if any one might have a clue. I feel like there must be something wrong with me that she doesn't want to "visit" me. Could there be signs and I just don't recognize them as signs?

[Rævyn Cigány]

Okay, I'm treading on REAL thin ice here, but here's my two pence on the subject:

It may very well be that your sister has sent signs to your other family members...I won't try and dispute that...but here's what I'm thinking: if you were the closest to her, she is waiting to send you some sort of sign that you absolutely cannot pass off as anything else but her. It could also be that (and please don't think I'm trying to put down your family, because I'm NOT) your family only thinks they're seeing signs from your sister in the fog of their grief. Do this: next time you're alone and/or meditating, try to 'summon' her. Ask her to tell you what is going on. Don't be surprised if you get an answer!!!

My sincerest condolences for the loss of your sister. May she rest in the arms of the Goddess until she is put on this Earth again.

BB

Rae )0(

[Silver Venus]

Hi Annie, nice to meet you and have you here :)
I am so sorry about your sister and your whole families grief. She is with the angels now and will be at peace and with harmony remembering you all.

I think only you know the real answers to that question, and meditating like Rae said would be a good way to tap deeper inside your heart and open your mind. & maybe try to look deeper into your dreams as she could be telling you something in these.
Also have you thought that because you were the closest to her she knows you are strong enough to cope with this tragedy and believe that she is with you regardless of the signs?

Love and Light to you and your family,
:heartthro & :sunny:
Silver

[Rick]

Welcome, Annie

Do you think sister might just take for granted that, due to your closeness, you wouldn't need a sign of reassurance of her nearness, as the others might?

[annie]

I want to say thanks for the ones that have replied so far. You have made me feel better. I know this is stupid, but I was feeling guilty because I felt like she was skipping over me, but what all of you have said makes a world of sense. Hopefully I will get the hang of meditating quickly, because I would like to be able to bring her in my thoughts that way. Thanks again!

[Silver Venus]

Im glad your feeling better Annie ((Big Hugs)) :)

[Amora]

Hope I'm not too late to jump in but I have a similar situation. My father passed away nine years ago and has sent signs and messages in different forms to others in my family. He has never once come to me. But somehow I know why. I don't need the reassurance, like Rick said. My mother and sister still cannot get over it so he spends his time with them because they need him most. It doesn't mean he doesn't love me or that I don't love him it's just that I'm stronger with these sort of things then they are.

Be reassured your sisiter IS there whenever you need her most.

[Ellegon]

My mother passed away in July of 1999 and I 'felt' she was trying to reach me somehow. My father said he talked to her several times and she answered him through his 'third eye'. I wanted to try to communicate also, and a shaman friend of mine suggested I try to contact her just before going to sleep at night. Here's how it works for me...

I empowered a Lapis-Lazuli stone with energies for communication and clear thought. Each day before bed, I work 3rd, I hold the stone in my receptive hand and visualize my mother's image and meditate on her thoughts. Then I ask the 'powers-that-be' to open the planes for us to communicate. Then I place the stone under my pillow and think of her as I fall off to sleep.

I don't always get a response, but when I do, I know its from her and immediately enter the info from her in my dream journal.

Give it a try...it can't hurt. Good luck!

Blessings and Light!

Elle )0(