My Stand

[rantnraven]

Many of you know where I stand with my ex-wife. However, she is going into surgery tomorrow morning for an ovarian syst(sp?). I beg that you pray for her. Here color is purple and she is a Cancer that just turned 31. I couldn't find a purple candle since I just found out but I will burn one red and one blue. I hope that will sufice.

There is still, and always will be, a scense of compassion. I am not to be held harmless - I have fouled as well.

Blessingsm by the Goddess, that she come through well and without harm. Of this I pray.

Thank you all and Blessed Be,
Thoma

[Rævyn Cigány]

I have a purple candle at home that I will light for your ex-wife as soon as I get home....Goddess grant her a quick operation and a quicker recovery.

BB my friend...my thoughts are with you

Rae )0(

[Myst]

May her surgery be quick and safe, and her recovery complete and speedy.

Though I have no physical purple candle I will light one on the astral plane.

Brightest blessings be to her.

[reanna]

You bet doll.
Lighting away and again as soon as I wake tomorrow.

[rantnraven]

I shed tears and don't really know why. I still love this person and wish no harm.

Thank you for your warm wishes and candle magick.

I will print this post and take it to her tomorrow night - along with a cup of homade chicken soup; made with you, and your love, in mind.

Blessed are you,
Thoma

[reanna]

You shed tears because she will always hold a small place in your heart. That is what happens when we develop any kind of relationship.
Hugs to you for your strength and compassion in her time of need. Even despite your differences in past. It takes "true hero type" stuff(for lack of a better explanation at this hour:)sorry for the lack of eloquence) to forgive and forget, which is exactly what you have accomplished. You are a knight in shining armor. Don't let anyone tell ya any different, or I'll come down there and "pop" :) ya one:):):D:D:):)
You are a truly kind soul down to the inner depths of your being. I am humbled and happy to call you friend.

[Sequoia]

I too, have no physical candle, but I light one on the astral for her. May everything go well and may she recover quickly. Please tell her she has many friends here, who may not know her yet, but who wish her the best and are beside her. **happy healing vibes her way**

And yes, I think everyone whom we get close to stays in our heart, even if we come to dislike them or be upset by them. . . they're still a part of us, and always remain a part of us.

warm fuzzie huggles to the both of you,

~Puma Hime

[Faery-Wings]

If I weren't married, I would snap you up in a heartbeat. :)

I will be thinking and praying for your ex. And for you too. Let us know how she fares.

Take care, hon.

Chris

[mol]

Strength to your wife, so she may know no harm..

And to you my friend...

[Danustouch]

My prayers are with you and your exwife. I know how it feels...my exboyfriend developed some really bad tumors after we broke up, and the cancer spread into his lymph nodes. I was worried sick...and it felt odd, to not be "with him" in his time of need. So I will light a candle for her and for you. Best wishes, hon....

[rantnraven]

Not how you would think, though. This is from the tears that run down my face a fall to my lap as I read your words. I really have no words for the warmth I am feeling here. Can hardly even type, let alone see.

Thank you all so much. She and I have had our differences but, I will always love her - just now in a different light.

Thank you dearly for your thoughts, candles and prayers,
Thoma

[random]

Goood luck with the surgery, shall the best come to both of you. Luck and Best Wishes.

-christy-

[rantnraven]

She may not like this but, if you would like to send her an on-line card, I think this would be great.

Her address is CrackedActr@davidbowie.com

Just mention that you know me, I guess.

Thank you all,

Thoma

[Semele]

I sent her an email wishing her well. if she gets mad i'll have your neck!!! J/K!!! Hope you are holding up ok. I am sure she will heal fine and be back to normol soon. do you know if they were gonna go in laproscopically or cut? Just curious...different healing times usually. Let us know friend!

[Merrie]

A little flame, a lot of hope being sent your way.
Best of wishes, we're with you, Rant.

[rantnraven]

She sounds pretty okay but is short of breath. One more candle can't hurt. I told her that this community is pulling for her.

Started the chicken soup a little too late so I won't be seeing tonight but, I have printed out your posting and she will have them tomorrow.

Thanks for all your support. I'm sure it's not that big of a deal but, you all know what an emotional sap I can be.

Blessings,
Thoma

[Sequoia]

I'd like to send her an e-card but I feel a little sheepish because I don't know her name.

*huggles* I'm glad she's doing well. Take care of yourself too, I know that things can get really stressful so don't forget that it's hard to help if you aren't in the best condition. Take care! :) *hugs*

~Puma Hime

[rantnraven]

For those who wish to send an e-card or email, Her name is Stacy.

Blessings and thanks, she sounds very weak,
RnR

[EasternPriest]

I pray for skill,caring, and excellance on the part of her surgical team. May God guide their hands and hearts as they operate on your ex-wife.

Blessings....

[Lavender]

Hey Rant! I lit some sandalwood incense for your ex. I asked the healing energies of the herbs to go her way. I sprinkled purple larkspur flowers at the base. :)