*Adia*
July 27th, 2001, 11:44 PM
Hey everyone.
*HUGE HUGS TO ALL* Thank you all so much for taking the time to reply to my post about the icky situation I'm in right now. I took all of blessings and words of encouragement to heart and love you all for it! :) :) :)
Alrighty. I thought I'd give you a bit of an update since it has been a couple of days. Last I left off was describing the night that Amanda and her friends totally messed up Aiden's house. So, that night we talked basically all night long and discussed how each other felt about it and what we should do. I wasn't really surprised by how he felt. He was angry at Amanda, angry that she would do such a horrible thing, angry that she would try to get to him by tearing my apart, and really, REALLY angry that she would go and hold my religious choices against me by making me seem like such a terrible person. But at the same time, he kind of felt that because she had been such a 'best friend' for so long...that why would she lie to him and so on. That devastated me to no end..just thinking that he would do exactly what Amanda and her friends had wanted him to do.
I then expressed how I felt to him. How I was angry, and hurt. That I felt it was going to pull us apart.
Anyhoo...its late and i'd love to get this message out to everyone asap so I'll speed things up a bit. After telling each other our feelings, we slept on it and got together the next morning. Went right over to Amanda's house...and made her listen to us. After a long time, hours really, of finger pointing...yelling...screaming...crying..you name it, it happened...we finally had a break through. We found out why she really did it. Her friends just went with it really, they couldn't care any less either way. She wanted to basically break us up because number one, she's jealous of Aiden and my relationship. Number two...because I was supposedly "different". And that's bad..especially because of my religion choice. And finally, the most shocking one of all...because she wants a change of religion. She wants....*breathes in deeply..* to be a witch. Like me. Man, it gets me even when i'm TYPING it!
I couldn't even believe it. I didn't know what to say to that at all. And neighet did Aiden, so we left and went back to his place. But mn the way out the door, I told her that she needs to get her life in order. Find out what she really wants...and how she's going to get that. WITHOUT destroying people's happiness or tearing them down on her way. I think she has to work on that first...before she can even THINK of speaking to me ever again.
Once we got back home, we talked some more..and our relationship is going even BETTER than it was before, if I can even imagine that. :) :) :) We now treasure our time together even more, spend much more time together *if that's even possible!;)* and the best part of all of this, is that we both realized just how much we love each other. And Aiden told me that for the first time that night. :)
Looks like its bed time for this one. Thank you all again for helping me through this situation. I love you all for it!
Brightest Blessings!
Adia
*HUGE HUGS TO ALL* Thank you all so much for taking the time to reply to my post about the icky situation I'm in right now. I took all of blessings and words of encouragement to heart and love you all for it! :) :) :)
Alrighty. I thought I'd give you a bit of an update since it has been a couple of days. Last I left off was describing the night that Amanda and her friends totally messed up Aiden's house. So, that night we talked basically all night long and discussed how each other felt about it and what we should do. I wasn't really surprised by how he felt. He was angry at Amanda, angry that she would do such a horrible thing, angry that she would try to get to him by tearing my apart, and really, REALLY angry that she would go and hold my religious choices against me by making me seem like such a terrible person. But at the same time, he kind of felt that because she had been such a 'best friend' for so long...that why would she lie to him and so on. That devastated me to no end..just thinking that he would do exactly what Amanda and her friends had wanted him to do.
I then expressed how I felt to him. How I was angry, and hurt. That I felt it was going to pull us apart.
Anyhoo...its late and i'd love to get this message out to everyone asap so I'll speed things up a bit. After telling each other our feelings, we slept on it and got together the next morning. Went right over to Amanda's house...and made her listen to us. After a long time, hours really, of finger pointing...yelling...screaming...crying..you name it, it happened...we finally had a break through. We found out why she really did it. Her friends just went with it really, they couldn't care any less either way. She wanted to basically break us up because number one, she's jealous of Aiden and my relationship. Number two...because I was supposedly "different". And that's bad..especially because of my religion choice. And finally, the most shocking one of all...because she wants a change of religion. She wants....*breathes in deeply..* to be a witch. Like me. Man, it gets me even when i'm TYPING it!
I couldn't even believe it. I didn't know what to say to that at all. And neighet did Aiden, so we left and went back to his place. But mn the way out the door, I told her that she needs to get her life in order. Find out what she really wants...and how she's going to get that. WITHOUT destroying people's happiness or tearing them down on her way. I think she has to work on that first...before she can even THINK of speaking to me ever again.
Once we got back home, we talked some more..and our relationship is going even BETTER than it was before, if I can even imagine that. :) :) :) We now treasure our time together even more, spend much more time together *if that's even possible!;)* and the best part of all of this, is that we both realized just how much we love each other. And Aiden told me that for the first time that night. :)
Looks like its bed time for this one. Thank you all again for helping me through this situation. I love you all for it!
Brightest Blessings!
Adia